Family matter vs couple’s personal matter: Abhira 😁 - Page 2

She locked them in a room to sort out their issues and talk it out?! Yeh log pichle 26 saal se ek saath hai, had a child together inspite of all the up-downs..! phir bhi what made Abhira think they never spoke to each other behind closed doors all these years jo ab karenge..!

Room mein band krke patch up karao kitna childish idea hai, and it's supposed to be a bahu

armaan and ak both made a child.marriage happen jail mein dalo

Originally posted by: Ambajee

She locked them in a room to sort out their issues and talk it out?! Yeh log pichle 26 saal se ek saath hai, had a child together inspite of all the up-downs..! phir bhi what made Abhira think they never spoke to each other behind closed doors all these years jo ab karenge..!

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

she might have thought if doors are closed they can do dingdong and unite 😷

Originally posted by: Ambajee

shows her character sketch is too childish! Vidya-Madhav are a couple who have too much past baggage, and it is better to leave them alone to deal with their marital problems.. professional marriage counselor keliye bhi yeh log nightmare hai, tho Abhira kya hi karegi!

Abhira thinks she is right and whenever somebody tells her she is wrong then she does what she is doing now. She won't stop.

She doesn't understand that vidhya is behaving like this because Madhav can leave her for any xyz person , keeps his ex's pic in his cupboard and it has nothing to do with abhira leaving the house but because as a wife she is not the most important person in her husband's life.

Abhira wants to be bezubaan ki awaz but here nobody is bezubaan. Vidhya has lost hope of beautiful life with her husband. Her behaviour may or may not be justified but it's understandable to some extent.

Originally posted by: viji2111

Abhira thinks she is right and whenever somebody tells her she is wrong then she does what she is doing now. She won't stop.

She doesn't understand that vidhya is behaving like this because Madhav can leave her for any xyz person , keeps his ex's pic in his cupboard and it has nothing to do with abhira leaving the house but because as a wife she is not the most important person in her husband's life.

Abhira wants to be bezubaan ki awaz but here nobody is bezubaan. Vidhya has lost hope of beautiful life with her husband. Her behaviour may or may not be justified but it's understandable to some extent.

Inka back story dikhaya nahi hai lekin itna toh dikh he gaya hai ki rohit/armaan kisi ki bhi parenting mai Madhav kuch khas involve nahi hua tha since childhood. Madhav se zyada Madhav ke bete ko vidya ne paala jisme usne bacche ki basic needs to cover kiye but emotional needs fulfill nahi kar payi kyunki it’s not easy to accept sautan ‘s beta 100% for any wife.

Acha laga jab woh yesterday yeh boli ki Armaan jab kid tha tab woh ghar mai Madhav ke sath aya and same Armaan ki koi galti nahi thi. Agar buri hoti toh yeh line kabhi nahi bol paati.

Right now vidya Madhav ke efforts ko bahot baar dismiss karti dikhi hai but ek baat yeh bhi hai , I don’t think woh kisi bhi bahu/beta/family members ke liye Madhav ko chodne ki baat bol sakti hai.
Aise efforts ka kya aachar dalna jaha ap biwi ke sath new start bhi karna chahiye ho and 10 din baad bahu ke liye biwi/ghar ko chod dene ki baat bhi karte ho.

Yeh Madhav jaisa bann raha hai waisa hai nahi and yeh vidya jo hai jaisi hai exactly waisi dikh rahi hai.

Originally posted by: viji2111

Abhira thinks she is right and whenever somebody tells her she is wrong then she does what she is doing now. She won't stop.

She doesn't understand that vidhya is behaving like this because Madhav can leave her for any xyz person , keeps his ex's pic in his cupboard and it has nothing to do with abhira leaving the house but because as a wife she is not the most important person in her husband's life.

Abhira wants to be bezubaan ki awaz but here nobody is bezubaan. Vidhya has lost hope of beautiful life with her husband. Her behaviour may or may not be justified but it's understandable to some extent.

Agreed. She's really impulsive and once she makes up her mind about something, she gets totally fixated on it and doesn't care what anyone else thinks. Irl, people might think she has some mental issues and should probably see a therapist. Locking up a married couple who clearly have issues in a room is just crazy. Plus, she's never been in a serious relationship herself, so why should she have a say in other people's relationships?

I think Kokilaben’s dialogue ‘Dusro Ke Maamle Mein Taang Araane Se Pehle Apne Girvaan Mein jhak Karr Dekhiye’ applies here..

Originally posted by: Criticiser

I think Kokilaben’s dialogue ‘Dusro Ke Maamle Mein Taang Araane Se Pehle Apne Girvaan Mein jhak Karr Dekhiye’ applies here..