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Posted: 2 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: bangtanARMY

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Why are you questioning Maasa's slap on Ruhi Birla? Like that was watching-movie-in-theatre-level scene that got played out smiley42


Haan Maasa, ek aur keech ke maaro uss Ruhi Birla ko, who is the promoter of adultery and homewrecking! smiley43


(and dont forget to kick that Ar too! smiley9)



Exactly that was the best scene

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Posted: 2 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

The marriage is legal.

Socially and also according to law since they both signed the court document for marriage.

As much as I know there is no contract marriage relevance in India.

Ruhi knows of one year because that’s what Abhira said to Armaan and Armaan conveyed it to her like a foolish man.

Whether she wants to tell the verbal deal to the Poddar family or not is upto her or both of them.

Deal is not being brought up by any one of them in regular talks apart from Ruhi.

She is respecting the sanctity of the relations she shares with Poddars till whatever time she plans to stay with them -whether it is for one year or lifetime.

So Abhira is definitely not faking it.

I’m not denying that their marriage is not legal.. if they want to separate or stay together it is upto the couple. But making the family believe that their marriage is for lifetime is absolutely wrong. How can her inner conscience allow her by seeing the family accepting her wholeheartedly as bahu. They think that she is his permanent wife and permanent bahu of that house.. whereas in real she knows and keep reminding herself and her partner that she will leave after one year. Respecting the relationships automatically comes when the other people start accepting you. It’s not a big thing. How genuine you are to the people who trust you is what matters. Ruhi is wrong in everyone’s eyes, so do Abhira. Their intentions are not right before the family. Even if Abhira change her mind (already changed) and both of them cancel the deal ( she is highly anticipating that Armaan may say it anytime which will not happen) and agree to consummate their marriage, trust of the family will be definitely broken when their deal truth comes even after years later. Armaan is above both of them giving hopes.

Real marriage is termed as legal but it also involves love, physical intimacy and finally consummation which they don’t have. If they consummate their marriage then I agree that they are not faking.

@Krinya: after a long time we are interacting, unfortunately on a with different opinions in this season smiley1

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Posted: 2 years ago
#53

I guess this debate will continue till this season remains.

A deal is a deal whether done verbally, on paper, with an eyewitness or in court. Both Armaan and Ab consciously took the deal. They both were adults, weren’t intoxicated or were held at gun point… just because they are leads and people wish to see their love story we can’t change the narrative as we want. Ab knew the consequences still made a deal so why it’s not her fault.. she could have accepted the marriage for life or stayed true to her words by not attaching herself to him or his family but she didn’t do both…. She got attached being fully aware she was breaking their trust, got the benefits of being Poddar bahu but still time and again stated it’s just a deal.

If Ab was a person true to her words and self righteous as she claims, one, she would have maintained distance from the family and two when Ruhi was being questioned or even before would have the guts to say that she has made a deal with Ar and after one year she will leave… but somewhere her heart knows had she done this she wouldn’t have gotten the little of respect she is getting now… But unfortunately Ab is both a hypocrite and coward… in a way it’s good only half truth was revealed yesterday because when the deal truth will come in front of the family, the same people who supported ab will brutally accuse her…

Posted: 2 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i hope when abhira gets slap across her face when she is held responsible for someone's death ppl still support Poddar's action. When just divorce paper is getting slap then death is a big thing.

Slap is slap. Ruhi has not murdered someone to get this treatment. Abhira on the other hand had no courage to confess she is in a contract marriage hence ruhi got divorce paper. If she was so good and tyaag ki devi sach bolthi.


Question is who is ruhi to get papers ? What right she has it's not about ab has courage or not or she has murder someone or not will she gets slap in future or not. I agree slap nhi karna chahiye tha.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Actors were keep on stressing on contract shadi in interviews. Respect the system of marriage first and next acceptance of relations. Whole family are accepting abhira happily. except dadi fufa are against her way Of dealing things not on abhira because when she is kept on threat they are praying for her they are not evil. Both ar and abhira are doing same contract shadi jaap. When he cant give her that status as wife he should just support her in studies and no need of leaning on her physically giving her butterflies. He should have kept that physical distance. Moreover he is aged man and abhira is young. Wont a man know how the girl is falling for him. He has mind on other things. For abhira if contract shadi no need to be a wife she could have stayed away from politics of house or giving warning to ruhi. Contract is a word to make ruhi have illusionary world and dreams more. Who is going to dump whom in this trikon dont know.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: viji2111

This reminds me that vidhya forgot her beloved son today. She wanted Roohi to be in poddar house so that she doesn't loose hope of Rohit's return. But today she didn't get Rohit's name dupatta ready for Roohi.

Does she consider Rohit dead now and still celebrating the festival?😄

yes it's closed by them. Vidya accepted the reality thats why against ruhi now as she is nothing for them. Her beti is a bahana only. Surekha said right words woh log tumhe beti mante hi lekin beti ki tarah nahi dekhte jaise hum dekhte hi. Whats ruhi when rohit is gone.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Susi26

I’m not denying that their marriage is not legal.. if they want to separate or stay together it is upto the couple. But making the family believe that their marriage is for lifetime is absolutely wrong. How can her inner conscience allow her seeing the family accepting her into the family. They think that she is his permanent wife and permanent bahu of that house.. whereas in real she knows and keep reminding herself and her partner that she will leave after one year. Respecting the relationships automatically comes when the other people start accepting you. It’s not a big thing. How genuine you are to the people who trust you is what matters. Ruhi is wrong in everyone’s eyes, so do Abhira. Their intentions are not right before the family. Even if Abhira change her mind and both of them cancel the deal ( she is highly anticipating that Armaan may say it anytime which will not happen) and agree to consummate their marriage, trust of the family will be definitely broken when their deal truth comes out even after few years. Armaan is above both of them for raising hopes in both the women.

Real marriage is termed as legal but it also involves love, physical intimacy and finally consummation which they don’t have. If they consummate their marriage then I agree that they are not faking.

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All that is fine my dear but who knows what future holds for them ? Abhira & Arman may decide to take this marriage seriously , instead of 1 yr ..they got married legally in front of akshara , so they can't dissolve it ..the court also gives 1 yr time , divorces can't happen right away whatever the reason is..


My only question was why the onus of telling the truth is on abhira alone ? Arman being their son must be more concerned for his family's feelings than anyone else but he has been lying 🤥 since when , so is ruhi , they have commited far serious blunder but im sure when the truth is out , the blame will fall on abhira only.... I hope abhira realizes that the family might be hurt when they know the truth & she reveals it herself . Infact..expose the soul mates & leave with her head held high...

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Posted: 2 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

I guess this debate will continue till this season remains.

A deal is a deal whether done verbally, on paper, with an eyewitness or in court. Both Armaan and Ab consciously took the deal. They both were adults, weren’t intoxicated or were held at gun point… just because they are leads and people wish to see their love story we can’t change the narrative as we want. Ab knew the consequences still made a deal so why it’s not her fault.. she could have accepted the marriage for life or stayed true to her words by not attaching herself to him or his family but she didn’t do both…. She got attached being fully aware she was breaking their trust, got the benefits of being Poddar bahu but still time and again stated it’s just a deal.

If Ab was a person true to her words and self righteous as she claims, one, she would have maintained distance from the family and two when Ruhi was being questioned or even before would have the guts to say that she has made a deal with Ar and after one year she will leave… but somewhere her heart knows had she done this she wouldn’t have gotten the little of respect she is getting now… But unfortunately Ab is both a hypocrite and coward… in a way it’s good only half truth was revealed yesterday because when the deal truth will come in front of the family, the same people who supported ab will brutally accuse her…

Forget about Ruhi.. did she even opened her mouth and told about the deal when Dadi was asking Armaan to leave the house.. she claims that he is the only person with whom she is attached to in that house.. how can she stay silent when Armaan was so affected from dadi’s decision on that day.. and upar se she went and gave dhyaan to vidya and made her go against Dadi.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anu234


Question is who is ruhi to get papers ? What right she has it's not about ab has courage or not or she has murder someone or not will she gets slap in future or not. I agree slap nhi karna chahiye tha.

I think Armaan can answer better than us smiley36.. with what haq she gave them divorce papers and why Armaan wanted to discuss about it even before 1 year only he knowssmiley2
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Interesting that people like to call Ab-Ar's legal marriage fake, are condemning the slap on Ruhi Birla, but find it's okay for Ruhi Birla to interfere between two legally wedded people smiley39


Ruhi Birla has no damn business interfering in Ab-Ar's matters especially when Ab REPEATEDLY tells this woman full of shamelessness to stay within her boundaries. Who the eff is Ruhi Birla even?


Aajkal freeloaderness ki bhi hadd hoti hai. Ruhi Birla was wife of 1 month of one of the Poddars son so she thinks she can overstay in that house freely and give her opinions freely and poke her nose into other people's matters freely smiley22

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