Slap Justified? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Krinya

Ur talking as if it happened already

If ruhi is courageous enuf to get the divorce papers , where was the courage to confess when vidya asked her ? Ruhi cud have spilled the beans and put a lid on Arman abhira shadi . What exactly stopped her ? Her maturity ? Mature enuf to get the divorce papers made & sign but not tell everyone why ?

Who said abhira is tyag ki devi ? She has been spilling the unfiltered truth for which ruhi & the rest of the poddars have a lot of issues bec she's the only one showing them the mirror. Deal or 1 yr or 2 yrs is between her and Arman. Why would she tell the truth? Whether or not they will divorce is between them. Who is ruhi and who are poddars to jump in ? 🤔

Even when we adopt a dog we tend to maintain some distance if we know we are not going to stay with the dog because we know it's heart will break. Here vidya is slapping ruhi just because she thinks ruhi is coming in between married couple unknown to reality that the married couple already have a contract between them.

Why don't she tell the truth. Is it because ppl stop giving respect or adoring her as a bahu? Why to fake it when you never had an intention to live with them.

She has fallen in love but armaan already has a gf. She had seen him hugging her. So still the reality does not change unless she confess her love and get a nod from armaan that he loves her too.

Her love is still "adha ishq,adha hai, adha hojayega"

Originally posted by: Susi26

I guess we both are watching different shows.. which person apart from Ruhi in that house knows that she will be there for only one year?.. until yesterday Her main purpose to stay with poddars is to build her career and become independent.. not to stay in marriage. If this is not faking her marriage before everyone I don’t know what it is called.

I'm sorry but it's not. There IS a marriage & its real ..very much legal.... There is no purpose to stay with poddars. SHE didn't choose any of it ..Arman promised her dying mother & he brought her in his house , promised to get her education complete and give her all the bahu rights..abhira only suggested that once her education is complete she'll leave coz she also knows the marriage was forced on Arman. ..this 1 yr idea was hers which Arman didn't refute... So unless both willingly & happily accept each other , no point in dragging it along.

Yes , the family is being kept in dark for which both Arman & abhira are responsible . But why make a big deal out of it ? Don't the couples separate in normal marriages too if they don't get along ?

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

abhira has no courage is not equal to ruhi has courage. She is dumb and coward. But not like abhira who has courage to speak all truths and can stand up against every thing but can not have courage to tell poddars that i am just here for 1 year do not get attached to me?

Even when we adopt a dog we tend to maintain some distance if we know we are not going to stay with the dog because we know it's heart will break. Here vidya is slapping ruhi just because she thinks ruhi is coming in between married couple unknown to reality that the married couple already have a contract between them.

Why don't she tell the truth. Is it because ppl stop giving respect or adoring her as a bahu? Why to fake it when you never had an intention to live with them.

She has fallen in love but armaan already has a gf. She had seen him hugging her. So still the reality does not change unless she confess her love and get a nod from armaan that he loves her too.

Her love is still "adha ishq,adha hai, adha hojayega"

Why adopt a dog agar alag rakhna hai toh?

So does the attachment of the dog or the owner goes away if they separate ? If vidya likes abhira she will continue to do so and abhira also won't stop caring for them if she's not living with them.

What's with the "heart break" ? Isn't vidya living without rohit ? right now she doesn't know ruhi & Arman are responsible for it . In normal circumstances also if the couple don't get along , they separate after months or few yrs toh kya mil and unki families depression ka shikar ho jaate hai? Ye sab chalta rehta hai shadi Mei so what ?

Abhira se shadi ka decision Arman ka tha.. Usko ghar laane ka decision Arman ka tha...apni family se sach chupane ka decision Arman ka tha..unhe dhokha Dena ka decision bhi Arman ka tha.. So Arman will tell the truth and anyways..why should he ? It's their personal matter. 1 saal rahe ya 6 months ya 6 saal ya kabhi alag na ho ..they can change their mind anytime

Who the hell is ruhi to decide divorce Kab hona chahiye?

Why can't Arman and ruhi tell the truth if it's so important ? apni family ki chinta arman se zyada abhira kyun kare ? Ye sab sach abhira hi kyu bole? Not just that , the truth about their so called soul love bec of which rohit left the house & presumed dead? There r many truths which ruhi only knows so why not start with that ?

Originally posted by: Susi26

I guess we both are watching different shows.. which person apart from Ruhi in that house knows that she will be there for only one year?.. until yesterday Her main purpose to stay with poddars is to build her career and become independent.. not to stay in marriage. If this is not faking her marriage before everyone I don’t know what it is called.

The marriage is legal.

Socially and also according to law since they both signed the court document for marriage.

As much as I know there is no contract marriage relevance in India.

Ruhi knows of one year because that’s what Abhira said to Armaan and Armaan conveyed it to her like a foolish man.

Whether she wants to tell the verbal deal to the Poddar family or not is upto her or both of them.

Deal is not being brought up by any one of them in regular talks apart from Ruhi.

She is respecting the sanctity of the relations she shares with Poddars till whatever time she plans to stay with them -whether it is for one year or lifetime.

So Abhira is definitely not faking it.

Ruhi deserved to be burnt ala witch style cause she's not lesser than witch slap was too less, what an irritating character she is.

There should be only fl ml and their happy family story no vamp no other person nothing.

Domestic violence is being justified because the character is kinda shitty? Wtf is wrong with this PH

When adultery gets justified, so why can't "domestic violence" get justified?

The bar is literally so low for Ruhi Birla to keep doing her besharam antics but if Vidya slaps a homewrecker who had no right to interefere in a legal husband and wife's matters and who continuously mentally harasses the husband to leave his wife, it becomes domestic abuse.

Originally posted by: Susi26

Slap is unnecessary

Actually All three should be slapped

Ruhi for running behind a married man, Abhira for faking her marriage but getting all the bahu rights and Armaan for giving hopes to Ruhi and be secretive about their past relationship to Abhira.

I know Abhira and Abhimaan’s stans will not agree but I’ve just stated facts. And all three are accountable for their actions.

@red faking marriage? She didn't "fake" her marriage, Abhira and Armaan got married with rituals, and witnesses and it got registered. Fake marriages don't get registered. People aren't married but pretend to be married in fake marriages. If Ruhi or anyone else addresses it as a fake marriage does it become a fake marriage? Abhira's verbal 1-year plan doesn't make it a contract marriage as it's not recorded legally. Abhira and Armaan have to sign divorce papers like any other married couple to get separated. She will get bahu's right even if her marriage with Armaan is for a month or a day. Abhira's isn't the only one not informing family about their verbal deal in real marriage Armaan isn't also informing them about it.

Ghar mein maa bahu ko mare to domestic violence depends on whom do you like more? Maa or Bahu?

There is justification for everything jo log karte hai uska reason bhi hota hai unke paas bas police danda marti to blame is on women

Originally posted by: Neha5785

No it's not okay and physical violence should not be justified

One can't scream abuse when your favourite gets pushed around and cheer when others are getting slapped

Ruhi is the character I dislike the most in S4 even more than Sanjay but I'm not in favour of slapping, pushing or throwing family members out be it someone as undignified and obsessive as Ruhi. In future, if Vidya gets to know about EMA and slaps Arman & Ruhi then it would be clear bias not to understand her maa ki maamta & pain the way Manjiri mata's pain was understood by few just because in the present scenario their favourite character Ruhi will be slapped/thrown out either by Vidya or Dadisa. Vidya also lost her son and couldn't even say goodbye to her son, she couldn't see his dead body (according to her perspective), because of Ruhi & Armaan (the same logic is applied here).