Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 04 Apr 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 29

I have not watched previous seasons. So lets say Akshara is to blame for the family separation etc etc But Even if we accept that Ruhi had a really tough childhood, has trauma and other issues- how does any of that justify her horrible behavior to Abhira time and again? The girl who lost her own parents and poppy is taunting another fpr not having a father. She is so graceless that she cant even see another girl- younger than her who just lost her own family bond a little with her P Nanu because she's so possessive. Wow. How does her past trauma justify her inability to take a stand for something right but have the audacity to taunt Abhira. How does that justify how she tries to manipulate Armaan and gharwaale to blame Abhira for things. How does that justify why she projects hate or anger irrationally on Abhira despite knowing the full truth? How does that justify why she cheated Rohit and married him to be near his brother. How yucky is that. And even now she's hitting on and pining over a married man and her BIL.

No amount of past trauma justifies her current bad behavior.

No in laws or great grandparents can take place of parents...Abhira had her mother till she turned 22 while Ruhi's parents were snatched from her when she was just 6..This is the major difference btw Abhira n Ruhi..Even Abhira takes out her frustrations on others so maybe she also needs to consult a psychiatrist.Abhira detest Yuvraj as he killed her mother so will Ruhi detest Abhira since Akshara killed her both set of parents..Why this hypocrisy that Abhira can detest Yuvraj but Ruhi shouldn't detest Abhira ?

What was that hug scene with ruhi i don't understand what makers needs to portray fine he was consoling ruhi as a friend then why did he cut abhira's call to portray that - in someone's life a friend's place is above than a wife's place

What is the need to fall abhira fall for ar that he can't prioritize her above ruhi

Agar ruhi ar ko well mein kudne ko kahegi kya woh khud jayega

Abhira detests the actual murderer and someone who attempted to molest her whereas Ruhi is gonna project her hate on "murderers" daughter who had nothing to do with anything. Moreover Akshara didn't actually murder Arohi. Even if she did do something reckless or impulsive theres a huge difference between accident that happened to kill Arohi (based on everything i read about prior season) and cold blooded murder which Yuvraj did.

Abhira hates the man that shot her mom in front of her eyes. She doesn't hate some innocent family member of the man. Initially she was upset at Armaan too because he came to "save" but her mom ended up saving Armaan and took a bullet for him. But eventually she quickly got over that irrational blame she put on Armaan because she knew Armaan didn't do anything intentionally. In grief she was impulsive but very quickly while still grieving she realized she cant hold Armaan accountable for anything. Thats the difference between her personality and Ruhis. Ruhi is a self entitled , self victimizing person who cannot see any other pov.

Abhira has never been as insensitive and irrational as Ruhi.

She is straightforward, but never insensitive or cruel.

How does any trauma of Ruhi justify why she blames Abbira and not Armaan for her not being Mrs Armaan poddar.

Armaan dumped her and did not stand up for their 2 min love and she willingly cheated Rohit and is now interfering between Abhira Armaan who are a legally wedded couple. None of that has anything to do with Akshara or her trauma.

She's baseless in how she blames Abhira for the crap happening in her life and the sad part is that she's so manipulative she may even succeed in making Abhira feel guilty despite no fault of hers.

And Goenka house has Aksharas room and things preserved so it makes no sense that she's triggered by a photo when she lived her whole life in a house that has Aksharas memories, photos and other things too.

Did you forget it was ruhi who started the car that hit her mother as a result of which she died? Abhira's mom was at first trying to save ruhi and later after seeing ruhi's mom, tried to stop the car but couldn’t, so how's abhira's mom responsible? She should blame herself in that case.

For ruhi's father, it was impulsiveness of abhira's mom that led to that accident, for that maybe she can blame abhira's mom but then so can abhira whose father also died accidentally coz he was called by ruhi's popsi to that kind of place to get drunk, no? Atleast ruhi's father was sober enough to make decision.

Yes abhira has psychological issues too coz she was repeatedly harassed, abused even kidnapped by yuvraj. Any girl would have issues if they go through these. And Yuvraj himself shoot Abhira's mom. Its definitely not same as being catalyst for an accident. Also Abhira is hating yuvraj, the one directly killed her mom, why is it similar to ruhi hating Abhira? Did Abhira killed anyone😒

Deliberately murdering or accidentally killing both leads to a loss of life… I agree the degree of punishment varies if done accidentally but still the family of the lost soul has every right to hate the person involved…

PS I am not understanding how is everyone repeatedly stating Ruhi will project her hatred to Abhira… how can you all be so sure she will hate Abhira… Ruhi just hates Akshara for all that has happened in her life…. If she wanted she could also hate her poppy for leaving her and even abhir… but when she got to know about him she was happy and excited to meet him… Ruhi isn’t dumb to target her hate to Akshara’s daughter…. Ruhi hates her maasi and she has reasons for it… the only dislike she has with Abhira is regarding the Armaan angle and she won’t hate her for being Akshara’s daughter….

The dislike for Abhira regarding Armaan angle also is baseless and unfair. She already hates and targets Abhira for no reason so its obvious that will only intensify if she's also discovered to be Aksharas daughter. her irrational dislike for Abhira when she doesn't even know Abhiras actual connection to her and Goenkas is there for all to see. Her ultra possessiveness for her P Nanu is so much that she cant even see an orphaned younger girl bond with him. That will only intensify. Swarna foreshadowed that Ruhi will not immediately get along with Akshara ki beti too. Eventually after god knows how many episodes they will probably show some sister bonding. But Ruhi is currently shown to be dumb, stupid and illogical, impulsive and extremely self entitled so thats why it is expected that she will continue to behave that way only. It'll be a miracle if she grows a brain and spine. I hope she does but its unlikely she will.

Originally posted by: ghostlyghost

Did you forget it was ruhi who started the car that hit her mother as a result of which she died? Abhira's mom was at first trying to save ruhi and later after seeing ruhi's mom, tried to stop the car but couldn’t, so how's abhira's mom responsible? She should blame herself in that case.

For ruhi's father, it was impulsiveness of abhira's mom that led to that accident, for that maybe she can blame abhira's mom but then so can abhira whose father also died accidentally coz he was called by ruhi's popsi to that kind of place to get drunk, no? Atleast ruhi's father was sober enough to make decision.

Yes abhira has psychological issues too coz she was repeatedly harassed, abused even kidnapped by yuvraj. Any girl would have issues if they go through these. And Yuvraj himself shoot Abhira's mom. Its definitely not same as being catalyst for an accident. Also Abhira is hating yuvraj, the one directly killed her mom, why is it similar to ruhi hating Abhira? Did Abhira killed anyone😒

Exactly 💯 It was roohi who did something to the car because of which it was not stopping and Abhira's mumma entered the moving car and tried to steer the wheel to save her sister, but the car unfortunately banged and killed Roohi's mumma.

& Even Abhira can blame roohi because Roohi's poppy took Abhira 's father for drinking alcohol on his birthday. I don't want to get into gen 3 storyline but there is no point in blaming abhira

The only times Ruhi behaves well with Abhira are

1. Life-death situation where its genuine

2. Family/Armaan ke saamne where it looks like pretense to get praise and be in good books.

So all in all there's no real morals, righteousness. as the older sister she does nothing for anyone.

She was rubbing in Abhiras face that Krish is her zimmedari as handed by Armaan but eventually she manipulated the situation and made Abhira stay with Krish. Wow, how nicely she fulfilled zimmedari.

So her care, concern for anyone is all dhong to just be in Armaan and Dadis good books.

Originally posted by: ghostlyghost

Did you forget it was ruhi who started the car that hit her mother as a result of which she died? Abhira's mom was at first trying to save ruhi and later after seeing ruhi's mom, tried to stop the car but couldn’t, so how's abhira's mom responsible? She should blame herself in that case.

For ruhi's father, it was impulsiveness of abhira's mom that led to that accident, for that maybe she can blame abhira's mom but then so can abhira whose father also died accidentally coz he was called by ruhi's popsi to that kind of place to get drunk, no? Atleast ruhi's father was sober enough to make decision.

Yes abhira has psychological issues too coz she was repeatedly harassed, abused even kidnapped by yuvraj. Any girl would have issues if they go through these. And Yuvraj himself shoot Abhira's mom. Its definitely not same as being catalyst for an accident. Also Abhira is hating yuvraj, the one directly killed her mom, why is it similar to ruhi hating Abhira? Did Abhira killed anyone😒

If starting the car was one mistake of Ruhi I can give 10 mistakes of Akshara.. as a responsible adult she could checked the car once she asked Ruhi to get down.. instead of running behind a moving car, she could screamed at ruhi’s mother to step aside or if she wanted to run she could have ran and pushed her… she is an adult who knows driving still couldn’t handle the car, didn’t press horn and altered…. Fact is when the car hit Ruhi’s mother, Akshara was at the drivers seat.. so she has been a catalyst in killing both the parents of Ruhi… even if Manish had gone to court, charges would have been on Akshara only for accidentally killing not on Ruhi for starting the car….