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Posted: 1 years ago
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Really felt bad for ankita. First time I m saying this its all because of vicky. When ur close person always laughs at u and puts u down u end up loosing confidence. I can feel it because been through it. Ankita at least can figure it out what is happening. When this happens it appears like u r mad but when this is happening for a long time this is the result. I just want Vicky to get evicted now.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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I would like to take a slightly different view. Ankita, as a person, has come across as highly sensitive and insecure. She is mentally and physically incapable of taking criticism or people going away from her. We have seen it time and again this season, whether it be the case of someone nominating her (Isha, Munna, Neil etc) or preferring someone over her (Munna, Isha, Rinku etc) or someone getting close to someone she doesn’t like. This makes her a very tough person to live with, because you will always be second guessing yourself before doing something. Vicky clearly said the other day how he can’t have friends freely because Ankita will have an issue with them. Again, this is something we have seen time and again this season, where Ankita has had issues with literally everyone, even those who are nice to her. She turned against KZ just because Vicky enjoyed her cooking more. She turned against Isha because Vicky was listening more to her. These are just a few examples of her getting insecure and sensitive unnecessarily. Now coming back to my point - one, it is very emotionally and mentally draining to be with someone like this because you are always surrounded with negativity, and two, you are left second guessing before doing something. And in such cases, the other person will usually laugh and shrug things aside to not offend the other person. That is what I have seen Vicky doing, at least for 90% of this season, just laugh and shrug things aside. And Ankita is just trying to hold on to those 10%. Which is unfair because she needs to introspect and realise how negative and energy sucking she is.

Ankita does need help. I hope as soon as she gets out, she is able to see a good doctor because otherwise I don’t see her surviving for a long time (she is depressed and exhibits suicidal tendencies).

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: -CmPunk123-

I would like to take a slightly different view. Ankita, as a person, has come across as highly sensitive and insecure. She is mentally and physically incapable of taking criticism or people going away from her. We have seen it time and again this season, whether it be the case of someone nominating her (Isha, Munna, Neil etc) or preferring someone over her (Munna, Isha, Rinku etc) or someone getting close to someone she doesn’t like. This makes her a very tough person to live with, because you will always be second guessing yourself before doing something. Vicky clearly said the other day how he can’t have friends freely because Ankita will have an issue with them. Again, this is something we have seen time and again this season, where Ankita has had issues with literally everyone, even those who are nice to her. She turned against KZ just because Vicky enjoyed her cooking more. She turned against Isha because Vicky was listening more to her. These are just a few examples of her getting insecure and sensitive unnecessarily. Now coming back to my point - one, it is very emotionally and mentally draining to be with someone like this because you are always surrounded with negativity, and two, you are left second guessing before doing something. And in such cases, the other person will usually laugh and shrug things aside to not offend the other person. That is what I have seen Vicky doing, at least for 90% of this season, just laugh and shrug things aside. And Ankita is just trying to hold on to those 10%. Which is unfair because she needs to introspect and realise how negative and energy sucking she is.

Ankita does need help. I hope as soon as she gets out, she is able to see a good doctor because otherwise I don’t see her surviving for a long time (she is depressed and exhibits suicidal tendencies).

What if its the other way around? That vicky always enjoying others company more than his wife which is causing mental pressure and depression to ankita?

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: -CmPunk123-

I would like to take a slightly different view. Ankita, as a person, has come across as highly sensitive and insecure. She is mentally and physically incapable of taking criticism or people going away from her. We have seen it time and again this season, whether it be the case of someone nominating her (Isha, Munna, Neil etc) or preferring someone over her (Munna, Isha, Rinku etc) or someone getting close to someone she doesn’t like. This makes her a very tough person to live with, because you will always be second guessing yourself before doing something. Vicky clearly said the other day how he can’t have friends freely because Ankita will have an issue with them. Again, this is something we have seen time and again this season, where Ankita has had issues with literally everyone, even those who are nice to her. She turned against KZ just because Vicky enjoyed her cooking more. She turned against Isha because Vicky was listening more to her. These are just a few examples of her getting insecure and sensitive unnecessarily. Now coming back to my point - one, it is very emotionally and mentally draining to be with someone like this because you are always surrounded with negativity, and two, you are left second guessing before doing something. And in such cases, the other person will usually laugh and shrug things aside to not offend the other person. That is what I have seen Vicky doing, at least for 90% of this season, just laugh and shrug things aside. And Ankita is just trying to hold on to those 10%. Which is unfair because she needs to introspect and realise how negative and energy sucking she is.

Ankita does need help. I hope as soon as she gets out, she is able to see a good doctor because otherwise I don’t see her surviving for a long time (she is depressed and exhibits suicidal tendencies).

I agree she is against anyone he is close. I agree its difficult to be with someone like her but if u keep laughing when she speaks shout her infront of others this definitely brakes the confidence of person. Vicky is very much responsible for this. U have to treat ur person with respect. Whenever ankita speaks anything like how she used to be fit excersise he always laughed at her and then everyone around starts laughing. Her confidence is shattered. Thats why everytime she starts saying sorry. Starts getting jealous and over possessive. I agree she is wrong but vicky is very much responsible for this.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: falsePromise

What if its the other way around? That vicky always enjoying others company more than his wife which is causing mental pressure and depression to ankita?

Vicky never respected his partner. Now she has turned into this. I feel very sorry for her.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Head to toe fake.


They take mics off and plan fights

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Posted: 1 years ago
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I convey my empathy to you situation. But here Vicky is the victim. Hats off for him for putting up with her for crying for no reason and he still goes back to her. He is the sensible one here. I don't even get what is her issue? Her own friend Isha is talking to him about her issue and she suddenly goes away crying!? He didn't laugh upon her. He is not allowed to even have a heartfelt natural laugh? She can't bear his happiness being his wife?

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Posted: 1 years ago
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I see the other way. Ankita is doing drama at cost of Vicky. Now she showed her real psycho face as she garnered support from makers and everyone against Vicky , before she was doing it subtly.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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She got a money bag cum Ramukaka and wholeday nth to do. Roz roz naha lete toh thoda demag thanda hota. Nehi. She thinks that is work too. Aisa hi hota hai when u get unlimited money and leisure and nth to do for that. Over Ayashi ka saja.smiley18

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shiner

Really felt bad for ankita. First time I m saying this its all because of vicky. When ur close person always laughs at u and puts u down u end up loosing confidence. I can feel it because been through it. Ankita at least can figure it out what is happening. When this happens it appears like u r mad but when this is happening for a long time this is the result. I just want Vicky to get evicted now.

Its a shame that Vicky stayed this long and the audience never got to see Ankita beyond her wife status. I stick to my analysis of her, she's been aware of cameras the entire season and has played the wife part to a T. Not saying it's fake but I really think she has tried to show that they came as a couple and she did everything she could to be part of a team. She forgot that there is only one winner - Vicky has played the actual game, he didn't let himself get nominated more than 2-3 times and has used every relationship he made to his advantage. Highlighting others issues, telling Ankita off in front of everyone and pulling her up on her "tone" or manners, unnecessary. I've been married for 15 years and the "aap" part of our relationship was over in the first year. She just always seems like she's trying to please him, win him, be on his good side. They've been married for 2 years, there should be some sort of ease now but the way he talks to her is very condescending and her forever apologizing is annoying. They need a counselor and she really needs to move past her insecurities and fears in their relationship.

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