What makes Anupama a terrible Female lead?? - Page 7

Originally posted by: The_Best

The way Anupama is hated on IF is reconfirming the pattern I have seen in IF. The more Mahaan FL is shown, the more hated she is by a section/most of online audience 😂

Absolutely.. the comments there mirror the opinion here.. well, apart from some delusionals few and far between

What do they call them nowadays? Oh yes, 'Delulu'

Anuj knew that he was marrying a middlle aged woman who already has 3 children from her previous marriage.But with passage of time he started getting suffocated with her baggage.He thought he could accommodate her children ,but in reality, he couldn't and started feeling that his marriage with Anu was a hasty decision and as u know they r divorced.I feel Anu left him at the right time.otherwise their relationship would have turned more toxic.

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

I find it highly ridiculous when people unnecessarily eulogies Maa for "supporting" Kinjal. Arey jise khud support ki zaroorat thi wo kya kisi ko support karegi? If Shahs were meek and submissive in front of Kinjal, it was just coz of Rakhi Dave else she would have become next Anupama. Bhashan se koi nahi darta hai.🤣🤣🤣

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Thank you for pointing it out loud.

There are 2 bahus: Kinjal and Dimple. Dare Shahs to behave with Kinjal the way they behave with Dimple with or without Anupamaa's "Support".

How can we forget the massage given to a pregnant Kavya at Shah House out of the blue?

Not to mention the numerous Chai, nasta, 3 - 4 tarah ke pakwaan to everyone at Shah House, again, out of the blue.

Yeh Saari sewayein kiske liye thi? Bachchon ke liye🤔? Because Shah House toh Anupama kewal apne overgrown, married "bachchon" ki dekhbaal ke liye hi toh jaati thi.

Anuj married a mother of 3 adult, grown-up,married "kid",not some toddler whom she needed to babysit 24×7. Nowadays,even small children reside in hostel away from parents and cope really well. Are some bhakts out of their mind? What are they even saying?

Leave her children aside. She even played the role of a relationship counsellor to Vanraj- Kavya and free maid to Baa Bapuji. What was all that for? How were they related to her in any sense? Only people who featured last in her priority list were Anuj and CA. Why? Coz they were caring, understanding and willing to compromise to accommodate her obsession?

Despite myriad insults and humiliation this woman was adamant to continue her proximity with Shahs but one instance,just one and how easily she discarded Anuj and CA from her life. In her own words "parivaar ko mauke dene padte hain",so why this courtesy wasn't extended to Anuj and CA? Weren't they your family? FGS,use your brain Bhakts. Don't stoop this low to support a fictional character. Anupama is a mental hazard and u guys should refrain from emulating her else your life will be doomed.

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

Anuj married a mother of 3 adult, grown-up,married "kid",not some toddler whom she needed to babysit 24×7. Nowadays,even small children reside in hostel away from parents and cope really well. Are some bhakts out of their mind? What are they even saying?

Leave her children aside. She even played the role of a relationship counsellor to Vanraj- Kavya and free maid to Baa Bapuji. What was all that for? How were they related to her in any sense? Only people who featured last in her priority list were Anuj and CA. Why? Coz they were caring, understanding and willing to compromise to accommodate her obsession?

Despite myriad insults and humiliation this woman was adamant to continue her proximity with Shahs but one instance,just one and how easily she discarded Anuj and CA from her life. In her own words "parivaar ko mauke dene padte hain",so why this courtesy wasn't extended to Anuj and CA? Weren't they your family? FGS,use your brain Bhakts. Don't stoop this low to support a fictional character. Anupama is a mental hazard and u guys should refrain from emulating her else your life will be doomed.

What about other kapadias ankush ,romil ,Sara gk kaka and mukku loved respect upma but she never loved them

She never considered Kapadia's her family in the first place.

Originally posted by: Harish111

But the problem is that they are not showing her as great at all, they are just telling the audience through some random characters praising her always about how great she is, but she doing the opposite on screen.

Good writing shows things and there is no need to tell, bad writing tells things but shows the opposite.

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

I will never understand two statements

Anupama had informed Anuj of her baggage beforehand….ok so?

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Apparently pahle se inform kar do to kuch bhi kar sakte hai uske baad and no one can question.

If you inform before that you are going to commit a murder, even police cannot catch you.

Originally posted by: The_Best

One of way ITV show characters as good is by other characters praising the character. So they do mean to show her as good. It’s clearly working as most audience sympathize with Anu and hating on Shahs, Anuj and CA. TRPs has also increased.

TRPs increased because audience were excited about leap and a change and started watching. It will come down again as same stuff is being shown. The increase was bare minimum for a show which once had TRPs over 4.5, now it's still neck to neck with other shows who didn't even have a leap.