Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra
Jokes aside, human mind is more impressionable at a younger age and she has spent all of her youth with the Shahs so they are kind of in her reflexes and muscle memories.
Anuj practically didn't exist for her until she met him at the reunion. Devika had said that almost everyone at college knew about Anuj's feelings except Anupamaa.
Plus there's the 26 years-vs-3 years thing.
She has tried very hard to give Anuj importance but logical thinking is always overridden by reflexes which is why she kept going back to the Shahs.
They were like a bad habit for her which she hasn't been able to fix till now, much like her inability to hold on to a career. It's possible that when she finally gives up the bad habit, the show will end as there will be no more conflicts to show.
If shes so impressionable why she never worship kanta and bhavesh more than shahs
she stayed 18 years with them no and they laways treat her nicely than all vanraj and shahs
Even married woman who love their husband are not acting like her with in laws and hubby family like she does
I feel anupama loves vanraj like juliet loved romeo or anarkali loved salim i feel
Thats why shes obsessed with shahs and vanraj so much and that home even after vanraj married another woman or had affair with malvika etc
Anupama first love was vanraj and you know first love cannot be forgotten all life all other hubby are just compromise
If CA was born to vanraj even from kavya or malvika etc she would have worshipped CA like pakhi and toshu shes that kind of person
But any other man other than vanraj or kids from them or adopted ones of those men she will not bother much as she do not love those men
I had a friend her mom hated all of her 4 kids born from her womb as she was forced to marry this man by her parents (not that she liked any other man she did not but she do not want that man as hubby thats all but like hasmukh, devika, vanraj all convinced anupama to marry anuj same happened with this girl mom too) . Out of family or society pressure people do marry but never really accept spouse as hubby or even their kids as own that happens in patriarchal society like india or asia where there is no freedom to women. Than women direct that hatred by ignoring kids of that man or abusing the kids or even hubby sometimes although outside they will show all normal in front of others. Similar to what anupama did to anuj and CA.
Such woman marry out of force or pressure but than neglect family or kids or hubby or house and are highly rude to hubby family, create scenes out of simple issues, leave house for silly things like anupama. Its a pattern
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