Is Tara overly possessive?

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maaloo

@maaloo

Dazzler

Posted: 17 years ago

Just finished reading today's update..and ended up thinking if Tara's behavior borders on being overly possessive?

If you remember, Tara was like this with Jiji initially when she wanted a baby no matter what and she distanced everybody by seeing or hearing no evil about jiji which was why jiji found it so easy to manipulate Tara..
And now, she is being possessive about her son that she doesn't believe anybody can take care of her son except her..

Is it because she yearned to be a mother before she became one that she doesn't want to let go of her child?

Do you think her actions are very possessive bordering on being obsessive?

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Posted: 17 years ago

lol yh m8 Tara is a bit too obsessive dese days lol x

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judyp

@judyp

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Posted: 17 years ago

I think she needs professional help.
She is overly protective of Aditiya she can't let him out of her sight. This is going to lead to some serious mental problems. She freaks out if he is out of her sight. She can't sleep without him.

This I feel is due to her quest for the child as well as this is her only child.

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lovey

@l0vey

Dazzler

Posted: 17 years ago

yeaaah.. she is overly posessive. but it makes sense. because her child, aditiya, was taken away from her the day he was born. and like you said. she has been yearning for him basically.. and now that she has him ... she feels like urvashi will somehow be back .. and take him away .. bascially.. if anyone else take hers kid .. she feels that they are irresponsible. like i said ... it makes sense.. she has the right to feel this way .. but it is a bit too much.

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maaloo

@maaloo

Dazzler

Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: judyp
I think she needs professional help.
She is overly protective of Aditiya she can't let him out of her sight. This is going to lead to some serious mental problems. She freaks out if he is out of her sight. She can't sleep without him.

This I feel is due to her quest for the child as well as this is her only child.

You are right.. I think she needs professional help, 'cos though we understand why she is behaving the way she does, it surely doesn't seem to be healthy for her or for her child.

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maaloo

@maaloo

Dazzler

Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: xl0ve

yeaaah.. she is overly posessive. but it makes sense. because her child, aditiya, was taken away from her the day he was born. and like you said. she has been yearning for him basically.. and now that she has him ... she feels like urvashi will somehow be back .. and take him away .. bascially.. if anyone else take hers kid .. she feels that they are irresponsible. like i said ... it makes sense.. she has the right to feel this way .. but it is a bit too much.

I agree that her fears are justified, but her being overly possessive, may not only harm her relations with the rest of the family, but also she could harm herself and her child too with this obsession.

Edited by newgal - 17 years ago

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aman pal

@amansk67

Inactive

Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: nafgeena
lol yh m8 Tara is a bit too obsessive dese days lol x

i totally agree wid u. i think there is going 2 b a great conflict b/w sal n tara

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lakshmi

@coolgals13

Inactive

Posted: 17 years ago

yea..she is completely obsessed wid her son..i thnk she needssome counselling regd it..or else one day she will become mad...the way she was behaving with dheer...

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manisha

@xmanisha

Rocker

Posted: 17 years ago

well, yea ...
tara is being obsessed with adi, becuase
jiji kind of took him ever since adi was born.

so yea .. she never got her kid, and she was like;
mera bacchha.. etc etc.

but i do agree with nahar here, she shouldn't
have let saloni alone.

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San

@sanw

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Posted: 17 years ago

#10

tara is over possesive and as you said this kind of behaviour was there with jiji too. that destroyed the family's happiness then & now too we can see the same soon.

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