Originally posted by: hinz
They are broken. She broke them and they were left to pick the pieces of their shattered relationship…the one that lacked foundation and was so week that it couldnt withstand the blow of miscommunication and misunderstandings.
The foundation was weak from anupama side not anuj side at all. Indeed he was the complete 100% foundation holding on to the relationship for 3 years
While she chose to shut herself off and live a life of solitude, they tried to build a new life together, for each other or lets say they had no option..
Yes, his love of 26 years was a sham, all his fault, I sincerely believe…
Yes it was a sham, but he was like majnu he could not forget his love some people are like that once they love one person they cannot forget. He was an emotional fool as per me not thinking about his own life and family like malvika, GK kaka and blind in anupama love
their marriage, a catastrophical disaster of sorts, both be blamed, I hope you agree…
I thinka nuapma was 80% to be blamed anuj only 20%. His fault was he allowed her to go to vanraj shah house every day. Any other man would only allow on marraige or death ceremony only not otherwise. His fault was he accompained her to shah house and left his kid CA go there. No other husband even in USA would allow all this from wife. His fault was he gave money to her to spend for shahs so she took advantage. His fault was he wrote kapadiya empire to her name. He should have written 50% to malvika nad 50% to CA than we would see how much shahs would love anupama and CA. No sane man will do all that anuj did. Thats why i call him majnu in love
the adoption- an emotional risk, again his fault mostly to have rushed into it without weighing the odds…
Now that the damage is done, he is trying to do the best for his daughter…keeping her happy, safe and away from any further damage and the kid wants the same for him, to be happy, with Shruti to get over his past trauma…
Adoption was for anuj as he wanted to be a father. Anupam anever wanted to be mother of CA as she had 3 kids anuj had none. I do not think its any risk anuj has right to adopt be a father does not requre spouse permissions. All humans have some individual rights in life
Anuj will never get over Anupamaa, but he wants to…he is disturbed by her memories and hasnt so far recollected any of the happy ones whereas Anupamaa thinks of him and their love and reminisces the good times..
She misses CA and worries for her but Aadhya’s memories of her mummy have festered badly…
Anuj is reluctant to marry Shruti cause he feels its unfair when he still hasnt been able to wipe his heart clean of Anupamaa…getting engaged was again not wise/needed if he was unsure but would it be so wrong if he wants to give life another chance? not just for Aadhya or Shruti but for himself..
Anupamaa decided to choose her peace and progress and though she misses her kids, she is happy in her new life, trying to find her feet in a new place…good for her!
Her kids and ex hubby and so called mom dad baa bapuji never ever wanted her or they would call her once or meet her in 5 years. What move on? No one accepted her back so she went and became jogan as she has no skills to do any job other than cooking mopping and in india that job is considered low and very low paying. She was discarded and not accepted by shahs or her own mom so went to become jogan or woman destitute place
So if Anupamaa can have another shot at happiness, why cant he?
Kyuki Dil Hai Ki Manta Nahin…
-loser phan of Mr. Kwestionable Kapadia