Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism
Read my message again. I myself said that her love had been selfless, this is the first time she is expecting something.
She was largely aloof of any expectations before this track, it's only now that she wants sometime in lieu of what she is doing, else earlier she never asked a thing.
Coming to what she is doing bit, so she is a negative character who doesn't mind hurting others when it comes to self goal. She was always like that. People have different attitude towards different people, just because she truly (or earlier selflessly) loved DJ, doesn't mean she is overall selfless. She since the start has been prioritizing herself and her loved ones over others and "right" she did the same during 75th anniversary. Even continuing with EMA shows that she was more interested in her happiness over others.
Negative and positive both kind of characters are present in shows and will be shown. They won't only show Yuvika supporters like Ruhi, there have be people against her, unless she marries Arjun and she switches sides.
About Neil, again I never said that he is equivalent to Ruhi or Simone, rather said he is important since he is related to protagonist. Obviously he will have more much importance than Ruhi Simone who are against antagonist and the antagonist in any story has much lesser scope. He himself is dependent on the protagonist.
But still Neil isn't the lead, his is the supporting role (you may say the main supporting role), we had been thinking about some hidden purpose, some major backstory of his and as we saw it was never something makers had in mind. Even now I don't think his individual story will have much importance.
I have read your post 4-5 times Di because I couldn't believe you wrote Simone's love for DJ self less
Nah! This is not the first time, she always had this wish in the back of her mind that's why she consciously got engaged in Extra Marital Affair so that ONE Day she gets to live the title of DJ's wife which she thinks she deserves because they both loves each other. Simone is actually not a submissive lady like how Roohi is, Simone is Rebellious, Simone is a more Strong character she will never ever compromise on anything. Their cold behaviour around 75th anniversary, their so called break up everything happened because Simone wanted recognition from DJ. Simone behaved rudely with Gargi because she holds grudges against her, Simone always wished to become Mahajan Bahu and that is not technically wrong but you can't call it self less love. Simone's love is anything but self less? This is not the first time when DJ is making her work for him promising marriage, that promise was always between them that's why they got engaged in EMA at the first place. Simone is not someone who will get engaged in EMA without a promise of marriage. I will never call her love self less because no love story that encourages EMA can be self less. I won't call Simone entirely wrong because she has her reasons regarding DJ but whatever Simone doing with Isha Arjun Yuvika that's wrong. She is bound to switch sides but that won't change her past deeds!
Neil is Male Lead, hidden purpose or backstory tel lene geya.
He is Male Lead and why he is so, TIME will tell THIS!
I NEVER said, Neil is only male lead, DJ is lead too but Neil is not supporting character because his character doesn't fall within the definition of ITV Supporting Characters. ITV is women oriented where Male leads suffers with such issues like Screen space, standing in background, etc etc but as Mishkat in his recent interview on this same topic said, at the end of the day A HERO is a HERO! Period 
I don't know what we call that
aur Simone ko Arjun ke life se bahar feko

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