What do you think Katha should say to Viaan to give him closure? - Page 3

Originally posted by: divine_16

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I am not saying that her character isn't flawed. Entire storyline is flawed right now. Her marrying with Raghav is foolishness. Her hiding things from Raghav is lame. Entire open communication is missing for a while. There are a lot of loopholes.

I strongly agree with what you said that a real test of a relationship is when storm hits. And, from that lens, Katha's running away seems very selfish.

But, from the other lens where you can clearly see no amount of trust or talking could have suppressed the truth about the dark night. It went from a private affair to being public. No one in public will care about the ONS as it is their affair and they have no bussiness intruding in this affair but, what about Aarav?

Viaan knew about ill intentions of Maya was he able to stop her from spreading the message to Reet and Grewal family? So, this entire thing, she can trust on Viaan, they can work it out together seems redundant. They simply have no control over it. And, this is also conveyed by Katha in hospital breakup. "Ab uss sach ko chupaaya bhi toh nhi jaa sakta". Who is accountable for creating these circumstances? My problem is why she is getting entire blame. Why no one is seeing the circumstances they were in which caused this entire problem?

I want to say more things but, many of these are based on some logical conclusions. Nothing of that sort has been shown on TV so, there is no point in arguing about that. so, for now, I agree with most of the things you have said.

Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

For me, she has nothing valid to say so should keep her tounge shut. Let Viaan run, he will be tired at some point, let him think she wasn't worthy of his love.

That's what she's doing and we're getting mad at her for that too

Originally posted by: Neutral2

Viaan will never be satisfied with her answer unless she tell she started loving someone.

Sorry to say Viaan is selfish who always considered his emotion first. So he will never be satisfied.

Katha doesn't have really answer. I think she already told the reason when he was in drunk state. She might have to say the same but Viaan will be after Aarav after listening the kid mental trauma.

That's true. This is not a word one would use in Viaan's context, but it's kinda true also. Ever since he fell in love, it's like he booked her for himself He was crazy determined, tenacious and stubborn and finally wore her down. Makes me wonder what he would have done had katha started liking some other man and wanted to date him, before agreeing to his proposal. Would he still have been so patient? Respectful of her rejection and her choice to not date him? I think not. All that patience and understanding came because katha was unattached and there was no one in her life. What if Ehsan had refused to back down? So I think whatever katha says wouldn't matter. He's not going to give up so easily. It's both a frustrating and admirable quality

Originally posted by: Eternalallure

This is the issue actually. If it were me i would have used that guilt as the reason for separation. Aarav being in guilt because he heard about all that his mother had to go through for his treatment, and how she was treated by everyone. Such knowledge would put an enormous amount of guilt on anyone especially a child and can actually lead to mental health issues. And seeing how much Aarav was suffering because of his one mistake would have definitely drowned Viaan in his own guilt. And to end this vicious cycle of guilt, regret, and hurt katha could have decided to keep them away from each other. Because she had seen how much Viaan had changed and did not deserve to pay for that mistake anymore. Alas they missed this opportunity. Would have made more sense.

I wrote this same thing on twitter on friday when I posted this topic. It didn't go well as twitter is twitter. So, I was scared to write this here. Glad someone else said the same thing

This can very well become the reason for seperation. A lot of dialogues of Katha support this. Viaan toot jayenge. Sabko ek doosre ki nafrat se bachane ke liye ye sab karna para. Also, Teji and Farah are already in guilt. Ehsan is also in guilt. When they realize what all Katha and Aarav had to face, all of them are going to be immensely guilt ridden. Especially Viaan. He was the root of ONS and his family revealed it. He will be in worse condition. This time, it wasn't even his fault.

It is very much possible that this might have been the main reason all along.

Originally posted by: abca19510

What she should say?

" I Don't want to pursue life with you anymore. Half truth that Aarav knows has made him a mentally unstable child and he hates you immensely that he doesn't want to see your face. Full truth will break him completely. Right now, he doesn't understand anything but later, when he grows up, don't know what will happen to him."

Something else that can be added to it?

Sorry, that I am enquiring too much but, I am unable to think of a convincing conversation which Katha can give to give closure to Viaan. Everyone is saying she should give closure to Viaan but, what will she say to give him closure? And, giving him closure is not easy for a very specific reason.

Leave love aside, katha didn't even tell raghav anything during Aarav's treatment also. What kind of mother she is if she is hiding details from Aarav's doctor about what actually caused him trauma. And what kind of doctor he is who didn't even ask about Aarav's past.

Originally posted by: Sajini235

I agree with you that currently this is the best closure she can give to viaan but at the same time , this bitter truth will never help him to move on. Rather he will slip into another immense guilt. He will be completely broken to see his batman hating him this much. That's why katha is not able to give this reason to viaan. That dialogues of bts of katha talking to herself after aarav's trigger attack proves that pov of her. I guess that will be shown as flashback later. Tbh, I don't understand how will kaviaan will reunite as even if they come together against all odds, truth of dark night will always haunt their relationship as there are possiblilities that some day it might come infront of grown up aarav. There is a risk. Honestly speaking, as of now kaviaan reunion seems impossible. Anyways, this is a tv serial after all so they will end up being together. Lets see how will writers take this.

After today's episode, its clear that Raghav knows Katha doesn't love him but, is her partner and best friend. So, in future , in hum aapke hai koun style, Raghav might sacrifice his love for her love because he is a good person.

And, guilt track is bound to come because Teji and Farah are already in guilt and Viaan will also go into immense guilt once he knows the impact of misdeeds of his family and at the root of it is ONS and its root is him so, Viaan will be the one who will be most guilt ridden but, at the same time Aarav is alive because of him so, Katha has no malice against him. Many are unable to sympathise with Aarav probably because of poor direction and editing. If they edited some old scenes of Aarav where he was such a cheerful child and carefree and now, how he has become, it would have helped viewers to connect with him and would have reminded viewers of the scale of damage.

Katha is kind of right about one thing that destiny doesn't want them to be togather. Maaya mausi revealing one of the most hidden and untalked of truth just like that is nothing but, destiny's dirty game. And, everything that unfolded afterwards, at this stage, its futile to blame anyone as blaming won't change destiny. Let's see how Viaan will bring Katha's trust back on the destiny. Destiny had always played dirty games with Katha so, her distrust on destiny and happiness makes sense. Her running away from Viaan makes sense.

Originally posted by: Anj_01

Leave love aside, katha didn't even tell raghav anything during Aarav's treatment also. What kind of mother she is if she is hiding details from Aarav's doctor about what actually caused him trauma. And what kind of doctor he is who didn't even ask about Aarav's past.

1. She is just using Dr to prove to Viaan that she has moved on. It’s shown that she did it for Aarav but No. Many ppl get therapy and not all of them get married to their therapist.

2. She is hiding the truth from him so that her perfect family does not break. She thinks just because Dr knows she doesn’t love him that she is doing the right thing. What she can’t realize is that dr is expecting her to love him back at some point but she cant do that if she already loves someone else. Now marriage is just a joke apparently

Originally posted by: Anj_01

I wanted to vent out my frustration but if i think from katha's screwed up pov then she should say-

Our love is doomed. We really tried to work on all the problems but our past is something which will never leave us. Even adults like garewals couldn't handle it so there is no chance that aarav can ever be able to understand it. Whatever he has heard has made him mentally unstable. He is so angry that he doesn't want to listen to your name forget about explaining anything to him and I don't want to take any chance with my son's health.

My son had always been my first priority. Whatever I had done in past was also to save my son. Even I start liking you only when I noticed that you have all the qualities of good father. So when my son doesn't want you any longer then whats the point.

Our families have also gone through so much and there is a bitterness among them which will never leave now.

I know our breakup will be unfair to you but thats what life is, we have to make adjustments according to it and I have made mine. I am going to marry doctor and I think I can make a perfect family with him. So please stop chasing me and try to move on. I know its difficult but you have to try for your family, for everyone around you who cares for you.

Okay, enough now. Its like writing an answer in school exam sheet when you dont know much about the question but still you want to fill the answer sheet so you keep on going in marry go rounds and write one and the same thing repeatedly with different words. Because honestly, katha doesn't have any valid reason for breakup.

The only way Viaan will be convinced to Move On will be if she says she loves Raghav. Then Viaan has nothing to hold on to. Otherwise he is gonna keep coming at her till she confesses her love to him.

“Viaan hum ab saath nhi ho sakte kyuki hum saath ho bhi gaye toh na mai khush reh paungi aur na monkey.

Ragahv ek bahaut acche insaan hai and ab mai bhi unke saath comfortable hone lagi hu. Mai unka and unke parivaar ka dil tod ke wapas nhi aa sakti. Ruhi ab meri beti jaisi hai and Aarav bhi Raghav ko Papa bulata hai.

Mere liye nhi toh Aarav ke liye sochiye. Wo baccha bahaut protective hai mujhe leke and jabse usne apki wo baat suni tabse wo puri tarah bikhar chuka hai

Dr Sehgal hi uski madad kar sakte hai. Wo hmesha gusse mai rehta hai and aapke naam se bhi nafrat hai usse

Ab mai apne bacche ko iss haal mai chodd ke kaise apni khushi dhund sakti hu. Ab raghav and unka parivaar mujhpe dependent hai apni khushi ke liye aur mai bhi

Aap please samajhiye ki ab humara saath hona bahaut mushkil hai

Mai apni nayi zindagi mai khush hu aur kahi na kahi mujhe Dr acche lagte hai so aap please mera picha karna chodd diejiye”

Viaan will have multiple solutions to her every problem but this is the only thing thats makes remote sense for katha to say. I just hope in the end she has to beg for viaans love like he is doing now.

Originally posted by: Neutral2

You people are thinking about Viaan. Atleast he know some truth in bits and pieces.

What about Raghav? Katha is openly telling his colleagues that she love Viaan. Her whole office kind of know. But she isn't telling Raghav. Why making mockery of him.

Just to add to drama and nothing else. Right now, there is no point in hiding about him given that they hve become close friends and truth can't be hidden for long. Her resoning for hiding truth from Raghav is lamest

2nd ly no one cares for him. Neither Viaan nor Katha nor this FD😂😂