Originally posted by: sharon30_05
Just came across your episodic review and you've mentioned some interesting points ..as much as I love to see Adya's progress ...Kavya deffo needs a closure with Shubh before that and for that she needs to get back with Shubh only then comparison with her and Adi's equation on a subconscious level would happen ...she might realise later on .Her behaviour with Adi is confusing as she deffo holds him in great regard in the sense she knows he'll understand her feelings,turmoil and at the same time becomes rude with him, she feels safe with him at the same time doesn't trust him completely..As they say the more straight forward the person is, the more twisted is their thought process
Would love to hear your thoughts
Yeah, closure is needed. About Shubh, idk why but I have a feeling Shubh might only get back with her to overcome his insecurities by noticing her growing bond with Adi. It's his insecurities that made him push Kavya away and it's his insecurities that might force him to get back with her. Not because he reflected on his actions and regret them.
About Kavya's confusion with Adi..she definitely is confused apparently. It's like Adi has long stretched her hand towards her and she is yet to grab on it. Because her other hand is still pulling on Shubh. And until she leaves that, she won't be able to reach Adi no matter how many advances he makes.
And regarding her behaviour, I feel it's because she feels safe with Adi (subconsciously for now). Emotionally and physically. And when you feel safe with someone, you don't hold back from expressing yourself. Both good and bad. You don't walk on egg shells because you know the other person understands. You know the person will stay.
And this is what Kavya did today. And this is why Adi didn't it hold it against her.
Kavya was rude but then also made sure he didn't sleep on an empty stomach. Admitted her mistake because it endangered him. Accepted his apology by feeding him that morsel of food. Confided in him about Shubh because she trusts him (holding his shirt in precap is another proof).
Adi made sure Kavya knows she's being irrational by showing his bruise to her. Tried ingraining sense into her and didn't go all "I told you so". Rather reassured her. Went on to apologize about his insensitive prank and even advised her to move on.
Cause he gets her. Understands her and Kavya know it.
And imo, this is how healthy relationship are.
Although it is one sided atm, it will be reciprocated from Kavya's side.
And Kavya may not give it away abhi but she understands Adi too (remember the conversation after noodle party?) and when Adi will need her, she will be there too. (That if makers don't ruin the story)
But yeah, this lack of clarity, even as friends, from Kavya's side may bring trouble for her and conscious efforts will be needed from her side for their budding friendship.
Despite the fact that Kavya trusts Adi, feels safe with him, relies on him, seek his supports, can speak her mind is understood by him but doesn't love him. And with Shubh, it's none of these things but loves (idt it's love but Kavya's definition of love can be different from mine) him. And this, makes all the difference for her. Like most people.
And it's okay I guess, with time, she will realize and decide who's worth her time and energy.
Edited by Minaa - 1 years ago