Originally posted by: FingerFetish
Omg, I’m so so sorry for your loss Khala. May she attain peace and the highest level of paradise. I can’t imagine what you and your family members must’ve gone through in these difficult times. If you ever want to talk about it, I’m always a message away. I’m a bottle of grief and loss, having lost over 13 family members in the last decade. I can truly empathise and will always be here for you if you just want a virtual shoulder to lean on or just someone who will listen. ❤️
There are so many young people dying, whether it’s cancer or cardiac related conditions. Two months ago, my cousin’s husband suddenly dropped face down while playing soccer with my brother and friends. He went into cardiac arrest and was declared completely brain dead. He was only 21 and married for less than a year. It’s possible that he may have suffered a genetic heart condition that he was unaware of. I can’t even tell you how much his loss destroyed our family. My brother was traumatised, being a newly graduate paramedic and having witnessed his fall, he felt like he failed him even though he did all that he could. He was such a beautiful young man, incredibly sweet, always happy and so so kind. He was like us, he would feed stray cats everywhere and when his case went viral on TikTok, someone commented that they had gone to school with him, and that he had protected them from bullies and gave them his lunch. I can still hear his mother screaming in the hospital while his wife was falling on the ground, inconsolable.
This just reinforces the point that even if you look or feel healthy, don’t let young age fool you into believing that cancer or significant health conditions can’t affect you. Regardless, everyone should ALWAYS do routine checkups and make sure you don’t overlook or undermine even the slightest symptom.
Much love to you. In light of all things happening in the world, I was feeling extra emotional today so I rambled away. Hoping these instances will help raise more awareness.
Thank you, FF! So sorry to hear you have been through so many losses at such a young age. For someone who has witnessed so much loss, you’re an incredibly sweet, empathetic soul. I don’t know how you do it. Most in your shoes would have become jaded long time ago. Yet, you remain true to your purpose, always positive, always authentic. You deserve all the sunshine, life has to offer, chica. Believe that. Perhaps, someday I’ll take you up on your offer. Thank you! I do truly appreciate it. ❤️
So incredibly sorry to hear about your cousin’s husband! That is so unfair, so infuriating for a family to lose their loved one out of the blue like that. I cannot imagine what his loved ones are going through, especially his mom and the young wife. He sounds like a kind, wonderful soul. Anyone who is kind to animals and stands up for the lesser fortunate will cross over to paradise after leaving here. I truly believe that. Sounds like he left the world a better place and made a positive impact on so many people while he was still here.
Perhaps, that’s all we can really hold onto, after skin turns to ashes. Just keeping them close by honoring their memories. Trying to do what they would do when we falter, letting their positive impact on us influence our personal growth for whatever time we have left here. I do hope your brother comes out of it unscathed, also. That is an incredibly heavy burden to bear at such a young age especially when he’s just starting out in his career. There was truly nothing he could have done to prevent it. I do hope he is able to come to terms with that. Hang in there, both of you…may positive energy find both of you whenever you struggle to heal. May each passing day be easier than the one before. ❤️
just ignore the other fans. Jin is appreciated and loved by all the members. Watch Run BTS for him and ignore the comments 
I started watching it with my niece who is a huge Suga fan, then I became a fan myself. I don’t call myself Army because I like just the hyeong line 
That was actually how I got into BTS, they were like you have to watch him, he is exactly like you
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