Be outspoken or hang in there for good? - Page 2

Originally posted by: raj5000

Life is tough, there are people with varied understanding and minds, and no surprise that people can be Nobel prize winners but with some weakness's or wrong doings towards you, that you might try to point out for good. What should ideally be done?

There are friends/family who donot apprec direct comments on the weaknesses or something you don't like, should you be outspoken (might be taken in wrong sense and might never talk to you) and spill it out or just wait for friend/family to realize thier mistake ?

i have experienced this... there was a person who though everything she said was right and she cannot think anything wrong, she was sooooo confident about herself... (nothing wrong to be confident but being over confident is defenatly not right!)

her biggest problem was she makes assumption and make that as her final truth.... she makes assumptons on my every actions ... (so irritating, speciallywhen i have no such intentions in my mind) i once tried to correct her.... but i ve realised how impossible it is to convince over confident people. they feel everyone is wrong but themselves!!😡

its easy to ignore people who doesnot matter to us.. but when it comes to close friend and family it becomes really difficult to deal with such situations...

i might be wrong, but i have decided to let think what she wants, let her make assumption on my actions and let her be on the dark side!! as long as my intentons are clear it doesnt bother me much!

May be one day when comes to her meeting a tough person she will realise where she stands! i cannot waste my nerves on people like that!

but answering your question, i would say give it a try ONCE, say how u feel or how they are wrong, give them A chance, if they dont understand than you ve done your part, let them deal with their own wrong doings.. i believe they will once in a lifetime understand their behaviour!