Just curious what changed? - Page 8

Sorry but you are talking about punishment while I am talking about his mistake

Your Meaning of clean chit and my meaning of clean chit is really different

When you commit a mistake you are bound to get punished either by god or by law and both akshara and Abhimanyu got their punishment

But I am talking about the mistake that Abhimanyu committed by throwing akshara out of his life without giving her chance to explain herself . Every one has tend to forgiven and forgotten about that. while akshara’s mistake of moving on with Abhinav and hiding her pregnancy are still seen as the reason for the mess they are in

The reality is had Abhimanyu handled the situation well back then none of this would’ve happened

Originally posted by: surbhijain

Sorry but you are talking about punishment while I am talking about his mistake

Your Meaning of clean chit and my meaning of clean chit is really different

When you commit a mistake you are bound to get punished either by god or by law and both akshara and Abhimanyu got their punishment

But I am talking about the mistake that Abhimanyu committed by throwing akshara out of his life without giving her chance to explain herself . Every one has tend to forgiven and forgotten about that. while akshara’s mistake of moving on with Abhinav and hiding her pregnancy are still seen as the reason for the mess they are in

The reality is had Abhimanyu handled the situation well back then none of this would’ve happened

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Well she was neither progressive that time nor now. The good thing she did was moving on from toxic guy to good guy

She didn't marry him for his money or profession (taxi driver) but seeing his goodness for 7+ months or maybe because she needed a father for his son.

But lol you guys will never agree so no point arguing. I should not have even wasted my time replying in this thread.

Moving on with AbN Leaving her toxic ex even after he kicked her out giving divorce is not progression because he is poor taxi driver and not hot ! what if he respects her and values her feelings and give her space ..who cares.. he should have made her life a hell and gaslighted her like her ex and have known all the details of her insane family and her abusive pathi even though she doesn’t like to rem her past.

Originally posted by: surbhijain

So is paternity fraud that you name any guy the father of your child on legal government papers. The show in court did highlight that a inquiry should happen so that sort means audience did went with ML with what happened to him was wrong as well.

@bold 2 Lol that's what Akshara is doing and everyone is discussing that only. 😂

Hun There are lot of things that are illegal in our country but people are still doing that but i was not discussing about that and I don’t think even akshara was thinking about legal illegal things at that time. My point of discussion here is according to this forum what should Akshara had done when she was in that situation. She got to know her one child is alive and I think she did try to tell Abhimanyu about it but he didn’t listen So what she should have done went back to Abhimanyu and told him about his child given the situation and knowing very well that both Manjiri and Abhimanyu could have snatched her child right away as soon as he would have born. Do Abhimanyu had more rights on abhir than akshara because he is biological father?

Exactly…. Sab Yahi chahte the… Abhi was confident that Akshu will return… and so he in his ego told he has nothing to do with her or baby….

BUT Akshu did not come back…. And usse lag gayee Sab ko mirchi😃😃😃

I m happy makers showed Akshu moving on … away from toxicity…. Hopefully makers do not show her moving towards toxicity… kuch to change Ho😃

Very well said

BUT if I look at your 1&2 point the biological father still would have not known about his baby. Akshara would still have been bashed and from the points I am assuming tthat Akshata hid her pregnancy is not the problem but she married Abhinav is the problem

Coming to 4th one I guess akshara did try This right. She called Abhimanyu not only to tell about the baby but also in the desire that they can be together again. Abhimanyu himself closed that door by not listening to akshara and he even asked her to never come back in his life right

Now let’s talk about 3rd one yes she could have gone back to her house and told him about the baby. Abhimanyu was not going to sit back and let akshara have the baby right The custody case could have happened earlier but it would have. Abhimanyu and Manjiri would not have accepted akshara just like that Now my point still stays that what if both Abhimanyu and Manjiri had snatched the baby from her which I am sure they would’ve and I think akshara knew they would then what

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

Abhimanyu didn’t manage the situation- yes! so what did Akshara do? Abhimanyu had 4-5 months while processing his own grief and also looking after family to think about what he said to Akshara! Akshara had around 6-7 years to think over her decisions and their repercussions!

Originally posted by: surbhijain

Very well said

BUT if I look at your 1&2 point the biological father still would have not known about his baby. Akshara would still have been bashed and from the points I am assuming tthat Akshata hid her pregnancy is not the problem but she married Abhinav is the problem

Coming to 4th one I guess akshara did try This right. She called Abhimanyu not only to tell about the baby but also in the desire that they can be together again. Abhimanyu himself closed that door by not listening to akshara and he even asked her to never come back in his life right

Now let’s talk about 3rd one yes she could have gone back to her house and told him about the baby. Abhimanyu was not going to sit back and let akshara have the baby right The custody case could have happened earlier but it would have. Abhimanyu and Manjiri would not have accepted akshara just like that Now my point still stays that what if both Abhimanyu and Manjiri had snatched the baby from her which I am sure they would’ve and I think akshara knew they would then what

Bhai the way she did things was problem.

Abhinav mar gya lo khatm ho gai problem aese toh ohir bhi bol rhe hain na log.

Kya sense bna hiding ka agar usi bache k liye phir usi aadmi se shaadi kr rhe ho. Supposedly strong hai ab toh Akshara.

Koi kuch bhi assume kare the issue is the storyline. They could have shown better tracks but they opted for the worst. No one goes and marry a roadside stalker to give name to the baby who actually didn't need it at all.

How snatched football hai k bacha koi bhi snatch krlega.

Haan Akshara ko aesa lga hoga kyunki she is that type.

Originally posted by: surbhijain

Even abhiManyu had 6 years to think on his decision of throwing akshara out of his life and as a matter of fact that akshara actually called him to tell him something which he didn’t listen. He had time to think that if I lost my babies and Neil even akshara lost her babies and Neil. He had time to think that was his decision to divorce akshara in his anger was right or not. What did Akshara do- Abhimanyu asked her to leave and never come back in his life that is exactly what she did

@bold - why did she obey him only in this regard when she didn’t really listen to him otherwise! 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: yellomellow

I think most of us agree that Akshara and the Goenkas are problematic characters, but I'm curious why the change in reactions to their flipping.

Six years ago, blood relations didn't matter because Abhinav accepted a child that was hidden from his from real father, but now blood relations are important because of her possible pregnancy?

Six years ago, she had the right to chose a fake family for Abhir, but now she needs to be a single mother raise her child(ren) by herself? Divorce couples getting back together for themselves and their child it's not unheard of. Also, if she was brave or independent to begin with she wouldn't need to marry a stranger in the first place.

Six years ago, Abhir was an the excuse for marrying, but now it's not acceptable? Why? If she can marry a random stranger she met on the bus for Abhir then why not his real father Abhi? Why can't she depend on her the father of her child?

A few months the Goenkas advocating for Abhinav who they met a few months ago and were practically demanding that she give him his "haq" was seen as progressive, but the same Goenkas doing the same the man that was there for them for the past seven years is wrong?

Disclaimer: This isn't about ships or the actors. No need to drag or belittle people who are doing their jobs and reading the scripts that were given to them. I'm genuinely curious why people have different reactions to her behavior when it's the exact same situations.

Great post..somehow I feel this show views Abhi with different lens and rest all other characters with whole different lens..and Abhis mistakes are scrutinized with microscope and rest everyone gets a free pas most of times..Abhi isn't given any benefit of doubt ...postleap it was forced narrative to paint Abhi as a villian with divorce over miscarriage..to create space for cameo..and to keep that cameo relevant they forced that narrative when at points it didn't make sense at all..Akshara has done crime ..said vilest of things..held his collar multiple times..gaslighted him..blamed him..lied to him..and she has gotten free pas coz Abhi had given her divorce.. Yesterday Swarna said that Muskan should be excused as she was angry coz of grief ..but no one considered this view point for him..it isn't making sense as he is being weighted on different parameters than Nav..Nav did one thing he is hailed..but Abhi did much much much more it has never been remembered

Originally posted by: surbhijain

Even abhiManyu had 6 years to think on his decision of throwing akshara out of his life and as a matter of fact that akshara actually called him to tell him something which he didn’t listen. He had time to think that if I lost my babies and Neil even akshara lost her babies and Neil. He had time to think that was his decision to divorce akshara in his anger was right or not. What did Akshara do- Abhimanyu asked her to leave and never come back in his life that is exactly what she did

arrey he didn't even think about her for 6 years till he saw her happily married and having a child...

Uske baad he started feeling like he is a loser...

And well progressive..

Having a courage to live your dream.. One of Akshara's dream was to have family.. And she created one... She created a happy place and family... All this after being kicked out by abusive ex husband.

Maha Progressive ...

After falling in love with a nicer man, marrying abusive ex husband who 'claims' to have changed but still has those toxic traits....

That's what's changed here...

She was in trauma of failed marriage when she married Abhinav and she is grieving a loving husband when she is marrying Abhimanyu.