Originally posted by: dm_gemini
Virat held Pakhi’s hand during Harini Birthday celebration, lifted Pakhi in his arms, allowed Shruti & Pakhi to put on his shirt, allowed Shruti to kiss his hand, to hug him, took Pakhi alone on icecream dates, taught her pre-natal exercise. Somehow these are equivalent to maintaining boundaries but Ajinkya giving water to a sick, coughing Sai is cheap? Wasn’t Pakhi his ex-girlfriend? And even if Sai was “flirting” with Satya, she was single and Virat was married to Pakhi. So it is not cheating or whatever else you think it was. By that logic, even Virat danced a sensuous number with Pakhi in anniversary, went on honeymoon with her after Sai came back.
And regarding child-kidnapping charges - allowing impregnation of embryo into a woman (his ex-girlfriend) against the consent of the mother, snatching the baby from his mother & giving it to Pakhi, bailing criminal who endangered life of a baby & his mother amounts to criminal offence & severe form of marital abuse in real world.
Either ignore everything as cheap ITV drama or don’t be so misogynistically biased. Sai is far from being free of faults - she is flawed. But victimising Virat as some sacrificing, suffering, wronged man and villifying Sai as a selfish, ruthless girl is terribly skewed & frankly laughable.
I don't wanna say a lot on this but some questions to you.....
Was Sai a wife to Virat (during MBBS days) in any sense to be called as victim of what all you mentioned.....
Let aside this what all you mentioned about Shruti wasn't Virat hesitant or somewhat against it.....tbh shocked....
With Pl are you really saying me that Virat was doing all that by his will but not conditions.....you want me to say that Virat was cheap.....for surrogacy some of the areas were wrong I can agree.....but then also who was Pl there his ex or late brother's widow wife who was surrogate in such medical conditions let aside she was playing victim card.....
I really don't understand this what actually you want me to say is when you know that Virat allowed Pl for surrogacy because it was the last possible way for it, giving a suicidal woman his son who was benefitting of her position as victim (for few days), bailing out for family's repo a compoundable crime is for what Virat should be punished but not the woman who lost his son and kept his daughter away from him for 7-8 years.....?????
If flirting is not cheating so go and say to Sai na.....why she was claiming herself as highly moralistic woman who was fidel to him and didn't do anything wrong in her cabin with male colleague.....she is a self made single mother and woman ,you know what this is called as?????
I want to know from you what does it mean are you with the same intension as am I (closed cabin ).....I think clearly cheap if you're Indian.....
When did I say Sai was cheap with Ajinkya I talked about having lines.....dance ,gifts, hug, cake, phone calls, bedroom visit in mansion etc etc ....what you say to this....Intensions are good so your actions become right kya?????
Are all this comparable to Virat's what all you described.....there is no difference between these both.....????
(Don't talk about misogyny ITV is biased towards FL not ML...... it's called as pseudo feminist approach to go ahead and please female audience......if male audience would have there even 20-30%, you yourself would have got reality check)
I am not misogynist man.....you can say somewhat disappointed of biased portrayals and hidden side plus to an extent favouritism that's it....
Virat had flaws yes he had, but what all he did for Sai can you compare it with what Sai did for him......he had options of marrying a good woman but he married Sai, she was intolerable in academic time.....he gave one sided efforts only for her so many years and never cared what normally he would have got, he lost big dimensions of life.....Sai got temporary pain areas but not him ,she got everything from him which she didn't even have.... I don't know why makers were busy in showing Sai only......
Sai was good yes she was but I was talking about overall scenario ,your kind hearted version doesn't make you a good wife and woman (human).....
Last of all what do you think that after 7-8 years my wife is coming with a daughter after losing my son and a man is stalking you everywhere (CA)...... When he was suicidal, alcoholic, depression for all those years , he never moved on when his life wanted him to.....here you are saying me that Sai is victim and Virat is villain this is what I can't consider.....in post leap scenario......
Virat was human and flawed too but if you will say me a wrong guy no man.....I think I am a college boy so my way of looking at things is different and gender aspects too.....so I can understand your point but I don't say Sai as vile and Virat as victim just a simple thing.....why Virat wasn't treated with equal importance
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Edited by Ashane25 - 1 years ago
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