White day and Black day DT pg 7 - Page 2

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

No Abhinav's death can never be white day parallel, That day 2 parents lost one their twins. A mother lost an adult son, a wife lost her husband and a daughter lost a father she never had a chance to meet and she never will. Neil died fighting for a noble cause, Abhinav died due to his own stupidity.

Abhinav's death can never be parallel to white day

Abhir lost a father figure not his real father, AK lost a namesake husband who she clearly told in the hospital you can be Abhir's father but I will never give you rights over me. A marriaage of convenience has broken and a life has been lost and my condolences for it but I will never accept Abhinav's death as equal to White Day.

@bold Then how come that day a mother lost her son because as far as I remember Neil was not her biological kid thus he was not her real kid.Because here Abhir lost his father figure who wasn't his real father but Manjari who wasn't real mother of Neil lost her adult son ?

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I think they are parallels in terms of emotions and that is what matters. In that, Ak was implicated on wd, and Abhi is implicated now. Ak's issue was that Abhi believed those implications and blamed her along with everyone else. Now she will blame him too, based entirely on BP's misunderstandings. So that way it is equal.

What is there to implicate in Abhinav's death. The guy went out, he got drunk, he slipped and fell. An incident that happened on a social outing can not be equivalent dangers involved in human trafficking and kidnapping and fighting dangerous gang

One adopted son+ two babies + real father + real husband + brother > One adopted father and real husband

post edited to remove moral policing

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

What is there to implicate in Abhinav's death. The guy went out, he got drunk, he slipped and fell. An incident that happened on a social outing can not be equivalent to fighting goons involved in human trafficking and kidnapping.

I also don't understand the implicating part. Like how BP randomly decided Abhi was dangerous is beyond me, and then randomly saw something and decided Abhi pushed is also beyond me. I don't understand BP's logic here. There is def waaay less to implicate Abhi than there was to implicate Ak. But....what to do.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I also don't understand the implicating part. Like how BP randomly decided Abhi was dangerous is beyond me, and then randomly saw something and decided Abhi pushed is also beyond me. I don't understand BP's logic here. There is def waaay less to implicate Abhi than there was to implicate Ak. But....what to do.

I just wished AK has given some space to Abhi and Manjari and Birla family that day.

I wish AK had realised the divorice papers were given to her by a man about to perform last rights for his brother.

I wish AK refused and told Abhi that she will not sign the divorce papers as both of them were not emotionally fit to do so.

I wish AK went to Goenkas instead of wondering on the road

Alot of counselling and therapy was needed post WD. Practical things that should have happened but writers messed it up badly

I’m going to bring the whole ‘Ak randomly took a bus and also, could have just as well returned back to goenkas when she found out one twin was alive and considering her complicated pregnancy status, given how they showed zero medical logic for a 7 month preemie baby surviving in the outside temperature with immature lungs and no feedings and no incubators’ argument again, but I will not, becos it’s well itv and kisiko acha dhikane keliye nonsensical scenes rakhne padege jasi toofani raat!!

Yep yep. I don't think Abhi was blameless, as Ak was physically weak, and he should have handled things with more care. But Ak was toh 100% stupid. Infact she is always stupid only, so I don't know what to say about her.

If something like that happened in real life, the girl would go back to her parent's house and stay there until things settled and then try to talk to her husband again. Divorce is not a thing to be done like that. Even the first time, Abhi just randomly sent divorce papers, and Ak accepted. I mean, what is that? And I feel like the worst part is their families who never supported them when they fell weak. In such a situation, BP should have taken care of Ak and made sure nothing happened to her. She became his responsibility since Abhi was too overwhelmed with everything else. But nope, and now Abhi is being blamed for not looking for her.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

I’m going to bring the whole ‘Ak randomly took a bus and also, could have just as well returned back to goenkas when she found out one twin was alive and considering her complicated pregnancy status, given how they showed zero medical logic for a 7 month preemie baby surviving in the outside temperature with immature lungs and no feedings and no incubators’ argument again, but I will not, becos it’s well itv and kisiko acha dhikane keliye nonsensical scenes rakhne padege jasi toofani raat!!

The main problem is that 90% of the ITV viewers are women so writers know it is easy to play viewers emotions by making a woman victim all the time.

One woman wipinjg her tears, never giving up and fighting the whole world

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Black day is done entirely to neutralize White day and its effects, so let us take it like that. On White day and the months after, both Abhi and Ak were wrong. But until now, neither has completely accepted their mistake or even understood the other person's side. Now both will. It doesn't matter really how extreme either of the two mistakes is. The point is to be put in the other person's shoes.

Ak will blame Abhi, baselessly and believe that he could commit such a horrible crime in the first place. Abhi will go through hell because of Ak (...again) but will come out the other side, proven innocent.

Ak will get that whatever Abhi did on white day, she has done something similar and has blamed him without understanding the full story. This proves that what she did as her little act of revenge in hiding Abhir was also wrong, and getting another father for her kid was also wrong.

Abhi will also understand that being blamed for a death is traumatizing, esp when you didn't do anything, And that people under such trauma can make bad decisions, such as Ak hiding her son from him.

So, this leads to both of them accepting the past and apologizing for it.

I honestly see Ak having to apologize more than Abhi here cause Abhi already accepted whatever she did and has let it go. It's up to her to accept what Abhi did and why he did it. So that is what will happen next. Obviously, first lots of DDP.

But at least now, we can all collectively stop arguing about white day, because black day neutralizes it. We don't need any more comparisons here.

Yeah, but do women really want to see women being plain stupid? Why can't they have intelligent female leads?