Episode Air Date August 2,2023 - Page 40

Dejavu

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Originally posted by: lagjagale

Memories cannot be called love and I agree with that. But Abhi wasn't shown to just remember Ak sometimes. His life stopped that day and he stopped living entirely. How can he move on then?

Even the first time, he was only alive with for anger and for confronting her. This time, even without that, we see him only waking up from zombie mode in his first Kasauli trip. His love for her isn't just that he thinks his life would be better with her. His love is that he will die without her in his life and if he has to live, he will live like a zombie.

There is no getting out at that point for him.

Akshara moved on but for that she needed a whole new partner in the form of abhinav. Now that she has him , it's not like she is suffering from selective amnesia to have forgotten all the memories with abhimanyu , it's just that they don't affect her still because she got a replacement . Abhimanyu doesn't have that replacement.

The fact is , in this world there are millions of beautiful people both in terms of heart and looks . No person would deny a suitable match once he comes across it , no matter how many memories he has of his ex . AbhiM didn't got that replacement according to the show because he had a stranded son abhir , and if he was married it would have been more a noodle . Now is the correct time to bring a new female lead , which I know the makers won't bring because they don't want to spend extra money .

By using 'he' , I mean both the genders collectively , because I read that in english language we do that . My recent finding 😅.

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

Akshara moved on but for that she needed a whole new partner in the form of abhinav. Now that she has him , it's not like she is suffering from selective amnesia to have forgotten all the memories with abhimanyu , it's just that they don't affect her still because she got a replacement . Abhimanyu doesn't have that replacement.

The fact is , in this world there are millions of beautiful people both in terms of heart and looks . No person would deny a suitable match once he comes across it , no matter how many memories he has of his ex . AbhiM didn't got that replacement according to the show because he had a stranded son abhir , and if he was married it would have been more a noodle . Now is the correct time to bring a new female lead , which I know the makers won't bring because they don't want to spend extra money .

By using 'he' , I mean both the genders collectively , because I read that in english language we do that . My recent finding 😅.

The way Abhi is, it would be extremely hard for him regardless of a new partner. When you love someone that much, it becomes a part of who you are. It's hard to remove them after that without also losing a big portion of yourself. You can actually fall in love again, but you will still love that person and so you can never give a 100 percent to the new person. Abhi always gives everything his 100 percent so how can he justify this?

Until Ak dies, I see no hope for Abhi. Once she is dead, and if he is able to come out of that pain of her death - only then can he even imagine someone else.

So they need to kill Ak.

Also just cause someone is suitable, doesn't mean you can get that love at first sight wala feeling with them. The idea is that Ak is Abhi's soulmate. Whether or not he is hers we don't know. Maybe not. But for him, she is his soulmate and the only one who makes him feel hopeful for life.

Lol, sorry, I keep adding to this. But I am trying to find a way to phrase this correctly. Abhi wasn't looking for love when he found Ak. Ak became his whole reason for life itself. Now that she is not there, he is looking for reasons to live but nothing can compare to actually being hopefully and looking forward to life. There is living and existing and then there is dreaming about the future and looking forward to it.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Lol, sorry, I keep adding to this. But I am trying to find a way to phrase this correctly. Abhi wasn't looking for love when he found Ak. Ak became his whole reason for life itself. Now that she is not there, he is looking for reasons to live but nothing can compare to actually being hopefully and looking forward to life. There is living and existing and then there is dreaming about the future and looking forward to it.

How very beautifully phrased. ♥️ And it perfectly describes what Abhimanyu feels for Akshara. Akshara sadly never felt the same way, it was always something else that she prioritised over Abhimanyu right from the beginning. I am not saying she didn't love Abhimanyu, maybe she did but Abhimanyu was always a part of her life, for Abhimanyu, Akshara was his whole life. It also makes me believe that Akshara is not Abhimanyu's soulmate, Abhimanyu definitely thinks so (as you very rightly mentioned in the previous post). I guess some people are karmic partners (twin flames), they help you grow through pain. Akshara fits more in this category, because Abhimanyu did grow through his pain. Sadly, can't say the same about Akshara. So yeah, a new female lead would have been perfect for Abhimanyu at this point. But we all know that's not going to happen. 💁🏻

Sorry, If I got all spiritual! 😄

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Lol, sorry, I keep adding to this. But I am trying to find a way to phrase this correctly. Abhi wasn't looking for love when he found Ak. Ak became his whole reason for life itself. Now that she is not there, he is looking for reasons to live but nothing can compare to actually being hopefully and looking forward to life. There is living and existing and then there is dreaming about the future and looking forward to it.

When a person comes in a relationship with someone, he sees the other one as a ray of hope , to get ultimate peace . If that hope gets broken , it hurts .

Abhimanyu and akshara are mere mortals . Abhimanyu had his hope broken from akshara , but saying that he cannot or wouldn't accept someone else even if he finds that hope in some other person , is wrong .

Staying single is completely one's choice , but it shouldn't be out of grief of having one's heart broken previously.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

The way Abhi is, it would be extremely hard for him regardless of a new partner. When you love someone that much, it becomes a part of who you are. It's hard to remove them after that without also losing a big portion of yourself. You can actually fall in love again, but you will still love that person and so you can never give a 100 percent to the new person. Abhi always gives everything his 100 percent so how can he justify this?

Until Ak dies, I see no hope for Abhi. Once she is dead, and if he is able to come out of that pain of her death - only then can he even imagine someone else.

So they need to kill Ak.

Yeah people do remember their first crush and infatuations , but those memories don't hold any significance over their present life . One doesn't forget untill of course he starts suffering from amnesia.

Akshara will always remain in abhimanyu's life , but as a past .

Originally posted by: lagjagale

The way Abhi is, it would be extremely hard for him regardless of a new partner. When you love someone that much, it becomes a part of who you are. It's hard to remove them after that without also losing a big portion of yourself. You can actually fall in love again, but you will still love that person and so you can never give a 100 percent to the new person. Abhi always gives everything his 100 percent so how can he justify this?

Until Ak dies, I see no hope for Abhi. Once she is dead, and if he is able to come out of that pain of her death - only then can he even imagine someone else.

So they need to kill Ak.

The biggest hurdle in Abhimanyu’s happiness right now his own feelings of being a failed husband and father. Yesterday when he broke down on the road he was saying sorry couldn’t be a good dad and keep you happy. Akshara will not understand this - she didn’t have to make efforts for Abhir to call her mom! She is the only mother for him.

Abhimanyu didn’t try to compete with Abhinav or snatch his place - he tried creating his own - but Abhir made it a comparison that his parents are better so he will call him Docman - I don’t know who writes such pathetic dialogues - this I think it hit him deeply as it should!

He made Ruhi understand that both kids are dear to him but Abhir’s dialogues made it appear that he was treating him as a stand-in for his parents as they sent him away and now that they are back - Abhimanyu’s role is over! I get that Abhir is a kid and he would want to be with Sharmas but this is a very problematic depiction of events!