Episode Air Date August 2,2023 - Page 39

Originally posted by: lagjagale

First white day is old news at this point and I don't understand why one day has to define everything. But if we do want to talk about that day then yes they all neglected Ak's pain because they themselves were in pain. She is ignoring their pain on a daily basis without any triggers like someone's death.

Do you see the difference? When you urself are in pain and guilt it is hard to look and feel other people's pain as well. But for the past 8 months Ak has been neglecting everyone's pain without any good reason. If she was in trauma and stuff I would understand, and I did in the initial Kasauli episodes. But they show her healing and moving on with Nav. So what immediate pain is she in exactly that she can be that vile and hateful towards Abhi and Manjari when they find out about the kid ?

If she can move on with Nav then she can also move of from the pain of white day and go for co parenting with Abhi. Be cordial and understanding like he was trying to be. He has been shown to feel her pain throughout all of this. Everytime she is in pain he himself is in pain. But for her that is absent. There is no empathy or understanding. No efforts to make things right again.

And to your point, if Ak and the kids died because of Neil- I am sure Abhi would have been equally if not more mad and devastated. He can't divorce his brother, but he would have asked for space cause his brother would become a constant reminder of what happened. He himself may have moved out etc. So it is similar.

Akshara was in pain mode for some time..post leap se revenge mode is on..someone who got pain..now gives pain back to same people ..fir kaisi sympathy for that person...Abhi did not hurt Akshara intentionally maliciously...WD me bhi there was extreme trauma associated with his reactions...his anger jiska ek logical basis tha...his wife stupidity cost a life...Akshara ka changing father over phone call and then actively trying to keep Abhi away from Abhir...telling ki I won't let you be his father...that is all intentional..

Well said. I started watching S3 for no one in particular. Was not a HC fan. This was his first show that I watched and can say I am a fan now. Agreed his is the only character that has retained the essence of his original character and there has been a positive growth. He was short tempered and took rash decisions in anger. That used to irritate me but he always corrected his mistakes when he realized it. He has since corrected the flaws he initially had. AK was irritating right from the begining with her always putting him last. She always ignored any wrong by AR or the GK. Now her character has gone from bad to worse. As for Nav I agree as a Abhira fan I wanted Abhira but had they executed the whole plot better I would have not really had issue. What Og AK was no matter what she would never have said and done the vile stuff even if she hated AB. So I don’t buy anything about Navra. Had they showed a 6 year leap and she settled happily married I would have accepted. But all this suddenly after meeting AB doesn’t sit well. I could identify with her pain till the mandir confession and was really happy to see her reject him. But from that point I also see he has realized his mistakes and has worked towards improving himself. As for her I expected her to now let go of her issues and move ahead but no she just got worse and and worse. I amReally no able to understand why they are showing just one person being attacked even if he really isn’t at fault.

Atleast they get to smile offscreen together 😆….after such a heavy emotional episode, good to see smiling faces :)

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Originally posted by: AreYaar

Atleast they get to smile offscreen together 😆….after such a heavy emotional episode, good to see smiling faces :)

I can’t imagine how emotionally taxing these scenes must be for these actors!

HC always credits the makers and the writers, says that he as an actor simply just portrays what they have envisioned or written. So humble. But all credits must actually go to him.

If it were me, I would need therapy to just get over my day’s worth of work and be able to do it all over again when I wake up the next morning. 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Abhinav ji ke golden words for Mrs Sharma ki khamoshi 😆….6 saal Mrs Sharma ki screaming se kaan ke parde phatne ke baad ka dard lagta hai yeh 🤣….Humara current dard sirf Sharma ji samajh sakte hain 🙏😂

Nav ji ke sath no screaming. iska muh band hota hai!

woh toh bahut acha pati hai na!

Being unhappy alone is better than being unhappy with someone.

Having 10 reasons of being unhappy before marriage doesn't mean that person should welcome 10 more reasons of misery after marriage . Already suffering from problems isn't any reason to make it worse with more problems .

Just like any other person , he too had his problems , marrying ak just made it all the more worse . It's like saying ' gareebi mein aata geela '

Just to add :

Like I previously said , the consequences of every mistake is regarded as person's own mistake but contrastingly the mistake of choosing a wrong partner is never called out . The first step of rectifying oneself is accepting faults. How will a person initiate this rectification process if his misery and depression resulting out of the bad decision are being praised and glorified .

In some previous posts , I read that abhimanyu struggled to move on from ak but couldn't. The word ' struggled ' here itself means that he wants/wanted to come out of that condition and that he didn't like that condition to began with .

Originally posted by: dotheDrama

I can’t imagine how emotionally taxing these scenes must be for these actors!

HC always credits the makers and the writers, says that he as an actor simply just portrays what they have envisioned or written. So humble. But all credits must actually go to him.

If it were me, I would need therapy to just get over my day’s worth of work and be able to do it all over again when I wake up the next morning. 😆

Those are actors and have a sense of their profession . I have experienced that when someone is under prolonged tension , their face signifies it . Given that these two appear ok offscreen and onscreen , shows that they are very well unaffected by it . Tension sirf audience ko hota hai , inn sabko paise milte hain 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

Being unhappy alone is better than being unhappy with someone.

Having 10 reasons of being unhappy before marriage doesn't mean that person should welcome 10 more reasons of misery after marriage . Already suffering from problems isn't any reason to make it worse with more problems .

Just like any other person , he too had his problems , marrying ak just made it all the more worse . It's like saying ' gareebi mein aata geela '

Just to add :

Like I previously said , the consequences of every mistake is regarded as person's own mistake but contrastingly the mistake of choosing a wrong partner is never called out . The first step of rectifying oneself is accepting faults. How will a person initiate this rectification process if his misery and depression resulting out of the bad decision are being praised and glorified .

In some previous posts , I read that abhimanyu struggled to move on from ak but couldn't. The word ' struggled ' here itself means that he wants/wanted to come out of that condition and that he didn't like that condition to began with .

Yeah, I think this has already been addressed in the show. After Neil's death, Abhi didn't just blame Ak, he blamed himself for bring her into their lives. He was regretting choosing the wrong partner. That is what happened. And yes he tried to move on for six years.... because he believed that choosing Ak was a wrong decision that led to horrible things in his life.

But he wasn't able to. He still loves her and he kept on trying by forgetting her or by becoming zombie or by keeping on reminding him why he was thinking that and stuff. But Abhi is the heart wants what it wants person. In his heart he knew that Ak wasn't wrong, that she didn't kill Neil and also that he is unhappy without her. But he was in his own delusions at that time. Then right before his accident, we see him coming out of that delusion - he realizes that Ak is the only light in his life. So that was his breakdown and realizing that it was delusional to believe they were wrong for each other, that he could ever move on from her, that it was possible to live without her in his life.

So he went after her again. He was under the assumption that Ak remarried cause he rejected her because of his own delusions. But then during temple confrontation he got the full picture of how much wrong he had been for Ak. Till then it was just Ak being wrong for him.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Yeah, I think this has already been addressed in the show. After Neil's death, Abhi didn't just blame Ak, he blamed himself for bring her into their lives. He was regretting choosing the wrong partner. That is what happened. And yes he tried to move on for six years.... because he believed that choosing Ak was a wrong decision that led to horrible things in his life.

But he wasn't able to. He still loves her and he kept on trying by forgetting her or by becoming zombie or by keeping on reminding him why he was thinking that and stuff. But Abhi is the heart wants what it wants person. In his heart he knew that Ak wasn't wrong, that she didn't kill Neil and also that he is unhappy without her. But he was in his own delusions at that time. Then right before his accident, we see him coming out of that delusion - he realizes that Ak is the only light in his life. So that was his breakdown and realizing that it was delusional to believe they were wrong for each other, that he could ever move on from her, that it was possible to live without her in his life.

So he went after her again. He was under the assumption that Ak remarried cause he rejected her because of his own delusions. But then during temple confrontation he got the full picture of how much wrong he had been for Ak. Till then it was just Ak being wrong for him.

Memories in the head can't be deemed love . Ofcourse , one make memories with everyone around , especially with the close relationships and those memories are often quite hard to forget . Many people dread their toxic ex and would never choose to go back with them but their memories time and again come to haunt them.

It's quite obvious that abhimanyu came in relationship with akshara with some expectations and I don't mean high but alteast some of them being basic . He had his expectations, his own plans of spending his whole life with Ak, old age, having children etc. When those expectations break , they are bound to cause pain . People sometimes have to recieve therapy to get over a heartbreak or death.

Something as material as rebounding memories in head can't be termed as 'love'.

Being responsible for someone's death doesn't necessarily mean that one has to actively go and kill the person . It can be instigation , persuasion , encouragement etc. Akshara very well persuaded neil to go out and do something that neighter he was accounted for , nor expertised in . Yes neil was grown enough to take his own decision, but that doesn't undermine akshara's low deeds of leading a person to a life threatening position.

Thinking from a married person's perspective, the least expectation from spouse would be that the spouse would try to stop the former's family member if he tries to indulge in some life threatening activity , let alone persuading is a totally inexplicable and unforgivable thing . Abhimanyu was not wrong on the white day .

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

Memories in the head can't be deemed love . Ofcourse , one make memories with everyone around , especially with the close relationships and those memories are often quite hard to forget . Many people dread their toxic ex and would never choose to go back with them but their memories time and again come to haunt them.

It's quite obvious that abhimanyu came in relationship with akshara with some expectations and I don't mean high but alteast some of them being basic . He had his expectations, his own plans of spending his whole life with Ak, old age, having children etc. When those expectations break , they are bound to cause pain . People sometimes have to recieve therapy to get over a heartbreak or death.

Something as material as rebounding memories in head can't be termed as 'love'.

Being responsible for someone's death doesn't necessarily mean that one has to actively go and kill the person . It can be instigation , persuasion , encouragement etc. Akshara very well persuaded neil to go out and do something that neighter he was accounted for , nor expertised in . Yes neil was grown enough to take his own decision, but that doesn't undermine akshara's low deeds of leading a person to a life threatening position.

Thinking from a married person's perspective, the least expectation from spouse would be that the spouse would try to stop the former's family member if he tries to indulge in some life threatening activity , let alone persuading is a totally inexplicable and unforgivable thing . Abhimanyu was not wrong on the white day .

Memories cannot be called love and I agree with that. But Abhi wasn't shown to just remember Ak sometimes. His life stopped that day and he stopped living entirely. How can he move on then?

Even the first time, he was only alive with for anger and for confronting her. This time, even without that, we see him only waking up from zombie mode in his first Kasauli trip. His love for her isn't just that he thinks his life would be better with her. His love is that he will die without her in his life and if he has to live, he will live like a zombie.

There is no getting out at that point for him.