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Originally posted by: verve

@bold Agreed.

But AB's unhealthy codependency with his mother & him being a bad husband are established narratives in the show.. So I wasn't much surprised with him choosing his mum repeatedly over AK.

My concern is what was the need to play victim in front of the family of that very ex-wife whom he himself divorced saying their relationship is a catastrophe. Whom he blamed for multiple deaths.

His behavioural trait of being a perpetual victim in front of everyone like his mother is detestable!!

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Post edited to remove portions flouting IF COC

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

Now Akshara and Abhinav out of their own will want to cheer up Abhi because they can’t be happy unless Abhi is happy- which makes no sense especially for Akshara- she has been wanting Abhi just to leave her happy family alone and to go back to Kasauli- now he did that but now she is worried because Abhi isn’t happy. In what world, will someone be happy after being rejected by their own child and demoted to a friend.

So like Abhi goes against Akshara- she isn’t happy. Abhi gives her what she wants and leaves them alone- she isn’t happy.

So what exactly is Abhi supposed to do? He isn’t allowed to have time to get over his emotions?

Also, shouldn’t Akshara and Abhinav be dealing with their financial condition- this was brought up many times plus their child had a medical condition where they didn’t have enough money. You never know what can happen in the future- Abhir can fall sick again. So why aren’t they focusing on bettering their financial conditions instead of worrying about Abhi’s feelings when he never asked them to.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

it’s a two way thing..both mother and son have an unhealthy relationship..manjeri is the problem..she had no life of her own..no man to love her, no romance, no career so she became obsessed with her son..and he In turn tried to make up for the neglect manjeri got from,his father ..by making manjeri his priority.. and fulfilling her every wish. To be honest.. abhimanyu is the type of man every woman needs to run away from as far as possible.. I’m not from India.. and we don’t live in these huge extended family households where there’s like a dozen people living together in the same house and everyone in the house knows what’s happening in everyone’s lives.. so to me this birla house seems so claustrophobic and terrible., I wouldn’t be able to breathe if I had to live like that with those toxic people..one beating up his wife, other crazy mother son duo, rude arrogant aunty, psychotic cousin who fell to her death..toxic abusive marriage of inlaws..🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️.. so that’s why aksharas life with abhinav was so refreshing and peaceful,.because that’s how we all live where I’m from.. peacefully with no problems from toxic in laws 😂

But to be honest here it is being shown that Manjari treats AbhiM-AK relationship as her toy. Whenever she wants she wants the couple to stay together and be happy.When she does not want she has no qualms breaking their relationship. Had she been not so toxic we would have seen AbhiM reaching out to AK in those 7 months .These type of Moms I believe is not the norm in real life.And as humanity is progessing in-laws are becoming more liberal and understanding. I am talking here about Indian in-laws only.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

Now Akshara and Abhinav out of their own will want to cheer up Abhi because they can’t be happy unless Abhi is happy- which makes no sense especially for Akshara- she has been wanting Abhi just to leave her happy family alone and to go back to Kasauli- now he did that but now she is worried because Abhi isn’t happy. In what world, will someone be happy after being rejected by their own child and demoted to a friend.

So like Abhi goes against Akshara- she isn’t happy. Abhi gives her what she wants and leaves them alone- she isn’t happy.

So what exactly is Abhi supposed to do? He isn’t allowed to have time to get over his emotions?

Also, shouldn’t Akshara and Abhinav be dealing with their financial condition- this was brought up many times plus their child had a medical condition where they didn’t have enough money. You never know what can happen in the future- Abhir can fall sick again. So why aren’t they focusing on bettering their financial conditions instead of worrying about Abhi’s feelings when he never asked them to.

Red : Because that is what any human with empathy will do after seeing AbhiMs condition. It makes complete sense that they will try to make Abhir spend time with AbhiM so he can recover from this state. That is basic human decency. Same as what AbhiM wanted to do when he wanted to take Abhir to Kasauli when AK was sick.

Before you ask about why AK hid Abhir from AbhiM before,I will repeat what I said before it was because she was afraid AbhiM will snatch Abhir (and also Abhim has also said he does not care about his child over phone) and the reason of her fear is that same WD that everyone knows about.

Blue: I am sure SHarmas would have concentrated on working on their finances but you have to understand they need to spend time at a hillside so that Nav can fall down and die with AbhiM trying to catch him. Promos were already shown to viewers. Now the producer has to shoot the episode. If the Sharmas go back to Kasauli immediately after getting ABhir,how will that scene come true .😉

This man truly is a live definition of selfishness . He can only be happy when he gets what he wants that too he can't handle. He can never be happy in the happiness of people he apparently loves ? What an attitude ! On what basis he claims to love abhir so much ? Just like he loved akshara once upon a time 🤯

The poor kid tries to reach out to him but he is just standing there , absorbed in his pity party.

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

First of all, I have no idea and I did not say where I said kids are like chocolate and when one is gone, you should be happy with the other. I am explicity stating this so you will not misunderstand me again.

My idea is he is sad. He says he has got nothing to live for. According to that he had nothing to live for when Neil and his unborn children died and he threw Akshara out. But he still found a reason to live in Roohi and his mother. The fatherless child of his brother. She became one of the sole reasons apart from his mom to live.

Now he gets Abhir, Roohi takes a backseat for him. It was explicitly shown in some episodes especially picnic ones. Now Abhir has rejected him and wants to live with his parents. What Abhimanyu Birla can't take is rejection. He becomes sad. Anyone will be. Even Akshara was when she had to give Abhir to Abhimanyu.

But saying I don't have reasons to live when there is Roohi who loves her poppy to the core, it feels like just because he cannot be with his khoon, nothing else matters. And it is not even like Abhir is dead (God forbid), he is with his mom where Abhimanyu can meet him anytime he wants. He is financially so well off, he can fly to Kasauli anytime he wants. That's how custody works in divorces, right? Do parents wash their hands off the other kid's responsibility because one of their kids is with the mom is the question? Akshara got weekends. He can come visit Abhir on weekends. Why is he blowing this out of proportion? Akshara used to wait for weekends so she can spend time with Abhir. She got sick only when Manjari suspended all kind of her visitation rights.

Again, let's see today's episode. Your 6 year old son without whom you cannot apparently live with is, standing behind you, hugging you. What does he give prominence to? His feelings, not the kid's. Who will make a kid feel guilty because the kid just asked for their wish? (I know Akshara and Abhinav did and I do not agree with it all but the context is different. It was not selfish reasons or taking revenge on Abhir because he hurt their feelings or anything, not supporting what they did. Just saying context is different.)

Abhimanyu's character has been very consistent since the beginning of season 3. He hasn't changed even a bit. And that is exactly the problem. In a way the core of his personality is just like Aarohi's pre leap. Both of them want to be the centre of the universe and everyone else to revolve around them. The only difference is the modus operandi. Aarohi schemed, plotted and manipulated. Abhimanyu shouts, breaks stuff, cries and gaslight others. I think Abhimanyu felt entitled for this wanting to be the centre of attention because of his mom and how she raised him. And everytime Akshara showed any priority towards anyone other than Abhimnayu he used to behave so badly making her feeling extremely guilty.

I hope this is clear.

Just tagging Noorain here, since you asked about rejection.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

And Akshara could have refused! Her family obviously didn’t agree to the match initially so she could have easily found a way to break up with him if she wanted.

You really think that? He lost his mid the first time she rejected him and went on to marry her sister, only to torture Akshara mentally and physically. Abhimanyu is stubborn. He wouldn't let Akshara live peacefully if she had broken up with him which is very explicit from his behaviour during their love story!

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

You really think that? He lost his mid the first time she rejected him and went on to marry her sister, only to torture Akshara mentally and physically. Abhimanyu is stubborn. He wouldn't let Akshara live peacefully if she had broken up with him which is very explicit from his behaviour during their love story!

No, it literally is not. When she rejected him, he was trying to move on, until SHE came to plan his bday party. And then SHE decided to defend him with him asking her definitely not to. Look, it's ridiculous to say that she only married him out of some pressure; she fought with everyone in order to marry him. Then she had to go and convince him also that she loves him and wants to marry him and will put him first over Arohi.

Kaha se in all of this you think she didn't have a choice ?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

The thing is REJECTION word can’t be applied for the relation of janmdene wale mata pita and santaan.

Bacche mata pita ko Reject nahi kar sakte and mata pita apne janm diye hue bacche ko REJECT nahi kar sakte .

In fact janm denewale mata pita kabhi apne bacche ke liye second option nahi hote.

REJECT , Second option yeh sab words janm dene wale maata pita and bacche par apply ho he nahi sakte. In words ka janm dene wale mata pita yah santaan ke samne koi wajood he nahi hai and yeh baat sadiyo se chali aa rahi hai and duniya don’t need serial maker to establish this fact on television.

According to me everyone should be able to reject and cut ties with anyone even if they are your parents but is toxic to you. If you weren't able to provide a safe space for your kid, any kid should he able to reject them.

Like some children do file for emancipation

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

Also, shouldn’t Akshara and Abhinav be dealing with their financial condition- this was brought up many times plus their child had a medical condition where they didn’t have enough money. You never know what can happen in the future- Abhir can fall sick again. So why aren’t they focusing on bettering their financial conditions instead of worrying about Abhi’s feelings when he never asked them to.

Abhir ka biological father billionaire hai Sharma family apne future ka hi preparations kar rahi hai, Aaj tak to inko Abhi ki tension na hui jab achanak se court ne Abhi ke money ko highlight kiya to inko Abhi se bahut lagaw ho gaya, nahi to pahle to Abhi mar jata to nahi batate Abhir ke bare me. Dono ek number ke dogle hai