Like always [DT Note: pg-11] - Page 8

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

There is no parallel between AK and Abhim. A mother losing custody of the child she raised from birth and child getting uprooted from his home is not at all comparable to AbhiM losing a chance to spend days 7 days a week with his son whom he knows for a mere couple of months and has not yet build any significant attachment.The reaction was super ott and and that combined with the dialogues that he has nothing to live for only reiterates the belief of some audience who thinks that he does not give importance to the people who are already part of his life ( read Ruhi) and just thinks about me and myself. I never used that phrase but cant help it today.

Time doesn't defines a relationship. When ak was enjoying the childhood of abhir, abhi was drowning in pain of his lost twins. It's not just a matter of couple of days but it's the matter of years of longing. Ak got separated not lost abhir,but abhimanyu has lost his kid totally. Ak was and will always be abhir's mom but abhimanyu won't be.

Definitely a mother loves a child the most but a father also loves the child equally. And about ruhi,I have clarified in my above post, tired of writing the same.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

reply: and when did he actually forced abhir. If he wanted he could have forced abhir with him cause he won the custody but he didn't. He let him go. Now he is feeling pain so he is crying. As far as I know he didn't even know today that abhir has came. He thought it was a dream.

Furthermore can't a man cry if he feels the pain.

Why is it different and everyone should feel the pain when Mr.Selfish Birla the great cries? It looked very funny holding that teddy and running ,Abhir is only with him for a week or 2.

He won the custody only on the basis of money ,so he forced n snatched Abhir from his mom/parents. Even after noticing Abhir is unhappy in BH he never even thought of sending him back ,he also said he will fight in HC for his rights. And supported his mom’s evil acts saying only because of her his son is with him. Am not saying he should not feel the pain or he is wrong in thinking to spend time with Abhir but he should give some time and space to the kid to accept,. Today he is behaving childish and stupid and wanting to die ?seriously? Even Ak didn’t do so much drama when she lost the custody.

Ruhi is not something to heal his pain . Ruhi is his responsibility. Idk why things are forgettem in itv as per convenience but as you remember dying Neil took promise from both ak and abhi to take care of his baby but only abhi did and ak...I don't think even she remembers.

Yeah right iDK how things are conveniently forgotten , they showed Ruhi is the one who healed him from the pain.. but now unfortunately he prioritises his blood over Ruhi.

Yeah If parents have 2 kids and something happens to 1 kid they will be sad and broken but won’t drink and go die ,they will also think of the other kid but Mr.selfish Birla’s only priority is his own Khoon ,he hurt Ruhi very badly in the summer camp too prioritising Abhir. And now today without caring for her love or thinking about her he is ready to end his life ?what happened he conveniently forgot Neil’s promise ?

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Originally posted by: Jenakt17

This rejection isn’t any normal rejection, this rejection is from his own son and not only that his son also said can I call you Docman instead of Dada. Did Abhi react awfully when Abhir requested that no, he agreed and smiled at him. He had a call and went outside and that’s when he broke down- he didn’t do it in front of anyone- Akshara came outside on her own.
He hasn’t displayed his pain in front of Abhir, today they came to Birla house and Abhi was drunk- he didn’t know they were coming.

But Abhimanyu chose to give Abhir himself. No one forced him nor any court orders he had to follow? I’m not saying he shouldn’t cry out his heart, he has emotions, he is a human, he loves his son and did it for his happiness but when Akshara and Abhinav break down because of Abhir, why are they made fun of? Abhir slept on his father’s chest for 7 years but his emotions are a joke. A mother went through so much to give Abhir birth and raised him but her sickness, hiccups, and wanting to see Abhir was melodramatic? I’m just confused why emotions are reserved for a few people and not everyone.

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

The over the top crying on the roadside and going for suicide can be attributed to his lack of maturity. He is not capable of leading a balanced life and cannot think beyond himself ( not even Ruhi ).

He can do all this because he’s hurt but others are made fun of when they do :)

Originally posted by: Noorain13

He can do all this because he’s hurt but others are made fun of when they do :)

I asked same thing they deleted it🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

God , time doesn't defines a relationship. Why you guys forget that when ak was enjoying the childhood of abhir,abhi was drowning in pain of his lost twins. It's not just a matter of couple of days but it's the matter of years of longing. Ak got separated not lost abhir,but abhimanyu has lost his kid totally. Ak was and will always be abhir's mom but abhimanyu won't be.

Definitely a mother loves a child the most but a father also loves the child equally. And about ruhi,I have clarified in my above post, tired of writing the same.

His son, who he mourned for 6 years, the one he fought hard to be acknowledged as father of, started calling him dadda and then went back to docman. He won the legal custody to live with his son but gave it away for his happiness. And it has been one day since then. Is Abhimanyu not allowed to be sad about it either!

So he should just pretend and behave like nothing happened, its all normal!

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

The victim card game has started. Like always Abhimanyu Birla has started playing his victim card. The kid wants to stay with his parents. Abhimanyu to start with the victim card gives the kid to his parents. So, Ruhi doesn't matter to him? All that matters to him is a kid with his blood running in them calling him papa. In that sense, Abhinav is a much better father.

Also, even Sharma's didn't do these much over drama after losing Abhir's custody and they have raised him for 6 years. I could feel Akshara's pain, but this guy like what even is this?!

And again, this Abhimanyu never had a grown up life or what? I mean who controls their almost middle aged son like this? Manjari needs to know where he is at almost all the time. She weeps like she lost something because her grown ass son comes home drunk one day? Imagine living with a mother like that for all your life. With her breathing down your neck, nudging you towards all what she decides for you. It is definitely a very unhealthy co-dependent relationship. Also, Manjari at the same time expected Akshara to stay away from her 6 year old son? What is this woman even?

Oh God! I can't even talk about Abhimanyu's drama. He hasn't gone through an ounce of pain Akshara went through, throughout her life. How do we even compare her situation when she was thrown out of her house by this same dude who's crying like he lost his favourite toy. There wasn't half the sympathy for her.

I think it should be in the Manjari's side of genes. Mother-son duo is definitely good at playing victim cards.

Also, Manjari has the audacity to say "You know only to give pain, Akshara". Seriously, woman? What have you and your son given her? Bucketful of rainbows and cotton candy? Lol. Yeh mother - son.

I am also hating this track where they are trying so hard to whitewash Abhimanyu without really making him apologise to the shit he put Akshara through.

Also, hate Akshara and Abhinav for starting the jaap Abhimanyu is an better/amazing person than us. What the hell has he done? Let his son go because the said son is not happy with him? Isn't that basic decent thing a human being/parent can do? I can't even.

Every son is like their mother

Manjari and Abhimanyu

Akshara and Abhir

No different anyways....

Akshara too played victim card...goint to BH every other day...she was also in pain

So why Abhimanyu 's pain is unbearable????

Why is the trio hanging out inBH instead of kasauli ....to rub salt in others wounds????

I don’t know if he is manipulating or not but definitely the situation is quite ironic. Manjari did not like Akshara visiting her son post winning the custody and Abhimanyu too said that because Akshara comes back again and again it is increasing Manjari’s insecurity Vs the Sharmas trying to be the ones bringing Abhir to Abhimanyu because they are aware of his pain and understand it. What I didn’t like in today’s episode though is a child getting exposed to alcoholism like that. Also, Manjari continues to be a hypocrite as always.

Now I am also intrigued to see if Abhinav dies by the hands of an alcoholic Abhimanyu? Is that why Akshara is shown blaming him of pushing and still not him shown going to jail? I mean if they think Abhinav died accidentally so it makes sense ki Goenkas kuch na kare against Abhimanyu, but if they are under the impression that he purposely pushed Abhinav they will at least file an FIR or something?🤔

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

I have just one thing to say in short no father wants to die leaving their kid as orphan. Here he was trying to do that. This means he does not value Ruhi and nor Abhir. And he did not lose Abhir he just lost the chance to live in the same house 7 days a week and neither are Sharmas going away to any remote country that he cannot meet him . He still has 100% chance to build up fatherly attachment. He just lost the chance of instant gratification.

Exactly he can still bond with him and since court gave him custody for being rich i think he can go on and off flights or can start hospital branch there to be near him