YRKKH Frustration Thread #1 [DT NOTE PG 30,44, 126]- Page 56

Originally posted by: Susi26

Really?? I didn’t see the episode yet. So are they telecasting two different plots for tv and Hotstar viewers 😲. Jay soni’s exit interview is only circulating in articles, never telecasted on tv or online. Now even I’m getting doubts.

Abhinav is dying! 🤣 ismein ab koi shakk mat rakhna...

No doubt in this he is but my golu is not winning heart mama papa and Kasauli

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

LOL ! Exactly he could have married and got his own kid if it’s just about kids ,but he was there through out the pregnancy with Ak , he risked his life to save them both and he was holding the baby for 3 days continuously ,so he got attached to the kid . From whatever little he knows and also from Ak n AbM’s phone conversation he got an idea that her husband don’t want her or her baby so for him he is fatherless , and he did ahsaan of course and married Ak to become Abhir’s father. His act is pure and selfless and that’s what being shown in the show too. Anyway we can agree to disagree.

Well he could have married and got his own kids, couldn’t he? But he thought he couldn’t. There were dialogue from him that no girl wants to marry an orphan without surname and one girl agreed but she didn’t want kids, so he refused as he didn’t want a family without kids!! Its not what I am saying, but what Abhinav’s ckt had said to Ak before of the leap. And then he runs into a stranded pregnant lady, he selfless takes care of her during pregnancy, save her and her kids life during toofani raat wali delivery. And when the lady wakes up from childbirth in hospital and ask him to be father, he agree.

I never thought it was ahsaan, but let’s say it was his ahsaan as you point out. Why does he need to do that ahsaan on Ak and the newborn child. Did he think Ak won’t be able to take care of herself and her child and the only way to help a lady and child in that situation is to marry her? Because no woman can live without a husband and no child can live without a father? What noble views he has and he thinks of women so highly 🙏🏻

Let’s fast forward 6 years later, Abhinav after Udaipur track tells Ak that marrying her was not an ahsaan, now why would he say that when he married her as an ahsaan on her and her child. Emotional manipulation? 🤔

Well he himself said no ahsaan, and that is what I think as well. That is why I call his decision a bad judgment, a selfish decision taken without thinking and understanding the implications, not a selfless, sacrificing act as gets portrayed for him.

But each to their own, let’s agree to disagree. 🙏🏻

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

Well he could have married and got his own kids, couldn’t he? But he thought he couldn’t. There were dialogue from him that no girl wants to marry an orphan without surname and one girl agreed but she didn’t want kids, so he refused as he didn’t want a family without kids!! Its not what I am saying, but what Abhinav’s ckt had said to Ak before of the leap. And then he runs into a stranded pregnant lady, he selfless takes care of her during pregnancy, save her and her kids life during toofani raat wali delivery. And when the lady wakes up from childbirth in hospital and ask him to be father, he agree.

I never thought it was ahsaan, but let’s say it was his ahsaan as you point out. Why does he need to do that ahsaan on Ak and the newborn child. Did he think Ak won’t be able to take care of herself and her child and the only way to help a lady and child in that situation is to marry her? Because no woman can live without a husband and no child can live without a father? What noble views he has and he thinks of women so highly 🙏🏻

Let’s fast forward 6 years later, Abhinav after Udaipur track tells Ak that marrying her was not an ahsaan, now why would he say that when he married her as an ahsaan on her and her child. Emotional manipulation? 🤔

Well he himself said no ahsaan, and that is what I think as well. That is why I call his decision a bad judgment, a selfish decision taken without thinking and understanding the implications, not a selfless, sacrificing act as gets portrayed for him.

But each to their own, let’s agree to disagree. 🙏🏻

Plz let’s agree to disagree 🙏🏼

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/163750276

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

He never manipulated anyone or he knows how to manipulate, he is always shown as a very selfless guy. After UD trip when they both love each other getting married is selfish ? He is not Mr.Birla to dhamki giving someone else’s wife or force kid and snatch from his mom and emotionally manipulate everyone around In my last post itself I said we can agree to disagree. Replied to someone else .

Plz let’s agree to disagree 🙏🏼

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/163750276

I think you didn’t really read or understand my post. I never said he manipulated anyone, I took your view of story that he did ahsaan when he agreed to marry Ak but then 6 years later he says it wasn’t ahsaan, so please explain why he changed his stance. That is where I wondered if he was emotionally manipulating her.

And in immediate next para, I said and quote “Well he himself said no ahsaan, and that is what I think as well.” If it wasn’t his ahsaan to marry Ak, 6 years later his words were genuine and hence not manipulative.

So what motivated his decision to agree for the marriage then. It was his desire to be the father of the child, which wasn’t a selfless decision but a selfish decision taken without thinking and understanding the implications. And it was his decision, his choice and hence the life that followed was his choice too, not some mahan act of sacrifice. Even if you don’t agree, I hope you atleast understood my logic here.

All I am trying to say here is that let’s not put all his decisions, choices on pedestal. Yes he is a helpful, decent human but he can and did make wrong choices and decisions too.

Let’s not put him on pedestal for this decision. If he had any sense, good will at all, he would have give a lady who had just gone through traumatic childbirth some space to heal mentally and physically before saying yes to that marriage proposal which was appealing to him because of his attachment to the child. She was in trauma and couldn’t think straight, what was his excuse?

Marriage isn’t just so that you can become “mother” and “father” of the child, it is a bond between 2 individuals first, which was not the basis of this marriage. It happened 6 years later is immaterial and still does not justify Abhinav’s decision.

Truth be told, I havent watched a single episode in full for a longass time and after the whole Abhinav exit, I cannot be bothered to watch even parts of it but Twitter did its job yesterday... showed me the bit where Abhir says 'you are the best but my parents are better than the best' to Abhimanyu and I just knew I had to watch today's episode.

AND MY GOD IT WAS GLORIOUS!

When ITV serves logic, drama and most importantly KARMA, IT SERVES!

This is the one episode I was waiting for since the day a miscarrying Akshara faced spousal abuse in the hands of Abhimanyu.

The one episode I was waiting for since the day Abhimanyu,rather than begging on his knees for forgiveness from his son's mother at being one of the worst MLs of ITV, he went all HAQ HAQ HAQ when he first got to know of his existence.

The one episode I was waiting for since the day Abhimanyu snatched Abhir from his parents and apparently the law helped him lol.

The one episode I was waiting for to prove one basic fact : Palne wala paida karne wale se bohut bara hota hain.

POETIC JUSTICE : Abhimanyu being outright rejected by Abhir, not just in favor of his parents who he obviously cannot replace but also reduced from Dadda to Docman again.

Loved all the POVs given with Arohi stating the most important one : Nobody's opinion matters except Abhir's. What he wants. Abhimanyu can throw at him all the money in the world but he cannot replace his Mumma-Papa and even the court cannot change what his heart wants. His chants of HAQ he tortured Akshara with will never work for Abhir.

I wrote in one of the last posts on Abhinav's exit thread that my only wish was seeing Akshara-Abhinav-Abhir back together as a family in Kasauli before any other nonsense takes place and DKP served me exactly that and for that am glad. Now whatever else that happens after this is IRRELEVANT.

ABHIR OUTRIGHT REJECTED ABHIMANYU FOR AKSHARA AND ABHINAV.

He also took away the forced other father status Abhimanyu tried to inculcate cause guess what, HE ALREADY HAS A FATHER. Abhinav Sharma!

The best part about all this is that while I would have loved,simply loved if Akshara had won the second custody case and took Abhir back.. TODAY WAS MUCH BETTER.

Cause THE SON,the so called 'prize' Abhimanyu wanted HAQ on and Manjiri wanted KABZA on CHOSE the father and family HE WANTS and REJECTED the father and family he DOESNT.

ABHIR CHOSE TO BE A SHARMA AND REJECTED BEING A BIRLA.

What more is left to be said? NOTHING. This is KARMIC JUSTICE for Abhimanyu's long list of sins, number 1 being his treatment of a miscarrying spouse like absolute trash, to be instantly divorced,physically assaulted by his family members and thrown out of the house. Then never bothering about her condition much much after. Number 2 being the failure to protect his son and his interests from his own vile mother.

POETIC JUSTICE for Akshara and Abhinav who raised their son with everything they had and therefore were his ONLY choice.

One thing was established today that nothing in the future can tarnish.

While Abhinav Sharma was alive and well, Akshara never bothered with Abhimanyu again. The latter might have taught her what's love but its the former who taught her how to love. Her reaction to his advent yesterday, to his 'Nikkeji' was everything to me. This is the Akshara I would remember. Burdened by her past and its bittersweet memories but choosing Abhinav over and over again, every single time. Thats Abhinav's Akshara. Choosing her happiness and family over and over again nomatter what life throws at her because she now knows what family and happiness truly mean and who hers lie with. Abhinav and Abhir. Till the very end.

But more importantly, while Abhinav Sharma was alive and well, ABHIR, his son.. the son he raised and gave his entire self to chose HIM as his FATHER, HIS PAPA. And that love was so strong that he even took back faux father epithet DADDA from Abhimanyu.

Only in DEATH would Abhir and Akshara ever choose anyone other than Abhinav to be their father and their husband, respectively. He's their ONLY choice when he was alive. Nobody could replace him. For them, Abhinav Sharma was the best father and best husband. And isnt that EVERYTHING? What else is left to say to that.

Just a wonderful, wonderful episode. An episode which basically wraps up Abhinav's arc beautifully. His son, Abhir Sharma chose the family he built,the house he built.. to spend the rest of his life there. His purpose of existence was to provide Abhir with everything he never had as an orphan and today by choosing him, Abhir fulfilled his purpose.

Abhir chose to be ABHIR ABHINAV SHARMA and rejected being ABHIR ABHIMANYU BIRLA.

With this, with today's episode, I feel like even my purpose of watching the show was fulfilled. Everything that came before and everything that would come after is now absolutely IRRELEVANT. This is the end that I wanted for Abhinav. Regardless of whatever Abhimanyu did or did not do, regardless of his upteenth whitewashing, Abhir's one true wish was being with his parents- Akshara Sharma and Abhinav Sharma. That nobody can change. No future narrative can change that.. and isnt that just wonderful. The entire Kasauli arc, Abhinav arc,Akshnav arc, Abhinav-Abhir arc is finally complete with Abhir's final wish, his choice : To be with his parents and to be A SHARMA.

[Note to Mods as usual : Not a frustration post in the slightest 😆 so kindly refrain from putting this anywhere else. Thank you! ]

Wonderfully written. Mike drop

This is exactly what I felt and you have poignantly worded so well. For me gen 3 yrkkh ends here.

Whatever happens after, I don’t care. I got my return of investment in watching this show post leap, full justice to Sharma family. I have no complaints whatsoever be the endgame.

This kind of closure, many lead pairs don’t even get that abhinav got. His Kasuali family choosing him and being with him happily.

Just watched the episode and you wrote this so so so so beautifully. Although most of us were a little shocked with the abrupt ending to Abhinav Sharma’s character, we wouldn’t want it any other way.

instead of having a picnic, I wish they went back to Kasauli. I just wanted the three of them for a few episodes before his death plus they also had mountains there if that’s how they wanted the death but oh well, I’m satisfied with his ending after todays episode :)

GOD BLESS YOU FOR THIS POST, TM!!!!!!

I literally re-started watching some of the recent episodes when Abhir ran away because it reminded me of the BALH season 1 track where Pihu runs away to see her mumma and it results in a showdown between her separated parents. It is one of the best episodes in all of ITV that a FL has gone off on a ML like that.

Even here, I was hoping for a showdown between Akshara and Abhimanyu once Abhir is safely found where she legit goes off on him at how badly he treated not only her but her son, for his own selfish desires and his mother's obsession with him.

But what we got was so much better than I could have ever expected!

Abhir himself rejecting this excuse of a man as his father and choosing to return to his rightful parents: THE SHARMAS

Everywhere on India Forums, I see people sympathizing with Abhimanyu and I just cannot bring myself to feel even a single ounce of sympathy for him. He got exactly what he deserved!!!

Plus, once you accept the responsibility of being a parent, the only -- and I mean ONLY -- person whose desires and well-being should come first is the CHILD. Everything that happened in the past is irrelevant. Akshara and Abhimanyu's history is irrelevant. It isn't about what either of them want. It's about what Abhir NEEDS. And he needs his parents: Akshara and Abhinav Sharma

Thank you for making this post again. I'm glad to find someone with thoughts similar to mine.

In my mind, Akshara and Abhinav will now live happily ever after in Kasauli with their darling son in a peaceful, loving environment, away from all the toxicity of the Birlas and Goenkas in Udaipur.

Execution.

Writer kabhi na Akshu ke character ke bare mein sochenge na Abhi ke character ke liye fir bolenge ki TRP nahi aai. Aaj bhi apne cameo ke liye age ki story ko sacrifice kar diya fir 2 -3 romantic scenes dal denge aur sochenge ki ho gaya. Aj jo hua uske baad Abhira ka koi meaning nahi bachta hai. Jab malum hai ki cameo ko end karna hai to jo characters bache hain unpe focus karke unke character ke liye story likhne ke bajaye apne cameo ke liye story likhi hai to fir wo character end hi kyo karna?

8 months abhira ke reunion ka wait kiya sari bakwas jheli har ek baat ki bhul kar, har bakwas track ki bhulkar sabne celebrate kiya jab Rajan ka interview aya to fir ye sab kyu?

Ab kisko chahiye Abhira? Mujhe to nahi chahiye Abhi ke sath Akshu, wo nahi to Abhir ke sath bhi Abhi ka bond pura khatam kar diya

Ab bacha kya hai?

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