Originally posted by: drsimran
I am happy about the 1000 episode milestone. There are some things I didn’t like about the show but I feel Anupama character had a growth arc.
What haters don’t understand is that there is a difference between talent and passion. Yes, Anupama is portrayed to be a good dancer but she is more passionate about her children and wanting them to succeed. Yes, most of her kids are ungrateful and greedy but a parent cannot give up hope.Why do people feel that success can only be the people who are career minded. Anupama just wanted to be respected by the people she is closest to. People should be financially independent to gain respect but their job and career should not be your whole life like it is for MD and Rakhi
Criticism is not hating. Period.
She is still serving her abusers who would flip any second to use her fir their own advantage. She is sponsoring baby shower in her new sasuraal . What else would these freeloaders want ??
Being a parent doesn't mean that you are tied to your children with shackles. If your children are adults , you have every right to dismiss them from your life if they never redeem themselves like Anupama's kids do.
Any relation be it between a parent and child is not worth to be kept long if it turns immensely unhealthy. Even parents should knock out those adult kids who are incorrigible. If we talk about a child or a teenager , punishing him would be the best way.
Forgiving should always be to a certain limit especially in case of adult kids who are married.
It's Anupama's forgiving nature that had kept her children into committing same mistake again and again. They knew that their mother was an emotional fool . So they had complete license to misbehave with her . They knew they just had to say SORRY MUMMY and she would be again the same. That's not how you grow your children.
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