Why does everyone support anupama..fatal turn of events - Page 7

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Well things could have been very different if Anuj had used even 1/10th of his brain rather than outsourcing all intelligent decisions to a certain someone who hardly uses 1/100th of her own brains and which BTW anuj knows all too well but still chooses to supplement her ego by claiming 'meri anu kabhi galat nahin hoti'. The all mighty anuj should realize that anu galat hoti hai. But again to think this practically, anuj anupama had no case and no chance of getting CA's custody. Only difference is Anupama accepted it and Anuj wants to blame everyone expect himself..he thinks he can do no wrong 

Jab yeh bolta tha ke meri anu kabhi galat nahi hoti to she was happy n her ego was satisfied jaise hi usko sach bola ke she is not a devi n has faults n she has made errors to she started her nonsense by playing victim card.Paakhi ke kaands ke time to beech road pe aik bacchi ko chodh ke chali gayi thj anupamaa tab kyun nahi accept kiya ke uski aulaad kitni bighdi hui hai balke saath mein jake uske saath  hi road pe let gayi.

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Anuj expectation are his own...he assumed too many things. Just because her kids are adults...it doesn't mean they won't need their mom

And it's not like anupama for sorting her Kids issue 24/7....there were times she was not there for CA but there were lots of times she was there too...but no one will talk about that. Any mother with 4 kids will have issues balancing their time.

Just hell bent on proving lots of things that didn't even happen

@bold Frankly she hardly spent any time in KH..She was mostly busy in shah house with her ex pati,kids,baa bapuji n their chai patti nonsense.And I hardly remember Anu being their for CA.There were no times when we saw Anu with CA rather she was absent from KH and was present in Shah house thanks to her grown ass up kids kaands.Tell me when was Anu available for CA ? She wanted her mother with her for a dance competition but anu failed her n yet was giving excuses n justifying her fault by saying meine dance to kiya n giving useless bhashan to a 6 year old child.

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

@bold Frankly she hardly spent any time in KH..She was mostly busy in shah house with her ex pati,kids,baa bapuji n their chai patti nonsense.And I hardly remember Anu being their for CA.There were no times when we saw Anu with CA rather she was absent from KH and was present in Shah house thanks to her grown ass up kids kaands.Tell me when was Anu available for CA ? She wanted her mother with her for a dance competition but anu failed her n yet was giving excuses n justifying her fault by saying meine dance to kiya n giving useless bhashan to a 6 year old child.

To be very honest Anu was mostly with CA except for that 2 incidents...the performance and the panic attack...that are so blown out of proportion 

Where one was her mistake and others were circumstances out of her control 

To the extent, the 7 year old even got Anu to make her put on her shoes and got plenty of pampering from her mother

Originally posted by: Serialnarc

Today's episode was really frustrating.. just when people are talking some sense to anupama.they are being shutdown or invalidated .. like barkha or dimpy. Even kavya or hasmukh are not getting listened when they are admitting it could be their fault for these turn of events.

I have never seen anyone addressing a problem to solve.. they are always trying to hide the problem by dance or romance. Solution will last longer.. dance wld last till the song completes..

Phew.. too much frustration..😡

The problem is in writing.. kuch bhi abba dabba they write.. The dialogues were not crisp.. the whole execution is very poor in this particular track

They had a golden chance to make Anupama understand what she is missing out by giving undue advantage to Shahs 

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Anuj expectation are his own...he assumed too many things. Just because her kids are adults...it doesn't mean they won't need their mom

And it's not like anupama for sorting her Kids issue 24/7....there were times she was not there for CA but there were lots of times she was there too...but no one will talk about that. Any mother with 4 kids will have issues balancing their time.

Just hell bent on proving lots of things that didn't even happen

There is a bare minimum expected from any relation without which no relationships last. Anupama couldn't do the bare minimum 

No mother with adult married kids have trouble balancing their time. You can repeat this a 1000 times more, wont make it true. Any mother with 3 grown child and one 7 year old will know who to spent most time with (hint, its not with the grown married children)

I always ask this of Anupama fans, is there a SINGLE example in their own house, neighborhood, city where they see a wife neglecting her husband for grown up married kids. And they never answer. We all know why, because no wife does that

Originally posted by: Harish111

There is a bare minimum expected from any relation without which no relationships last. Anupama couldn't do the bare minimum 

What bare minimum didnt Anu do for CA? 

No mother with adult married kids have trouble balancing their time. You can repeat this a 1000 times more, wont make it true. 

And doesnt it apply to you as well. Where is it written that adult kids may not require their parent's time? You can repeat it more than 1 million and it still won't be true either. Any mother with 4 jies can have trouble managing her time.....it's very natural 

Any mother with 3 grown child and one 7 year old will know who to spent most time with (hint, its not with the grown married children)

I am just trying to find proof into this that where did anupama choose her adults kids over CA..let's see when Toshu needed her...and when else? Can't find any other time....again except the 2 occasions where CA got a panic attack and the school function. Said this before and will say it again....Anu had not intentionally left CA alone to panic. She was already at shah house looking after a sick baby and yes Anu could not have left a sick baby for panic attack where other adults in the family could very well help CA. It is pretty obvious that sick babies need more and proper care vs a panic attack 

I always ask this of Anupama fans, is there a SINGLE example in their own house, neighborhood, city where they see a wife neglecting her husband for grown up married kids. And they never answer. We all know why, because no wife does that

First and foremost I am not her fan and secondly I never saw Anupama actually prioritizing her kids over Anuj...until the holi episode where she clearly shouldn't have participated in the celebrations. The timing was just wrong. Every time else, went she went Shah house, Anuj happily joined her, encouraged her and at times drove her there himself 

Curious question:

The matkadhaari madam "manages" the Dence Ecedemy and even ensured Paritosh's treatment was fulfilled.

But the 10 lakh loan that Anuj gave Samar to revive losses was missing in the Accounts and Anupama did not find out😮?

If only she had actually gone to and learnt phinance literacy classes rather than giving bhaashans.

Bigger questions:

a. Why did Samar want to hide these losses from Anupama?

b. How is Shah House actually running? With Kinjal's earnings alone? To manage grand celebrations, co-ordinated designer outfits?

Edited by Bodhianveshika - 1 years ago

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Bigger questions:

a. Why did Samar want to hide these losses from Anupama?

b. How is Shah House actually running? With Kinjal's earnings alone? To manage grand celebrations, co-ordinated designer outfits?

A. Because hiding things from one another is the sign of a matured dynamic. The way Anujpama hid what CA confided/Maaya's advances from each other. Heck, if we go back to the very outset, spicebox even hid the details of the affair till Rakhi revealed it 😆

B. Certainly, not from dence academy earnings. In one of the episodes, Doshu had taunted winter that he barely earns anything from it. Crinjal is working under Rakhi who probably monitors the financial scene and as far as her business is concerned, won't allow her to make unnecessary expenses for Tamashahs from it. So, the most probable one is that they are surviving on doles from Kapadia business which Anupa stans will claim that she is the rightful owner of and hence, all the money must go to her phemli the shameless shahs. Plus devious Dukhmukh might have hoarded some more money the way he evaded tax all these years 🤣

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Curious question:

The matkadhaari madam "manages" the Dence Ecedemy and even ensured Paritosh's treatment was fulfilled.

But the 10 lakh loan that Anuj gave Samar to revive losses was missing in the Accounts and Anupama did not find out😮?

If only she had actually gone to and learnt phinance literacy classes rather than giving bhaashans.

Bigger questions:

a. Why did Samar want to hide these losses from Anupama?

b. How is Shah House actually running? With Kinjal's earnings alone? To manage grand celebrations, co-ordinated designer outfits?

I used to wonder why Shah family members get loans. What do they do with the loan?because nobody is seen to do any work whatsoever  But your question “b” explains it- they take loans to celebrate festivals dressed in matching outfits, disco lights for pooja/festivals etc 😳

Anupama is a well-liked person because of her sincere goodness, unshakeable courage, and unselfish character. The harmony she fought so hard to preserve, however, is in danger because of a deadly sequence of events that is just around the corner. We are on edge and apprehensive for what will happen as tension rises and the fate of her loved ones hangs perilously in the balance.