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Originally posted by: You-Know-Who

Shraddha, I understand that this one line makes you feel like Khushi is no where in Arnav's priority list. But just for a second, if you remove this one line from your evidence, do you think anything else Arnav has done proves that?

I guess what we are trying to say is that this sentence was not "AMAN HOW DARE YOU GO THROUGH LAVANYA'S PERSONAL HISTORY. THIS IS NOT THE WAY WE DO THINGS", but more like, "How do you know this? You went through someone's medical records? How is this possible? When you're not the kind of guy to do this kind of thing?"

And you know why i can understand this tone? I am very much like Arnav when I suddenly receive good news that I absolutely did not/could not expect? I process things exactly this way. My first reaction is to verify that news I received comes from right sources, before I can let my brain feel relieved, or celebrate. My brain is conditioned to not accept anything good until I am sure it cannot be taken away later saying it was a misunderstanding. This is exactly why I can understand why he said that.

However, I understand your POV too. When I first read this (on my very very first read) I was annoyed too. And I was like what the hell, why is he not turning absolutely ballistic about it. How does he even care about these things at this juncture? But then once I calmed down, I understood that I knew about all the things Lavanya did. My anger over her molesting him, everything was piling up in my head. And it would have given me as the reader, the satisfaction to see Arnav lose his cool and bring Lavanya down to her knees. However, Arnav does not hate Lavanya in this moment as much as we do. He is still coming to terms with the hate. He has just been given a relieving news after a long torturous time and he is just processing the how/why of it.

I agreed with your earlier comment that many were ok and did not focus on it. I understand and have no issues😊

I just responded to Isha..trying to explain why I thought this was not any information.

There is a lot of assumption in how folks are reading comments. It is not about how I feel for Lavanya or his feelings for Khushi.

When I cut and paste the section to Arpita ..he does express a lot of anger after Aman shuts him up and continues with more information. He is not quiet and he grills him..all natural.

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So I as a reader...then I am just nitpicking?

Not really. Nothing is what we believed. The last few chapters has turned the story completely. Lot was written to show his struggles and care for Khushi in this chapter. We are suppose to reevaluate all his behavior we have read till now.

The non pregnancy expedited his divorce. He never got closure to talk to Khushi. So to me this Aman expose was very critical information.

He cannot hate lavanya..but I expected shock..not treat it as any snooping. It is an inconsistency. Just one so ignore it.

But then the entire conversation with Manali when she threatens him..and he says La is interested in a real relationship ? Why say it ? Suppose to be a dig (had to be explained by Arpita) . Unnecessary and really muddles it for me as a reader.

So even after all this he still doubts that La is not evil and it just Manali!

Why care and being correct to a person who conned him? Why forget that he never got his closure to talk to Khushi before she left .

Hope that helps..where I am coming from.

Guys did you read ch 5 flashbacks of march 2006 when Arnav loses his job with bitebox?

I stumbled upon it and realised these two never actually changed. I mean how they deal with things.

Sorry Swati I don’t know how I missed tagging you.

Originally posted by SwatStar_Arshi

When evil twins were after him, attacking him, then he letting go is out of question. He doesn't want to fight known enemy and cry why world is against me?

Letting go is out of question, for you. Not for Arnav. He makes this choice because he is tired, sleep deprived, knows that his family and Khushi are away from this and he does not have anything left to fight for. Not at this time.

Then he shouldn't cry why is this happening to me, simple. He will have to fight his battles and not expect opponent will also give up because he planned to do so. MaLa D are ready to to any extent.

Which woman in her right mind will run after married man, fakes being pregnant with his child, takes too much interest confirming his impending divorce and asking for genuine relationship with, this is beyond obsession for me.

Once again, you are completely missing what I explained in my response earlier. Let me deconstruct your words:

Running after married man: Why would Arnav think Lavanya did that? Arnav thinks whatever happened at panchgani was his fault equally. He can just deduce that Lavanya is just trying to milk that incident to her advantage, get a rich producer husband to settle down, right? He does not know Lavanya was standing at the terrace 6 years ago seething in jealousy when he was sharing a private moment with his wife.

fakes being pregnant with his child: Again pregnancy could just be a ploy to get him, but not like crazy obsession where you get to his wife. Especially when he has told them he is divorcing her. Lavanya and Manali do not need to go out of their way to make a divorce happen that is already happening.

takes too much interest confirming his impending divorce: That could be because (from Arnav's pov) it would tag her a home wrecker if the news came out. She has got a lot to lose from his pov right?

asking for genuine relationship with: Once again, mere attraction, and settling down with a rich producer could be the reasons that she would ask that.

You don't need to explain anything dear. You are misleading and misunderstanding my words and applying clearly at wrong time. I wanted Arnav to reconnect the dots after finding out La was lying about the pregnancy all along when Aman confirmed with the reports and additional things as well about her being preggo before, abortion, IUD etc. Then he would have realized how his was fooled by these con women and even the Panchgani mishap might be planned to trap him. This is after 2nd Jan 2016 with the report from Aman.

All my comments are ONLY after 2nd Jan when he gets to Lavanya's true color via Aman's report so if you apply it before what he thought about Lavanya, you are confusing yourself. We all know Arnav though La was victim too.

None of the above truly spells that someone is so obsessed with me would take crazy random photographs of me, and send it to my wife. Me being (Arnav here).

If he connects the dots after Aman's reports clarifying La lying about the pregnancy and put what all happened in last month and La's behavior, he will realize she was obsessed with him, simple. Nobody comes up with a fake pregnancy with a married man unless they are obsessed with him.

Ironically, you know what would take for Arnav to assume that Lavanya, a woman who has been NOTHING but professional with him for 6 years that he has known her for, is obsessed with him? : If he was a narcissist. :P

Yes she was professional in his eyes until Jan 2nd 2016 but Aman's report provides the proof what she is in real now. Arnav's own opinion about La changed after the report as per this chapter, it's NOT me. Aman was very clear in recognizing her too. All my comments are after the 2nd Jan reports by Aman if you haven't realized it, there is no confusion in my mind about it.

And you are forgetting the most important fact here, what was Manali reaction after Arnav threatened her? She desperately stopped all other minions from doing wrong against Arnav and Khushi and was worried...

Lathon ke Bhoot Baton se nahi manate, they deserve to be show their place...

Anyay sehana bhi galat hai....

I am not forgetting that at all. I even mentioned it in another reply. Manali is scared of Arnav now because she could not prevent the ball she started rolling from actually rolling. But do you think she and Lavanya would not do anything after Lavanya's career is hurt? Oh you are in for some surprise! If I were Manali, and the actress I was managing was getting cut off from the film world, the first thing I would do is completely unravel the producer's history and try to create an entire image of Arnav being an absolute asshole. One who divorced his wife, one who is letting a pregnant Lavanya deal with pregnancy alone or perhaps even cook up a miscarriage and leak fake miscarriage documents to the public. I would go dirty. And there is no stopping her now that Arnav has done this, either. You're assuming that Arnav could go behind Lavanya and Manali and there would be no repercussions is just naive!

He is already facing their attacks without doing anything, they trapped him in s*x ONS, fake pregnancy drama and what else he should keep on waiting until he decides push back. He has to recognize La is obsessed and will NOT stop at anything... If he decides to be ignorant even after Aman's report on La, what he has faced personally too and how vile they can, then he cannot cry foul saying why world is against him. He must act.

MaLa D were powerful because he was ignorant fool but the first time he threatened Ma, she was running so he knows they have done things that they would love to hide. So he has to work on getting insights to protect himself, if not do anything at least threaten and they will be far away from him to survive in the industry. Let go is an option if both parties decide to that, else it's not possible.

Originally posted by: You-Know-Who

My comments are purely after Aman's report on Lavanya exposing her true color so don't apply it before and confuse.

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

I agreed with your earlier comment that many were ok and did not focus on it. I understand and have no issues😊

I just responded to Isha..trying to explain why I thought this was not any information.

There is a lot of assumption in how folks are reading comments. It is not about how I feel for Lavanya or his feelings for Khushi.

When I cut and paste the section to Arpita ..he does express a lot of anger after Aman shuts him up and continues with more information. He is not quiet and he grills him..all natural.

****

So I as a reader...then I am just nitpicking?

Not really. Nothing is what we believed. The last few chapters has turned the story completely. Lot was written to show his struggles and care for Khushi in this chapter. We are suppose to reevaluate all his behavior we have read till now.

The non pregnancy expedited his divorce. He never got closure to talk to Khushi. So to me this Aman expose was very critical information.

He cannot hate lavanya..but I expected shock..not treat it as any snooping. It is an inconsistency. Just one so ignore it.

But then the entire conversation with Manali when she threatens him..and he says La is interested in a real relationship ? Why say it ? Suppose to be a dig (had to be explained by Arpita) . Unnecessary and really muddles it for me as a reader.

So even after all this he still doubts that La is not evil and it just Manali!

Why care and being correct to a person who conned him? Why forget that he never got his closure to talk to Khushi before she left .

Hope that helps..where I am coming from.

Yes absolutely. I can see why that would feel like an inconsistency. I see where you are coming from. That sarcasm and the dig is quite subtle and can get lost in translation because of very sentence he used to get a rise out of Manali. Instead of say "La wants a relationship" if he had said something else like "you have no control left over Lavanya because she blew up your plans and begged me for a relationship"...that would have been more direct and more clear and more insulting. But I guess, the author clarified that it was the second one he really meant to do. I guess I can excuse it with Arnav being a subtle guy, never really the guy who goes for show or direct threats. But yes, I can see how that would feel like an inconsistency in his behavior. :)

Originally posted by: tashi26

Guys did you read ch 5 flashbacks of march 2006 when Arnav loses his job with bitebox?

I stumbled upon it and realised these two never actually changed. I mean how they deal with things.

Sorry Swati I don’t know how I missed tagging you.

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

yeah. Arnav was always like let me take care of things first. And then I’ll talk. Khushi was like I still got disturbed seeing you so you didn’t actually kept me away from stress. We could have dealt with it together. Thanks for pointing out to the chapter. What a marvellous and ironic callback to the initial years of the story 😍

For me it’s like reading a prologue to what will happen now.

and it was exactly 10 years back in March 2006.

Arpita’s attention to detail can be seen.

Originally posted by: You-Know-Who

Yes absolutely. I can see why that would feel like an inconsistency. I see where you are coming from. That sarcasm and the dig is quite subtle and can get lost in translation because of very sentence he used to get a rise out of Manali. Instead of say "La wants a relationship" if he had said something else like "you have no control left over Lavanya because she blew up your plans and begged me for a relationship"...that would have been more direct and more clear and more insulting. But I guess, the author clarified that it was the second one he really meant to do. I guess I can excuse it with Arnav being a subtle guy, never really the guy who goes for show or direct threats. But yes, I can see how that would feel like an inconsistency in his behavior. :)

"Do you realize how creepy this is that you are discussing your employer's personal life on her behalf?" Arnav asked again.

"She doesn't mind."

"That's what you think!" Arnav smiled when Manali looked a bit taken aback. "Ah, it bothers you! Not having control over this thing happening in Lavanya's life. Must be a first."

Originally posted by: tashi26

Guys did you read ch 5 flashbacks of march 2006 when Arnav loses his job with bitebox?

I stumbled upon it and realised these two never actually changed. I mean how they deal with things.

Sorry Swati I don’t know how I missed tagging you.

I DID. And did you see he PROMISED HER. That complete ass! I am so mad at him after reading that sentence!

Later that night as they lay in each others arms, spent and emotional but utterly fulfilled, Khushi took his face in her hands and looked at him in the eye, fighting back the blush that threatened to consume her as she recalled the passionate act they had engaged in.

“You’d let me know if anything like this ever bothers you again. Won’t you Arnav Ji?”

“I promise”

Originally posted by: You-Know-Who

I DID. And did you see he PROMISED HER. That complete ass! I am so mad at him after reading that sentence!

When I read it, I was like dude you screwed and now your wife will just screw you (but not the screwing you would want from her).

Yeah, the digs were too subtle for me to understand.

But I have no problem basically with how he handled the aftermath of the Lavenya fiasco though I must admit, I was surprised that he didn’t show more anger when finding out she lied. I just put it down to he will deal with it later after he figures out her game and makes a plan. Which I assume is what he will do.

Hopefully we’ll get an update, maybe tonight. Arpita has gone silent so in addition to her regular life she may be putting the finishing touches on the next memory.