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Posted: 3 years ago

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Hey Vidhi! Loved your answer! I wonder why people are not broadminded enough to accept other opinions. And I totally agree that these shows have an impact on the public perception. As you mentioned there are lots of youngsters out there who watch this show along with their mom's grandmas etc. Showing this type of male chauvinist content will only make them accept that this is the right way of doing things and these youngsters will fail to recognise abuse and will accept the same and suffer in the long run because they feel that this is right. Hence it is very essential to flag such content (for eg rape attempt, not allowing the FL to continue studies or work etc) on social media. People saying / arguing that others don't perceive the rape attempt shown earlier as an attempt to rape is extremely wrong for this reason. I just hope people do realise this and stop glorifying such rape attempts in the future. Both the producers/creatives and audience all included.

In fact I would suggest you post this on insta or Twitter to gain more visibility.


I don't want people to agree with me. They just need to allow others to exist respectfully. But again.. It was said I take my peace of mind above everything and you should too. Of course one should prioritize his/her/their mental health. But here it gives a hint that their peace of mind is disturbed because of my comments. And I only writing these posts because my peace of mind is disturbed? Again.. this is very passive aggressive (and patronizing) way to say someone to not write anything that doesn't suit their way of thought.


Kitna justification hai hamare yaha? I wonder ki social media ke alava hamara kahi aur dhyan jata bhi hai. By the way... Mai ye sab kisi social change ke liye nahi likhti (wo bahut baad ki baat hai). First of all, women khud hi abuse ko abuse nahi maan rahi, to wo khud dusro ko kya badlengi?

Twitter par campaigning ki baat kar rhi hain ye log? Ye ek fringe group hai, jyadatar paid aur fake name wale account. Ek narrative ko jitne log tweet karte hain, usse kahi jyada log uske different narrative me tweet karte hain. Isse show ki publicity hoti hai. Ulta kuch nahi hota. Twitter koi protest ki jagah nahi hai. Waise bhi aajkal to politician bhi hamesha Twitter par paaye jate hain.

Dusro desho me logo me jo jagrukta hai, uska 1% bhi hamare yaha nahi hai. Different section ke liye different log likhte hain.

Aur rahi baat changes ki... To ekdam se radical change ki kaun baat kar raha hai? Ye to logical fallacy hai. Ki ek choti si cheez par baat ki jaye to aap us par baat karne ki bajay ek dusra bada mudda la de!


Balika Vadhu jab air hota tha to mamla Sansad tak pahuch gya tha. Makers ko story badalni padi, aur uske Karan Jagiya aur Anandi ki shadi ko tutate dikhaya. Kyonki child marriage ka glorification ho Raha tha.

Log jab continuous Facebook/Instagram par apne regular ID se likhte hain, aur khasakr jinki acchi khasi following ho tab changes hote hain.

Mujhe ITV se disturbance sabse jyada isliye hai kyonki ise dekhne Wale us class ke log nahi hain jo influence rakhte hain.

Baki GenZ to ITV ke content ko meme banakar aur popular karta hai. Wo to ise "jaahilo" ka content kahkr is par hansta hai aur aaram se OTT ke content dekhta hai.


Halanki maine kisi change ke context me baat hi nahi ki thi. Kyunki wo sab bahut dur ki baat hoti hai. Mera to maksad tha ki kam se kam koi baat to shuru ho. Aisa na ho ki kahi kuch bhi baat nahi ho.


Ye Aaj ek ajeeb passive generation hai, jise khud to chup rahna hai, dusro ko bhi chup karana hai. Are aap shant raho na...aapse koi umeed nahi kar raha. Lekin aap dusro ko kuch kahne se kyo rahe? Iska hak kisne diya?

I mean... Mere critique se logo ka peace of mind bigad raha!! Kamal hai.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Yes. I am all for flagging content that is not suitable. Have even sent mails to condemn such acts. But I don’t expect any change.


Logical fallacy ki ja rahi hai yaha. Change bahut dur ki cheez hoti hai. Change waha hota hai, jaha majority saath hoti hai. Par yaha to ek do logo ka existence hi bardasht nahi hai.

Isliye mai to etni unrealistic nahi hu ki ekdam se change ke context me baat karu. Mai pahle bhi apne post me kaha tha ki dekho.. dusre desho me etni jaagrukta hai, lekin yaha to log ek do logo ki different opinion tak bardasht nahi kar paa rahe.

Jb maine detail me apne points ko rakha to usko cherry pick kiya gya. Mujhse aap sahmat na ho, mujhe bilkul nahi chahiye ki koi mere jaise soche aur meri jaisi baat kare. Par yaar... Aapko dusre ke existence ko bhi accept to karna hoga na? Lekin nahi. Mere etne lambe post ke badle dubara yahi kaha gya ki mere critique se "unka peace of mind" bigad raha hai.


Bataiye... Society me etna kuch ho raha, usse mind nahi kharab ho rha. Kisi ki personal life me definitely Mai to problem nahi create kar rhi. TV par etna kuch behuda aa rha, usse mind nahi gadbad hua. Lekin mai sirf aur sirf show par commentary kar rhi, usse mind bigad raha?

Yaha par kuch log personal comments paas karte hain, lekin unhe koi nahi kahta ki aapke personal comments se hamara peace of mind bigad raha. Lekin koi insaan kisi ke prati disrespectful hue bina sirf show par baat kar raha to peace of mind bigad raha?

Aise sirf kisi ki baat se hamara peace of mind bigad raha to aise to mai bhi kah sakti hu. Lekin guess what.. Mera peace of mind dusro ke existence se nahi bigadta. Mujhe apni personal/social lives me enough problems hain. Mai internet par kisi stranger ke kuch harmless si baat likhne par trigger nahi hoti, usko jaakar ye nahi kahti ki wo apne man ki baat na likhe kyonki mera peace of mind bigad raha.

Mujhe yaad hai ki pandemic ke dauran hamari online classes chalti thi. Aur mere class ke sare students bade sunder AC rooms me baithkar classes attend karte the. Mera video band rahta tha kyonki ...(mai jis tarah ki jagah par rahti thi, waha mai video on nahi kar sakti thi)

Ham log social work ke students the. Ek din aise hi presentation ke dauran hamari professor ne pandemic ke dauran apni-2 difficulties par baate karne ko kaha. Sabne kaha aur maine Shanti se suna. (Aur hota bhi ye tha ki class me hamesha 3-4 logo ko hi bolne ka mauka diya jata tha, aur we log bakiyo ko bully karte the). To jab meri baari aai to maine jaise hi ye batana shuru kiya ki India ke bahut se tabko ki ladkiya permanent lockdown situation me rahti hain, aur unme se ek mai hu to unhone mera mic off kar diya aur mujhse kaha gya ki mai class ka mood kharab kar rhi.

Waha sabne apni first world problems share ki, aur mujhe ek baat tak nahi kahne diya gya. Mai kaise kaise struggle karke etne prominent college me padhne pahuchi thi. Aur waha ka mahol bahut classist tha.

Mujhe ye baat isliye yaad aai ki ham apne "comfort" zone ko kisi aur ki life se jyada importance dete hain. Ye to badi racist mentality hai jo apne comfort ke liye dusro ko munh band rakhne ko kahti hai.

Us vakaye ke baad mera confidence etna gir gaya tha ki mai kai group activities me part nahi le paai. Mai campus placement me bhi hissa nahi le paai kyonki mere paas etna scope nahi tha ki thesis aur assignment ko bhi pura kar lu aur placement me bhi part le hu. Mai akele ek store room jaise kamre me rahti thi aur mai working women thi. Mujhe apne kharche ke liye kaam karne ki majburi thi.

Badi mushkil se mai wapis khud se ye kah paai ki mujhe bhi apni baat kahne ka hak hai. As long as I am not violating others' space and not making any personal comments, I can say whatever I want to say.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Hats off to your patience but I learned it the hard way. No point explaining why we don't like makers making a mockery of abuse. People want a safe space to enjoy their favorite couple who are finally getting cute scenes(with no logic or story) without any critique. When you get justifications like even Nirbhaya verdict the culprits were not given death sentence and whataboutery like other mediums of entertainment are equally morally bankrupt, you see there is no reasoning.

But we know this is going the lost in love way where he will favour Seerat over his wife, insult Sahiba and touch Seerat ji and vice versa (without feelings of course because does a grown man know concept of boundaries).

We can enjoy the positivity people will spread here then, let us hope everyone who has no issues with domestic abuse and molestation being mocked will not start writing moral science lectures on how makers are showing jeth bhabi relationship in wrong way and it is pious in society.

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Posted: 3 years ago

True. I also have no patience left. From quite sometime I am planning to start a new YouTube channel just to talk about ITV shows. But because of my health and work done, this remains a pipeline dream.

From now on.. either I will ignore such comments or I will stop writing anything.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Vidhi1989

True. I also have no patience left. From quite sometime I am planning to start a new YouTube channel just to talk about ITV shows. But because of my health and work done, this remains a pipeline dream.

From now on.. either I will ignore such comments or I will stop writing anything.

Trust me a lot of us agree with most of what you write. If you are allowed to post here and want to , please keep posting.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Perfect lines for characterless seerat😂😂😂😂😂

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cuo9np8xSX-/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

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Posted: 3 years ago

Kudos to your Himmat personal life mei

but if we talk about the show usme whatever they are showing is cringe. Major cringe 🤢 but they are just copying from another show which got TRPs

Yaha inko copy karke bhi utne TRP nahi aa rahe 😆


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Posted: 3 years ago

Abhi toh seerat ki party shuru hui hai 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Vidhi1989


Badi mushkil se mai wapis khud se ye kah paai ki mujhe bhi apni baat kahne ka hak hai. As long as I am not violating others' space and not making any personal comments, I can say whatever I want to say.

yeh baat samajh nahi aayi sorry. Idhar everyone is allowed to put their opinions.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Abhi toh seerat ki party shuru hui hai 😆

Agar yeh log seerat ka improper feelings dikhane ka plan bana rahe towards angad, then I don't know how they are planning to make sahiba stick to him.

Edited by Rainbow_Girl - 3 years ago

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