Sexual infidelity is not infidelity-Kjo - Page 10

This is sick. I am someone who believes in being extremely loyal. I would cheat on my future husband 9-10 times max. Maybe 11-15. But that's it. People are so immoral these days.

Lol what a statement. I’ll have sex with anyone, but emotionally, ek ko hi abuse karunga/karungi! Usi ko boss ki bitching karenge, mom-dad ki toxic upbringing ke bare mein cribbing karenge, usi ko gaslight karenge, usi ko apni depressing zindagi ki dastaan sunayenge to get constant validation and gratification, aur usi ko punching bag banake apni emotional frustration nikalenge. Because emotionally I am loyal🖤

Originally posted by: PangaNaLe

I want to know how the system of open marriage can really work. Lets say a couple is in an open marriage. Leave ethics and morality aside. Its their choice blah blah.

The husband asks a random girl for one night stand. Should he first tell the girl he's married and then explain that its an open marriage? Ideally he should. Because even if its an open marriage, the girl might still have reservations sleeping with a married man.

Now after the man tells everything or if the girl already knows he's married. Why would she believe that he's in an open marriage? He could be lying. So then they would have to call the wife to confirm that they indeed have that arrangement. It means everytime the husband is going to date or have a one night stand, he would need to call the wife to convince the girl that they are in an open marriage. Do they do it? No. It doesn't seem very practical.

Either the husband doesn't tell the girl he's married. Or even after knowing the man is married, the girl sleeps with him not caring if he's in an open marriage or not. It means this open marriage thing is really just an excuse.

Either the husband is being dishonest and lying to the girl, even if he's not cheating his wife. Or the girl doesn't care if she's a homewrecker or not even after being told the truth. This open marriage is not a very ideal scenario is it.

That is not how it works. Transparency and honesty is of utmost importance for open marriages or polyamory to work.

I don't know much about dating in India. But folks on Tinder, Grindr, and dating apps here often state that they are in an open relationship and looking for hookups. It is assumed that they are being honest and straightforward. Married people can lie.

If the person is trying to pick up in a bar or club, they may remove the wedding rings, or if they leave it on, tell the person that their marriage is open. It is assumed they are straightforward. Married people can lie.

No one does an extensive background check for a one-night stand. Some people will avoid married folks on dating apps or people with wedding rings in clubs. Most take it at face value. A hookup is a hookup - there are no strings attached, and not much is expected of each other. There are tons of single people at clubs and bars - who's going to confirm who's single and whos lying? And if a person is going to an effort to cheat on their spouse, it's on them.

If the spouse knows about the hookup - it's not cheating.

If the spouse is kept in the dark - it is cheating.

And not all people in open marriages have one-night stands only. They may choose to date someone outside their marriage. Since, in this case, it is not a hookup but a longer-term arrangement - it is customary to meet the spouse and make sure all parties are ok with this arrangement. If a married person wants to date you, claiming open marriage and doesn't arrange for you to confirm with your spouse - then it is suss.

Btw, women also can choose to have sex outside of marriage. And in some open marriages people only hookup with the same sex.

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

This is sick. I am someone who believes in being extremely loyal. I would cheat on my future husband 9-10 times max. Maybe 11-15. But that's it. People are so immoral these days.

It's pativrata😭😭😭 aap toh ekta ke serials ke FLs se jyaada loyal nikli😭

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

This is sick. I am someone who believes in being extremely loyal. I would cheat on my future husband 9-10 times max. Maybe 11-15. But that's it. People are so immoral these days.

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Actually, I'm a strong defender of the meaning of some words...

I wouldn't bat an eyelid if someones talks about an open relationship, but to me the word "marriage" has the meaning of a commitment that includes loyalty to the affection that should be the base of it...it doesn't - imo - include the word "open" but the word "common".

Nevertheless, I'm also a strong believer of an "open mind" and - as I'm free of the bad feeling of jealousy - I can accept when I'm not the only sexual partner as long as nothing of our "common" is touched.

If I myself feel the need to probably save my marriage by what is called "cheating" here, I would only do it with someone I got to know at a time when I didn't know yet the person I married.

Disclaimer: The "marriage" I mean has only the mutual affection as base with the free will of a mutual commitment from both sides.

Men & Women are all guilty of buying or wanting certain products just to sample. We shouldn't be too harsh on her (KK). She would've been a good candidate for cranberry juice and a 'Key Party' 🤣

Originally posted by: SlowlyDrifting

But eventually you will get physical with that someone na? So, sexual involvement is there, thus.. infidelity is there as well...right?

How is that cheating. You can't really control the feelings you have for someone right? Acting upon those feelings however is your choice, and that would be cheating.

When will Jism 3 debut ? 😃

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Does KK qualify with big hips ? 👍🏼

https://youtu.be/r3bAG7_WGkc

'I think I lost my consciousness in a sixth dimension' 😃