Sexual infidelity is not infidelity-Kjo - Page 17

Originally posted by: naaznin

Self control is of utmost importance. Just for few moments of happiness ruining an important relationship is stupidity.

If we realise that we are getting unhealthy attachment with someone it's better to create distance n focus on what we have..

Such unhealthy relationships r big reasons for anxiety n depression these days.

Easier said than done though. We can't judge others because we are not in their shoes, we dont know their circumstances or what they are going through.

Yeh generation hi aisi hai, almost everyone I know suffers from anxiety or depression. Blame toxic relationships for it and im not just talking about marriage, it can be any type such as friends family etc.

The voracious appetite to be in control is fed ... to strangely not be in control. With one never seeming to really know when the transition took place 👍🏼

Haven't read the 21 pages. So sorry if I am being redundant.

I think what he was trying to say is that open relationships, sexual promiscuity etc are not bad things in general. One can be sexually responsible despite being sexually promiscuous. Promiscuity does not imply irresponsibility.

That said, cheating is wrong. If you get into a monogamous relationship and promise someone faithfulness etc, and then you cheat it's wrong. So how he worded it is wrong.

Originally posted by: Blood_Sacrifice

Haven't read the 21 pages. So sorry if I am being redundant.

I think what he was trying to say is that open relationships, sexual promiscuity etc are not bad things in general. One can be sexually responsible despite being sexually promiscuous. Promiscuity does not imply irresponsibility.

That said, cheating is wrong. If you get into a monogamous relationship and promise someone faithfulness etc, and then you cheat it's wrong. So how he worded it is wrong.

If it's not explicitly said by a man or woman to marriage prospects that they will philander outside than ppl will obviously assume a normal relationship of commitment to spouse.

If someone wants open relationship they should tell before marriage n if someone accepts then only marry them. Also After marriage if spouse is not able to handle it then free them.

Kjo is kind of generalising it that sexual infidelity is not infidelity. He should says it's not infidelity according to him.

Who cares about these alien terms that people use?

When time stops for one to be with another, and 5 hours feels like 5 minutes 😃