How can you say that abhimanyu did nothing wrong to akshara - Page 12

Originally posted by: Krinya

What punishment ? That he got abhir ? 😆

No it's never a crime to hurt / humiliate / divorce but it does turns the lives upside down.

Why would he back down ? He always wanted this .

@bold - i stand by what i said. nothing to explain. i am sure you would get it.

Hurt and divorced yes, but who got humiliated?

And why should he not attempt to get what his heart desires? Not following your heart and giving up without trying is worse than failing. So let him try - he already had nothing so at most he will try n fail and still have nothing!

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

@bold - i stand by what i said. nothing to explain. i am sure you would get it.

Hurt and divorced yes, but who got humiliated?

And why should he not attempt to get what his heart desires? Not following your heart and giving up without trying is worse than failing. So let him try - he already had nothing so at most he will try n fail and still have nothing!

When did I say he should not attempt to get what his heart desires ? Infact he is quite relentless at it from the very beginning. 😆 He and his mummy both. What he did was very much expected from him .

If accusing someone of murdering her babies and step mom is not humiliation , hamesha yahi karti ho kyun nai sunti meri baat , throwing things around her , handing over the signed divorce papers , if telling someone nai lena dena tumse ya tumhare bache se kuch bhi , chali gayi ho ab mat laut ke aana wapas is not humiliation , bhaag gayi hogi jaisi hamesha bhaag jaati hai is not humiliation, I don't know what is.

Originally posted by: Krinya

When did I say he should not attempt to get what his heart desires ? Infact he is quite relentless at it from the very beginning. 😆 He and his mummy both. What he did was very much expected from him .

If accusing someone of murdering her babies and step mom is not humiliation , hamesha yahi karti ho kyun nai sunti meri baat , throwing things around her , handing over the signed divorce papers , if telling someone nai lena dena tumse ya tumhare bache se kuch bhi , chali gayi ho ab mat laut ke aana wapas is not humiliation , bhaag gayi hogi jaisi hamesha bhaag jaati hai is not humiliation, I don't know what is.

@bold - yes you said its expected of him but it was in a mocking manner so I thought to rely over it! I know you are still mocking him - but its okay. you deserve your share of fun in humiliating the character that wronged the one you support! 😎

i didn’t know breaking up with someone or having an emotional outburst can be termed as humiliation but alright, its still better than labelling it as abuse which happens so very often! Fine.. We just have different dictionaries it seems so it’s difficult to understand each other😉

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Considering he already served the punishment, it doesn’t seem a crime anymore! 😎

Glad he didn’t back down before being sentenced to another punishment!! 🙃

Did he realized his mistake? Without that how does his crime erased....if sulking for 6yrs is punishment then he is still sulking even after he won custody

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

Did he realized his mistake? Without that how does his crime erased....if sulking for 6yrs is punishment then he is still sulking even after he won custody

He has realized it. He has accepted it in front of Shefali, his family, Akshara and even Abhir(when he said the fault could be with your real dad). He hasn’t apologized to Akshara yet - that I agree. But he did tell her while discussing Kairav that he knows how it feels to lose your love because of your own mistakes.

Besides didn’t Akshara tell him after first Kasauli visit that she won’t ever forgive him so he can keep his sorry’s to himself - he needs to live with burden of his guilt just like she has been living holding everyone’s blames all these years!!?

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

He has realized it. He has accepted it in front of Shefali, his family, Akshara and even Abhir(when he said the fault could be with your real dad). He hasn’t apologized to Akshara yet - that I agree. But he did tell her while discussing Kairav that he knows how it feels to lose your love because of your own mistakes.

Besides didn’t Akshara tell him after first Kasauli visit that she won’t ever forgive him so he can keep his sorry’s to himself - he needs to live with burden of his guilt just like she has been living holding everyone’s blames all these years!!?

She is the victim and it is upto her whether she has to forgive and forget what happened.Also you have mentioned he didn't apologized to Akshara then how even expecting Akshara to forgive?

He said his mistake but he never said whether his mistake is divorcing her or for the things he said to her...

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

She is the victim and it is upto her whether she has to forgive and forget what happened.

He said his mistake but he never said whether his mistake is divorcing her or for the things he said to her...

Yes its up to the one who was wronged to decide if he/she is willing to forgive.

Why should he bring up the past in front of her when she looks genuinely happy in her present and she already told she won’t accept his apologies? His guilt is his alone to bear - its not for Akshara to lighten his burden. If in future she thinks he deserves forgiveness- it would be different.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Yes its up to the one who was wronged to decide if he/she is willing to forgive.

Why should he bring up the past in front of her when she looks genuinely happy in her present and she already told she won’t accept his apologies? His guilt is his alone to bear - its not for Akshara to lighten his burden. If in future she thinks he deserves forgiveness- it would be different.

He should atleast properly apologise for the white day full for what he did right for her to forgive….he asked forgiveness for sirat matter and that to for his guilt free life…not that he actually mean it…why she consider to forgive in future….she may or may not forgive but can’t forget WD it left scar on her soul…if a person apologise it he/she should mean it and feel it…not for namesake or to end matter

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

He should atleast properly apologise for the white day full for what he did right for her to forgive….he asked forgiveness for sirat matter and that to for his guilt free life…not that he actually mean it…why she consider to forgive in future….she may or may not forgive but can’t forget WD it left scar on her soul…if a person apologise it he/she should mean it and feel it…not for namesake or to end matter

I don’t think you got what I was trying to say. If you read my earlier post on this thread you would know why I think he isn’t apologizing.

Also, I am not saying she “should” forgive in future - I am just saying that there is a probability that if she sees some genuine growth or change in him - she may want to forgive him - but that is entirely her choice.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

I don’t think you got what I was trying to say. If you read my earlier post on this thread you would know why I think he isn’t apologizing.

Also, I am not saying she “should” forgive in future - I am just saying that there is a probability that if she sees some genuine growth or change in him - she may want to forgive him - but that is entirely her choice.

That’s what makers r not giving a redemption track or character growth….HC should leave this character where there is no proper character arch