Things to learn from Anupama the great

So after watching this serial for a long time I understood what makers want us to learn

1 the most important lesson keep licking shoes of your abusers only (in laws) one fine day they will show mercy and make acharv Papad for you and sing a song for you

2 Even after taking divorce ( after years of abuse and cheating) make your ex husband your friend

So that one fine day he will accept how good his wife was

3 Become friends with the women ( who claimed to be your friend and cheated with your husband) and get the benifit of being badi ma of cheaters child

4 When children are mature adults and keep insulting you , don't give them space even for some days or minutes keep hovering around then until they fall in problem and then again become great by helping them

5 Just like Kinjal and Anupama even if divorce is finalised or hate the husband keep serving abusive in laws and sometimes they will show their cute side ( Baa ap kitni cute hai) and give you hug

6 the man who accepted you with all the past baggage ruin his mental peace how dare cna someone love a divorced women with 3 children

7 always show mirrors to new in laws whn they are wrong and leave them at first chance but never ever leave first abusive in law husband and everyone related to first in laws

8 never help victims of rape or domestic abuse or harrasment, this women are either behind man in the family or won't have good manners

9 after so much of love and care if there is some problem between with second husband keep pressurisng him infront of his whole family and relatives to accept that he still loves you even when he is in mental trauma

10 keep gaslighting people who loves you and keep licking shoes of abusers (only in laws)

11 if there are so many problems in married life cheating abuse neglect insult then a children will make miraculously your husband a good man and he will become a good husband and great father

12 even a billionaire can't afford to go America and if anyone from his family goes to America all he can do is sulk in their memory

13 a billionaire can easily be trapped by a women who is mentally unstable and instead of insuring that she gets proper medical help one should।keep that person in a house full of। people and a child.

14 Women should be okay awith other women who her husband cheats her with also great women forgives them and become best friends and give them advice to better their relationship in between the husband again gets attracted to first wife but she can never be away from his house

15 keep the divorced in laws in high regard even if the family constantly belittle her current husband and daughter and manhandle her husband

It’s really sad but true

Kinjal pov: you’re not happy with your husband who cheated on you and is self-centered, but it’s okay because your toxic in-laws fill up the void of a “loving” family that you always longed for.

Also kinjal: my own mom who is an independent and strong woman, provided for me and educated me, raised me to be an outspoken woman isn’t a good mom because she didn’t tolerate any abuse, or gave me long lectures on how to keep your toxic in laws happy🙄

They’ve destroyed every single character on this show! I just can’t stand kinjal and her logic behind not leaving the Shahs.

Dimpy is rude but at least she doesn’t suck up to the toxic shahs. She should’ve taken the opportunity and went far far away with her husband, away from this toxicity. And I like it when she calls out kinjal for trying to be a second anupamaa.

Why would anyone learn anything from a daily soap.

It's only for time pass.

Originally posted by: Sana_a

Kinjal pov: you’re not happy with your husband who cheated on you and is self-centered, but it’s okay because your toxic in-laws fill up the void of a “loving” family that you always longed for.

Also kinjal: my own mom who is an independent and strong woman, provided for me and educated me, raised me to be an outspoken woman isn’t a good mom because she didn’t tolerate any abuse, or gave me long lectures on how to keep your toxic in laws happy🙄

They’ve destroyed every single character on this show! I just can’t stand kinjal and her logic behind not leaving the Shahs.

Dimpy is rude but at least she doesn’t suck up to the toxic shahs. She should’ve taken the opportunity and went far far away with her husband, away from this toxicity. And I like it when she calls out kinjal for trying to be a second anupamaa.

Exactly there is no reason for her to stay

I don't understand the new concept that divorce the husband but keep serving toxic in laws

Just to compensate that they show Vanraj being a good FIL sometimes still who has seen the show from starting know how toxic this family is

Originally posted by: naaznin

Why would anyone learn anything from a daily soap.

It's only for time pass.

I understand but it was fun post

Also initially they promoted as women empowerment show how a woman create her own identity after 25 years of toxic marriage

That's why thi fun post that it is anything but women empowerment