Originally posted by: aardhan
@red - by her own admission she tried once when he was fighting for his mother's life in the hospital. so yes, he was distracted and did not respond well. And if I recall, at that time he did not know she was not at GH. He did not know she had just vanished, or he would've definitely listened more. Irrespective of what the narrative is trying to show, he is not a heartless guy. Yes, he behaved very rashly that day and could not control his emotions, and behaved in an inhumane manner. But, not contacting her family was her own choice, her BP came to take her but she decided that since he mentioned the incident she would not go with him. They did not blame her but wanted to support her. In fact, when she left, Birlas and Gfam were all discussing that Ak should live with Gfam for a while till everything calms down. So, all were worried for her. It was more her refusal to face the situation that she was involved in. But all this just proves what I wrote, everything she has done since then has been in anger towards AB and revenge for not listening, he hurt her ego..... but is a child to be used as a tool for revenge?
@blue - i beg to differ. She is free to love, marry and move on as she has done. But if that was all she wanted, then again, she would've willingly shared custody. Why is she insecure to have contact with Ab again? Until recently she was not in love, she never healed. So her marriage was a lie, a facade to keep Ab away and give herself and her son a false sense of security. She was simply running away.
Anger towards her is not for moving on, but refusal to share custody. If she was truly happy as she claims, then she should be happy that her son will also know his birth father, who incidentally loved the kid a lot. If she truly loved and had moved on, her anger for her past and Ab should've gone too.... the reason she is holding on to it is that she still feels connected to Ab through that anger. She neither wants to completely let go and move on nor does she want to forgive him and let him be happy with their son. She has become unnecessarily cruel, rejoices when she sees her ex in misery, and, in fact seeks to actively demean and hurt him, all that just does not sit well with normal people. If she is truly happy, nothing about him should affect her now.
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