Dear Forum Members - A heartfelt request

Hi all,

not moral policing anyone but please understand that this is just a fictional show meant to be made and to watch for pure entertainment and nothing more. Please dont call each other names or use abusive language. We all could like a character or do not like thats personal choice as far as the show is concerned but please understand that Anupama, Anuj, CA, Baa etc etc arent real people. The viewers, the members of this forum are real people and we all should respect each other's opinion or should have a sense of humor. I felt really hurt reading some of the posts (it wasnt related to me) that how members are fighting and arguing for something that doesnt even exists.

Lets make this forum a friendly place for people to enjoy the show and a place where they can openly talk about what they want without being judged.

It is possible that someone went through similar situation what Anupama went through and supports her but that doesnt mean people who do not like her attitude towards her own life and her closed ones in the show should be called names. This is true to all the characters - thats why they are called characters as they arent real. Lets us all behave like adults and once again guys, this is a show and nothing of it exists in real life. Lets us all have a sense of humor and respect for each other.

Shwetha

U r right about how ppl facing similar situation relating to a character.

Yesterday one member explained me how she feels she is dimpy though I used to think dimpy is unrealistic. Same case could be with anupama's character.

There r personal reasons too why I feel sympathy for anupama n can't tolerate her second husband getting seperated from her.

I know we should not pinpoint each other and respect each other pov but each and every day if we are name as anupama blind bhakt then frustration to aa gaya na,

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I know we should not pinpoint each other and respect each other pov but each and every day if we are name as anupama blind bhakt then frustration to aa gaya na,

Right! but if someone keeps calling you Anupama, you dont become Anupama thats the point. We arent Gods that whatever we say it will become true. If that was the case, I am sure the person calling you Anupama would say so many things for themselves to make it true and happen. So, its OK. Let them call so what the reality remains with you. The fact is that you are giving them the right to affect you by reacting!!!❤️

Good point. There's not much to be gained from being reactive and arguing over such a poor show. 😆

In addition, I feel if the first instinct on seeing someone's post is to think that this is the most ridiculous thing you have ever read, it's best to ignore and move on because the other person is likely to be on the other extreme from where you see things. Better to interact with like minded people and keep it light hearted than try to convince them otherwise. Peace

I want to share some very old sweet fun memory of anupama

What were those days

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/155806994

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/155740276

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/155663951

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/155530457

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/155503395

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/155740276

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/155674001

See this thread this thread made 4 days before mock anupama fans

Aise ek baar nahi kar baar hua hai

That is why i told forum environment is spoiled because of such thread and post

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/163559611

This is a reach. The thread's name says Anupama fans, which maybe the poster can avoid in the future if it hurts people, but the thread is solely about her failed udaan, no one is attacking anyone personally here.

And didn't we all agree that we should avoid escalating arguments to a personal level and be more mindful of our words from now? Just let it go. This whole thing was done yesterday, let's not keep prolonging this.