So forget about Anuj, we all figured Shah House will always be more important to her, the difference in her treatment of SH and Anuj is evident now. No matter what they do she will run to them to help but Anuj is not her problem anymore because of a mistake he made (which she thinks is justified also, but still doesn't bother helping him). Where is CA in this whole drama? All of this is mainly connected to her, yet she's nowhere in the picture now, it's become solely between Anupama and Anuj.
But her double standards with respect to CA and her bio kids is just too evident now. Makers have brought a total disconnect between her and CA. Today she literally said aap Maya ko sambhaliye "humaari choti ke liye" and gave dumb advice about Maya needing Anuj and not medical treatment How are stans defending such a dumb dialogue? Thank God Anuj was sensible and said she needs to be admitted for treatment and didn't listen to such stupid advice, hope he follows through. "Mere bete aur meri bahu ko meri zaroorat hain" she says to Kanta. Her full grown son and daughter in law need her help but CA doesn't, she can stay traumatised and dari hui with a psycho because it's Anuj's problem. Makers have totally ruined any possibility of connection between Anupama and CA.
For all those saying what is Anupama supposed to do when Anuj is with Maya, when Kavya came into the picture Anupama still took care of her grown ass children right? She ran to them to be with them and helped solve every single self inflicted problem of theirs, in fact she stayed back in the house after finding out about the affair for her Baa Baapuji and children while Vanraj was openly parading his relationship with Kavya. She went for Pakhi's performance inspite of being insulted majorly by her and asked not to come because Pakhi wanted to perform with Kavya. If she truly thought of CA as her own daughter, she would at least try and help her, enquire about her trauma, how she's feeling, the way she is running to help Shah House. Not a word of concern comes out of her mouth for CA. Anuj was so worried that CA is scared everyday and is living in fear, where is Anupama's concern? She keeps saying koi meri udaan ko nahin rok sakta, forget Anuj, she isn't the least bit bothered about CA, that's entirely Anuj's problem but Shah House problems she will run to solve even if she has SO much to do in 5 days. I get that Maya is her bio mom but she is clearly a mental patient and is downright dangerous as we saw in the previous episode. If Anupama truly thought of CA as her own daughter, how could she just sit quietly and not even try and check on her daughter? She will move mountains for her Bio kids because Maa hu ne, she can go back to her abusers constantly on the pretext of her children, do anything for them, but Maya's existence and her "udaan" prevents her from being the least bit bothered about her child?
Forget checking on her, does she not want to meet CA even once before she leaves to the US? She hasn't expressed any such desire. She's leaving for three years and she doesn't care to meet her daughter at least once? She should just admit she was not able to form a connection with CA and not pretend she loves her as much as her bio kids. It's unbelievable that the greatest Maa on Earth for whom Maa banna is the biggest source of happiness doesn't give a shit about the child she claims to love so much (doesn't even do that anymore but she used to). DKP has truly butchered the adoption track, it's so sad the message they've shown about those connected by blood always being more important and what they're promoting with regard to adoption and adopted children.
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