Originally posted by: Peacelover15
In Television a Cheating is considered cheating only if a husband sleeps with other woman or vice versa.. But truth to b told, physical cheating is less worst in comparison to cheating someone emotionally...
Anuj is cheating on Anupama emotionally and it's worst than what Toshu did to Kinjal.. Yes there is certain mindset that only if someone strays physically it's cheating, but that's lie.
Vanraj was bang on right today regarding Anuj.. Anuj and Anupama howsoever try to convince that they are mahaan and love is pure, it's nit not the case.....
This is why emotionally cheating is so vile because such people can easily gaslight others, claim they are pure, their fans will defend saying they have no bad intentions. But these characters (both men and women and in shows as well as in real life there are such people), will deliberately lead people on who they know have feelings for them. Anuj knows Maya is crazy about him, Anupama knows Vanraj still has feelings and lust for her, yet they pretend they don't notice and will keep on spending time with them
There are many people in real life, both men and women, who use the same tactics, they don't want to "let go" someone who likes them, so they will string them along, offering faint hope and always hanging around them and spending time with them, they will share their most closest emotions and stories and make the others dependent on them. And just because they are not physical, they claim its all ok
And contrary to what other people are saying here, Indian divorce courts do consider emotional neglect and lack of time given to a spouse as valid reason for divorce, marriage is not just about physical needs