Abusive marriage - Page 7

Having consummated their relationship does not necessarily mean she is in love. And this is exactly the issue here.

I have met many girls especially in my school and college days who have gotten physical with their partners just to make them happy when they were not ready. And later it creates an emotional scar that may never heal. I just cannot begin to emphasize how problematic this is.

Showing such a thing on TV. It would lead to people justifying their favorite characters and their actions.

That’s my perspective. This sequence should have both elements: consent as well as confession. Without a proper confession or conversation, for someone like me just the consent and their marital status is not enough.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Having consummated their relationship does not necessarily mean she is in love. And this is exactly the issue here.

I have met many girls especially in my school and college days who have gotten physical with their partners just to make them happy when they were not ready. And later it creates an emotional scar that may never heal. I just cannot begin to emphasize how problematic this is.

Showing such a thing on TV. It would lead to people justifying their favorite characters and their actions.

That’s my perspective. This sequence should have both elements: consent as well as confession. Without a proper confession or conversation, for someone like me just the consent and their marital status is not enough.

This ! Plus her expressions make things kind of weird too. Like her being sad one moment and shy/coy the next. Her looking legit angry at Nav and then suddenly singing for him. Her hesitation with hand holding, etc. Thing is we have seen Ak with Abhi, and we know how she behaves with someone she loves so it just isn't clicking. Even the song felt so weird when she is not emoting anything. It was like a doll singing.

But.....Navra shippers like Nav don't ever see any of this. On the forum it really feels like two different worlds. So it makes me question my own interpretations as well.

Originally posted by: Krinya

when he came down to Udaipur first time after visiting kasauli he was drunk n saying "tum kaise move on kar gayi , main nai kar paya" and he said this a lot of times in his monologues.

Lol, everyone's interpretations are widely different. For me it was just a cry for help. He wasn't blaming her or anything. He genuinely didn't understand cause he himself wasn't able to move on. That was shown multiple times, he was jealous of Ak's new family and everything but not once did he judge her or anything. Infact his first thought was to leave so he doesn't hurt her family. How can you just ignore everything else including context and just pick one thing he said and make that his identity?

Originally posted by: lagjagale

This ! Plus her expressions make things kind of weird too. Like her being sad one moment and shy/coy the next. Her looking legit angry at Nav and then suddenly singing for him. Her hesitation with hand holding, etc. Thing is we have seen Ak with Abhi, and we know how she behaves with someone she loves so it just isn't clicking. Even the song felt so weird when she is not emoting anything. It was like a doll singing.

But.....Navra shippers like Nav don't ever see any of this. On the forum it really feels like two different worlds. So it makes me question my own interpretations as well.

I watched that clip to see if i should quit watching. Her face clearly shows that she is uncomfortable..

She shyed in that bed sheet scene. That's the only scene she looked happy. Considering all other scenes of her that looked more like nav should not feel bad let me shy once infront of him.

I was just seeing some clips of abhira. If akshu is interested she herself initiates and teases. Here it's more like she is trying every possible thing to ignore. I wonder if she opened homestay buisness inorder to avoid this as i don't see any reason for her to suddenly start a buisness without much knowledge and she found her first customer too.

Originally posted by: solembaum

[wil write a little more in detail later in the day hopefully .. but he did not need her to confess to break off with Arohi and what about how normal people do ,give time ..keep working on the relationship if it really means that much to you .. build a friendship .. her reasons when she rejected him were not outlandish .. they are very normal in my view .. it is normal for her to think May be she misunderstood because they never spoke really clearly and she is still a very young girl thinking the best of everyone .. and Arohi is for whatever reasons very important for her .. she sees Arohi being really happy for the first time and then the guy comes and says she knew he loved only her and they were clear etc and asks her to confirm that , how can she confirm when she does not know anything about what happened and with no opportunity to exonerate herself etc .. also , when Arohi has just been handed a very hurtful experience although unintentional I would think it is very normal for a sister to think I don’t want to bring in a permanent ye into my family and introduce a permanent friction with my sister by immediately declaring oh yes I love him too and I will marry him etc .. I find that a very practical decision even if it is putting Arohi ahead of her .. but it was a practical choice .. and perfectly within her rights .. and she knew him for a few days why isn’t it okay to choose family over him ,? She probably fellMore fir him seeing how he kept saying he loved her etc , with Ruby , bade papa etc but she didn’t want to have a permanent issue in her family and she tried to stay within her limits.. except for the birthday party what she did for him are things she really would do for anyone although he was not koi bhi for her .. but she would do it for anyone including those kids whom he tried to save in the first fire .. even birthday party is more out of her guilt for hurting him and having an opportunity to May be make up for it in her style .. but she didn’t actively go seeking him .. and if he comes into her family and then asks her not to be around him how is that possible and how is it straight forward if he just keeps doing these side drama with her but behaves like he is all upfront and upright when doing the rituals .. wasn’t he lying to his mother and family when he proceeds after all that nonsense? Why does he need one or the other girl with him to do the right thing ? You can have drama even if you fall in love or get your love after making lot of normal efforts ? Why is it acceptable , his kind of behaviour? All his problems were because of his decision to marry Wrohi not because of Akshara’s denial .. he wouldn’t have had Akshara around him if he was marrying someone else .. it is wrong to blame Akshara for stupid decisions if a 30 year old top surgeon who is more experienced and worldly wise than a young girl just out of college .. and after she has verbally confessed to him and after she is also instrumental in breaking her sisters wedding on the day of wedding - because the guy implied self harm- she is not some one who goes back on those commitments .. but at least she feels guilty for what happened with her sister .. he doesn’t at all also .. he just feels nothing wrong about anything he did ..

Long post, lol. But I will try to answer based on my interpretations. First and foremost, this is ITV, but lets ignore that for now cause most Navra shippers do.

I agree that he didn't actually talk to Ak clearly about his love, but he really thought and believed it was self-evident. Even when he went to ask for her hand in marriage to BP, he was going to say which sister, but he didn't (don't remember what exactly happened ). He was just very sure that the signals and signs were enough. I mean, they had this hyper-romantic moment with her in the purple saree too. Sorry, but even for me, all the signs were there for Ak. She got confused because she, at that point, at least honestly believed Arohi was a better match than herself. It's low self-esteem. But I agree that putting her on the spot might have been too much. Even Abhi realized it later, but again, he is put in the spot pretty much always and always responds well to those situations, so it's hard for him to understand that, especially cause they didn't know each other that well at that point. Later once he starts understanding this, he always jumps in to defend her cause he knows she won't do it. But you just can't keep doing things one-sided for long, it has to be reciprocal. Ak was going to reciprocate before the birthday event and everything else ( remember Arohi's convo). But things happened cause she got scared by Arohi and decided to just destroy Abhi so he would leave her alone.

Then Ak's own brother tells her to leave for the peace and even to delete her number so Abhi can't contact her. Her expression then wasn't, yeah, that is prudent, but sad and longing cause she really didn't want any of that. And oh, btw, her planning his bday, yeah, she would have done that for anyone. But would she have defied her brother and sister's wish and decided to stay back in Udaipur just to plan someone's bday?

This is the crux of the problem. Ak's actions do NOT match her words. So every Abhira shipper tries to just interpret her emotions cause that has been the only real thing from the beginning. And she did several things to show that she loved Abhi during the pre-confession time. But she never accepted that she loved him, even just between Abhi and herself. Sorry, but anyone would go crazy trying to interpret her mixed signals.

The other stuff, like the hospital issue, was odd, but there is context for that too. Abhi is to blame for deciding to marry Arohi ( either cause of Manjari or pure spite). He is a gray character, and we expect him to make bad decisions. Ak is also a grey character but is presented as a white character which makes things harder.

I already talked about self-harm multiple times, but again, you are stuck on just one thing without the broader context. I will repeat it for the last time. Throughout Abrogi's marriage rituals, Abhi was trying to get Ak to confess so they can avoid a bad situation down the line. Truth is incessant and always comes out, its better for it to come out sooner than later. Abhi himself was turned around on if Ak actually loved him and didn't want to hurt his family all over again for someone who didn't care for him. But then he found the fire incident photo, and everything suddenly clicked. He realized that her denying things she did was also a part of the facade. It was the wedding day, if there had been time, he might have tried to do something different, but at this point, breaking that facade was the only option, so he took it. Again, he didn't make her break her sister's marriage. He already made the decision to break it when he walked out to see her. After the initial confession, when he could honestly, for the first time, hear her say she loved him - he still gave her all the outs. He asked to run away, but she said no, so they didn't. And when the families confronted them, he was again willing to walk away cause Ak was mum. He didn't say I will die if you don't confess in front of everyone. He just said you will lose me forever 'cause I am done.

I am not a Navra shipper .. 😊 and I have watched a few shows over the years , never completed any .. and while there are many things u ignore .. there are things that u cannot ignore either .. that is all .. and I am just saying my POV like how those of you who say this is ITV and hence don’t expect logic would also look for logic or something you can connect to in the serial or story .. I guess we are okay with different things and not so okay with some others ..

I am not saying he didn’t believe she loved him .. but isn’t it common sense to understand or at least realise that shit we had never spoken and things may not have been as clear as I thought for her or for others ? You yourself say that he always reacts well when out on the spot .. to me this looks like him

Reacting not so well and reading the situation all wrong .. I honestly don’t think AK has low self esteem.. she is quite content the way she is .. at least this is my interpretation .. the first time Arohi meets Abhimanyu and says something like she wants to be like Abhimanyu .. he says something like every one wants to be like someone else .. and Akshara immediately says she is happy with however she is .. and I feel that is true of her .. she does not think of herself as great , but she does not look down on herself because of that .. either about her not being topper or not having stellar qualifications like Arohi .. so low self esteem is not a problem with her .. but not sure where to put the puttingother people over herself really ir what is the right word fir that .. anyway I don’t think she got confused because of low self esteem,based on the self talks before Tilak 1.0 I think she genuinely thought she misunderstood Abhimanyus advances and that he was just being nice to her as Arohi’s sister and the fact that she had spoken to his mother , his mother thinks Arohi is the girl etc weighed in on her thinking that she misunderstood .. before that happened she was happy about the rishta .. but then she genuinely thought Abhimanyu must have been talking about Arohi .. she was indeed upset because she was attracted to him, but she hadn’t really admitted it to herself in so many words .. And my interpretation of the post Tilak thing - she was always going yo say no .. she had only said she wants to meet him but it is not shown what she was going to tell him .. at least that is how I remember , then Arohi’s accident or some serious injury happens the day she is going to meet him and they don’t meet .. I do think her feelings for him become a little more during that time .. but then she also realises how that will

Impact her relationship with Arohi and she chooses to step back .. she would have just told him privately that she does not love him or whatever but he makes it a more public event because he is confident she will say yes .. and she says no .. May be it is difficult for many people to understand this .. but I have seen people withdrawing or not moving forward in relationships where there are family conflicts , parents don’t like the guy , religion is different , parents don’t get along etc .. and I have seen that in most cases people don’t say I love you but fir cuz reasons won’t choose you .. many people say that explanations make it difficult .. so just make a clean cut .. so for me even if she was saying to him privately that she is not interested I won’t term it as a lie or her being bad or grey or anything .. she is a good person who decided not to act on the attraction she felt towards the guy and told him that she does not love him .. in real

Life too such things happen .. Kairav asks her to leave because he realises that she loves Abhimanyu or at least likes him but is choosing Arohi and her relationship over Abhimanyu and he asks her to leave so that she will be away from a situation where she will have to keep being thrown into proximity with him and suffer .. and I know my post has a lot of typos , but what I said in the post was that except for that birthday thing whatever else she did for him - Ruby issue, saving from fire - are things she would have done for anyone .. and birthday also is because she is guilty about hurting Abhimanyu by saying she does not love him and she sees it as a way to make up to

Him without him knowing .. but yes that is the only case where I would say she ended up giving him actively confusing signals .. this is my view .. the rest of it is mainly because he somehow thinks she will do such things only if she loves him .. I always thought his question of why did she go to save him was not the right one for a person like Akshara because she would do it for anyone else in that situation too if she knew something like that .. and I do think that you are assuming I am stuck and have done narrow context whereas you have a broader context and better understanding .. let us just say that the way you interpret things is very different fromMine .. that does not make me stick on one point because I don’t have the broader context .. all his issues during marriage rituals stem from his decision to marry Arohi at the same time trying to get her sister to confess .. for you that is acceptable because he is Greg whereas Akshu is supposed to be white .. but being grey is no excuse for his actions and whatever he did only ultimately created problems for Akshara and him and everyone else .. he was not happy about Akshara whenever push came to shove .. and yes she confessed because he put her in a situation like that .. and after she confessed to him she would never go back on it although his actions put her in such a bad light in front of her family and his family and ruined her relation with her sister further .. you will blame Akshara for it sbd I will blame Abhimanyus impatience and lack of maturity and empathy for it .. and we will be the raul ki patri that cannot meet 😊Abhi could have simply chosen another woman other than Arohi and not hurt his family and honestly from how everything turned out I don’t think Abhimanyu truly loved Akshara .. I don’t think I can treat a perso. I love the way he treated Akshara.. he loves Manjari , he loved Neel and he loves Ru and Abhir .. and probably him and Arohi would have been much better suited and them marrying would have probably saved so much heart break for so many people .. again I am not a Navra shipper .. I wanted Abhira after a long redemption and rebuild track .. and I still expect an Abhira without any redemption now and some hotchpotch way in which they will get back and then die or the show will end soon .. but you think Abhimanyu is more right or Akshara has always been the reason for most of the issues or her behaviour is what has created all issues, I believe Abhimanyu has been the problematic person and while Akshara has her issues , the problems are mostly created because of Abhimanyus own issues and his inability to accept Akshara as she is and love her like he loved his family , without conditions ..

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Long post, lol. But I will try to answer based on my interpretations. First and foremost, this is ITV, but lets ignore that for now cause most Navra shippers do.

I agree that he didn't actually talk to Ak clearly about his love, but he really thought and believed it was self-evident. Even when he went to ask for her hand in marriage to BP, he was going to say which sister, but he didn't (don't remember what exactly happened ). He was just very sure that the signals and signs were enough. I mean, they had this hyper-romantic moment with her in the purple saree too. Sorry, but even for me, all the signs were there for Ak. She got confused because she, at that point, at least honestly believed Arohi was a better match than herself. It's low self-esteem. But I agree that putting her on the spot might have been too much. Even Abhi realized it later, but again, he is put in the spot pretty much always and always responds well to those situations, so it's hard for him to understand that, especially cause they didn't know each other that well at that point. Later once he starts understanding this, he always jumps in to defend her cause he knows she won't do it. But you just can't keep doing things one-sided for long, it has to be reciprocal. Ak was going to reciprocate before the birthday event and everything else ( remember Arohi's convo). But things happened cause she got scared by Arohi and decided to just destroy Abhi so he would leave her alone.

Then Ak's own brother tells her to leave for the peace and even to delete her number so Abhi can't contact her. Her expression then wasn't, yeah, that is prudent, but sad and longing cause she really didn't want any of that. And oh, btw, her planning his bday, yeah, she would have done that for anyone. But would she have defied her brother and sister's wish and decided to stay back in Udaipur just to plan someone's bday?

This is the crux of the problem. Ak's actions do NOT match her words. So every Abhira shipper tries to just interpret her emotions cause that has been the only real thing from the beginning. And she did several things to show that she loved Abhi during the pre-confession time. But she never accepted that she loved him, even just between Abhi and herself. Sorry, but anyone would go crazy trying to interpret her mixed signals.

The other stuff, like the hospital issue, was odd, but there is context for that too. Abhi is to blame for deciding to marry Arohi ( either cause of Manjari or pure spite). He is a gray character, and we expect him to make bad decisions. Ak is also a grey character but is presented as a white character which makes things harder.

I already talked about self-harm multiple times, but again, you are stuck on just one thing without the broader context. I will repeat it for the last time. Throughout Abrogi's marriage rituals, Abhi was trying to get Ak to confess so they can avoid a bad situation down the line. Truth is incessant and always comes out, its better for it to come out sooner than later. Abhi himself was turned around on if Ak actually loved him and didn't want to hurt his family all over again for someone who didn't care for him. But then he found the fire incident photo, and everything suddenly clicked. He realized that her denying things she did was also a part of the facade. It was the wedding day, if there had been time, he might have tried to do something different, but at this point, breaking that facade was the only option, so he took it. Again, he didn't make her break her sister's marriage. He already made the decision to break it when he walked out to see her. After the initial confession, when he could honestly, for the first time, hear her say she loved him - he still gave her all the outs. He asked to run away, but she said no, so they didn't. And when the families confronted them, he was again willing to walk away cause Ak was mum. He didn't say I will die if you don't confess in front of everyone. He just said you will lose me forever 'cause I am done.

Interesting perspective on Akshara. I can understand it but not completely agree with it.

Abhimanyu and Akshara both had a problematic childhood and have different temperaments and ways to deal with a situation. Comparing their issues and mistakes or sufferings is like apple and oranges. If they could understand each other, they could have made a nice couple that balanced each other’s flaws. But didn’t work out.

So it just comes down to the viewers’ personal opinions that what would we support. If possible I would want both to be happy.

But if I had to support just one - I will choose Abhimanyu - not because he is rich or for the actor - only because I truly admire honesty and straightforwardness in any person.

The truth may sting once but a lie is like a slow poison that devours relationships. I do not see him as grey but just a regular flawed person with kind heart and scope for improvement. Yes he has been impulsive and couldn’t control his anger at times - but those can be managed or treated.

I do not wish to spend my time second guessing the other person’s thoughts. So I can never be okay with the type of lying and escaping Akshara does. She may have her reasons for those too but its just not an acceptable quality for me. The way she has handled/fled from situations just doesn’t sit well with me. Her intentions maybe pure but there’s hardly any logic or sense in her decisions.

So yeah, Abhimanyu has more of the qualities that I value in a person compared to Akshara and its easier for me to connect or empathize with him. Akshara is way too difficult to read and now especially after the surgery and custody tracks, I have lost all interest in her and don’t even try to understand her anymore.

Originally posted by: verve

Completely second you ❤️ 👏

@bold This is the exact reason I wrote the post you're referring to. In fact, so many people have raised this issue already on the forum.

Abhinav gets dragged for everything - things he has never done, things he could have done or will/won't do in future. There've been n no. of posts where he takes the sole brunt for the blind defense of both leads. Whether pre-leap or post-leap episodes are gettin' discussed, as soon as Abhimanyu's or Akshara's defense start showing cracks, the motto is to instantly target Abhinav.

I get people have their own likings n reasons for watching & everyone can't have same outlook. But one upping yourself or your fav ckt. by giving any xyz baseless, bogus, nonsensical reasons is beyond me.

I've toh made it a pt. to just engage with my friends and people who's posts I enjoy. (Tho there are always some posts that are too much to ignore)

I love how well you have put everything. And yeah, I do not agree with some things, but it is one interpretation of many cause the characters are just not consistent. Few things I want to point out about the initial days, Ak was going to confess her love for Abhi, but she didn't stop cause of her relationship with Arohi, she stopped cause Arohi blackmailed her. And even in the other instances, it is clear to the viewer that Ak loves Abhi in all of those actions. Esp going to save him in the car with Kairav, she clearly stated her motivations, and they weren't generic goodness. Without knowing this, Abhi interpreted some things, I understand that. But it's a valid question to ask - if you don't love me, why plan my birthday, why defend me at the expense of yourself, saved me from fire etc? In all of this, for the viewer, it is shown clearly that Ak's motivation is that she loves Abhi. If Abhi was able to feel that, then he can question it himself. Add to all of this the long looks, the falling, etc. It's super clear when Abhi starts ignoring Ak that it was something both of them felt.

As to telling someone you don't love them cause it would complicate things, or there are complicated reasons part. I think that is the stupidest thing a person can do. Love is not easy, and if you find someone you love and see a life with, none of the other reasons should factor in. Especially in confessing your love to that person. That is my personal view and again, part of the reason I like Abhi over Ak.

Abhi-Arohi stuff, I agree with you completely and honestly think he mostly did it out of spite to force Ak into a situation like that.

Originally posted by: solembaum

I am not a Navra shipper .. 😊 and I have watched a few shows over the years , never completed any .. and while there are many things u ignore .. there are things that u cannot ignore either .. that is all .. and I am just saying my POV like how those of you who say this is ITV and hence don’t expect logic would also look for logic or something you can connect to in the serial or story .. I guess we are okay with different things and not so okay with some others ..

I am not saying he didn’t believe she loved him .. but isn’t it common sense to understand or at least realise that shit we had never spoken and things may not have been as clear as I thought for her or for others ? You yourself say that he always reacts well when out on the spot .. to me this looks like him

Reacting not so well and reading the situation all wrong .. I honestly don’t think AK has low self esteem.. she is quite content the way she is .. at least this is my interpretation .. the first time Arohi meets Abhimanyu and says something like she wants to be like Abhimanyu .. he says something like every one wants to be like someone else .. and Akshara immediately says she is happy with however she is .. and I feel that is true of her .. she does not think of herself as great , but she does not look down on herself because of that .. either about her not being topper or not having stellar qualifications like Arohi .. so low self esteem is not a problem with her .. but not sure where to put the puttingother people over herself really ir what is the right word fir that .. anyway I don’t think she got confused because of low self esteem,based on the self talks before Tilak 1.0 I think she genuinely thought she misunderstood Abhimanyus advances and that he was just being nice to her as Arohi’s sister and the fact that she had spoken to his mother , his mother thinks Arohi is the girl etc weighed in on her thinking that she misunderstood .. before that happened she was happy about the rishta .. but then she genuinely thought Abhimanyu must have been talking about Arohi .. she was indeed upset because she was attracted to him, but she hadn’t really admitted it to herself in so many words .. And my interpretation of the post Tilak thing - she was always going yo say no .. she had only said she wants to meet him but it is not shown what she was going to tell him .. at least that is how I remember , then Arohi’s accident or some serious injury happens the day she is going to meet him and they don’t meet .. I do think her feelings for him become a little more during that time .. but then she also realises how that will

Impact her relationship with Arohi and she chooses to step back .. she would have just told him privately that she does not love him or whatever but he makes it a more public event because he is confident she will say yes .. and she says no .. May be it is difficult for many people to understand this .. but I have seen people withdrawing or not moving forward in relationships where there are family conflicts , parents don’t like the guy , religion is different , parents don’t get along etc .. and I have seen that in most cases people don’t say I love you but fir cuz reasons won’t choose you .. many people say that explanations make it difficult .. so just make a clean cut .. so for me even if she was saying to him privately that she is not interested I won’t term it as a lie or her being bad or grey or anything .. she is a good person who decided not to act on the attraction she felt towards the guy and told him that she does not love him .. in real

Life too such things happen .. Kairav asks her to leave because he realises that she loves Abhimanyu or at least likes him but is choosing Arohi and her relationship over Abhimanyu and he asks her to leave so that she will be away from a situation where she will have to keep being thrown into proximity with him and suffer .. and I know my post has a lot of typos , but what I said in the post was that except for that birthday thing whatever else she did for him - Ruby issue, saving from fire - are things she would have done for anyone .. and birthday also is because she is guilty about hurting Abhimanyu by saying she does not love him and she sees it as a way to make up to

Him without him knowing .. but yes that is the only case where I would say she ended up giving him actively confusing signals .. this is my view .. the rest of it is mainly because he somehow thinks she will do such things only if she loves him .. I always thought his question of why did she go to save him was not the right one for a person like Akshara because she would do it for anyone else in that situation too if she knew something like that .. and I do think that you are assuming I am stuck and have done narrow context whereas you have a broader context and better understanding .. let us just say that the way you interpret things is very different fromMine .. that does not make me stick on one point because I don’t have the broader context .. all his issues during marriage rituals stem from his decision to marry Arohi at the same time trying to get her sister to confess .. for you that is acceptable because he is Greg whereas Akshu is supposed to be white .. but being grey is no excuse for his actions and whatever he did only ultimately created problems for Akshara and him and everyone else .. he was not happy about Akshara whenever push came to shove .. and yes she confessed because he put her in a situation like that .. and after she confessed to him she would never go back on it although his actions put her in such a bad light in front of her family and his family and ruined her relation with her sister further .. you will blame Akshara for it sbd I will blame Abhimanyus impatience and lack of maturity and empathy for it .. and we will be the raul ki patri that cannot meet 😊Abhi could have simply chosen another woman other than Arohi and not hurt his family and honestly from how everything turned out I don’t think Abhimanyu truly loved Akshara .. I don’t think I can treat a perso. I love the way he treated Akshara.. he loves Manjari , he loved Neel and he loves Ru and Abhir .. and probably him and Arohi would have been much better suited and them marrying would have probably saved so much heart break for so many people .. again I am not a Navra shipper .. I wanted Abhira after a long redemption and rebuild track .. and I still expect an Abhira without any redemption now and some hotchpotch way in which they will get back and then die or the show will end soon .. but you think Abhimanyu is more right or Akshara has always been the reason for most of the issues or her behaviour is what has created all issues, I believe Abhimanyu has been the problematic person and while Akshara has her issues , the problems are mostly created because of Abhimanyus own issues and his inability to accept Akshara as she is and love her like he loved his family , without conditions ..

Originally posted by: Indira1211

a big issue here is that people are failing to accept the narrative..they are not accepting that abhinav is not a stranger ..he’s aksharas husband of 6 years,,.she’s spent every day in 6 years with this man..sleeping in the same room ŵith him,.and people say he’s a stranger to her like really 😂🤷🏻‍♀️.. the writers are keep on drilling it into us that abhinav is her husband.. it gets shown in every episode..their married life.labhimanyu is the strange man now.. anyway maybe when she gets pregnant with abhinavs child ,.they may finally realise he’s aksharas husband 💁🏻‍♀️.. and when we all meet our husbands for the first time before marriage ..they are strangers..lol.. but after years of marriage ..they are not strangers anymore.. so when it’s keep on being shouted that abhinav is a stranger to akshara..it’s hilarious 😂..

The stranger part is just cause she took the help of a stranger over her own family who she apparently has no qualms with. I don't think Nav is a stranger anymore. Second thing is, after the leap we saw how clear the boundaries between Ak and Nav were, and before Abhi's entry and Udaipur trip, Ak never even shared anything with Nav. The third and final thing, there is no backstory for Abhinav - he was an orphan and wanted a family, that is all. At this point at least, if they want Nav to take the role of Ak's husband and ML then they need to flesh out his character more. Show us his past, he didn't used to believe in God before he met Ak, what happened? He had a previous relationship, what happened? He was in an orphanage, where are all his friends? What are his past mistakes, what did he learn from them, etc? Most importantly, why is he such an AA ????