Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop
My take on Mee leaving:
Mee came with contract to protect herself. She was forced into the marriage, and she from start promised to herself that she won’t give in to marriage, giving in would mean accepting whatever happened with her. She doesn’t want to accept it, accepting anything that was forced on her is not mee.
Everyone wants to have a happy marriage. To have a happy marriage one has to give in, but Mee doesn’t want to give in. So, she comes up with a contract, which reminds Mee “Don’t give in, you were forced.”
I am not Muslim but from what I understand about Nikah, is that they sign a legal document.
That contract in Mee’s mind was somewhere above that legal document, it was protecting mee
Mee says “I’ll leave you the day, I’ll breach the contract.” And then says “Qubool hai.”
She meant it that time.
Mee leaving was like she broke a clause in the contract she designed for herself, she had to pay for it. She leaves. She had to follows the rule she made, she had to leave him, even if she doesn’t want to, because that contract mattered to Mee.
For Mu, contract wasn’t important, Mee was. For Mee it was hell important.
She called herself his wife, she wasn’t disgusted at all. She loves him.
She doesn’t regret giving in into him, but regrets breaking the promise she made to herself, she gave in, she disrespected herself in a way. If you disappoint yourself, it’s really bad disappointment. Mee did that. She disappointed herself. She is egoistic person, she cannot accept that gave in, had Mu broke the contract (not forcefully), it would have been easy her, she would have blamed him but now she can’t him, she is one to be blamed. She can not take it. No one likes losing and Mee hates it.
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