TERE BIN ,DT 109 "Meerab , jise main bepanah mohabbat karta hoon" - Page 42

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

Don't tell me you wasted your time defending any character or situation?

Originally posted by: ajacob31

OMG!! They made it sound like Meera’s initiated the whole thing. Wow!! This edited episode just wanted to whitewash Murtasim making Meera’s the culprit. Now they edited and are trying to show Meera’s is ashamed of her act… Misogyny at the highest level!! Iam still traumatized thinking how the writer wanted to show them in love after MR!! I now wonder if the writer thinks it’s normal to be in love with a rapist!!

Makers want audience to be fool & believe this is expression of the girl who just gave in heat of the moment & regrets.

If this is regret face then how does traumatizing face look

Originally posted by: Alizba63

Exactly. MR doesn't make sense if you watch the first 45 episodes. That's horrible writing for you. The murtasim and meerab we know would never behave this way.

But what I'm saying is if you watch episode 46 ending and watch the actions taken by both meerab and murtasim in 47 then only MR makes sense. The voiceover makes no sense.

Why would a girl initiate with a husband she just slapped, spitted on, who just pushed her to bed, threatened her and she also assumes he cheated on her. Why would she loose control or initiate anything ?

She'd shake with anger and she did. They made a joke of her situation. They humiliated and insulted a females NO by making her loose control to save the hero.

Does that make more sense to what I'm trying to say?

Sorry for my rant and if it's not clear

You do make sense and rant on cos we are all majorly disappointed.

Their reaction afterwards was shocking to see.

However..

From today’s episode, the things that made me feel it wasn’t MR:

- Meerab calling herself KMK’s biwi

- Meerab’s dupatta and jewelry sat neatly beside Murtasim when he sat on the bed.

Plus I can’t negate the 46-episodes worth of story and Murtasim’s character as of now.

The writer/director purposely shot it this way cos they wanted to reveal in the end. A cheap tactic but that’s how I see it.

In the upcoming episodes, it’ll be more clear cos if it was MR, it’ll be choppy filled with voiceovers and edits. They can’t change the entire story smoothly now.

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

Good one

Yaar Meerab called herself Murtasim’s biwi because she wanted the gate to open. No other reason.

I want to see the deleted scenes from this episode

Originally posted by: badshah_begum

Yaar Meerab called herself Murtasim’s biwi because she wanted the gate to open. No other reason.

She just wanted to get out that's all

Whatever it took

My take on Mee leaving:

Mee came with contract to protect herself. She was forced into the marriage, and she from start promised to herself that she won’t give in to marriage, giving in would mean accepting whatever happened with her. She doesn’t want to accept it, accepting anything that was forced on her is not mee.

Everyone wants to have a happy marriage. To have a happy marriage one has to give in, but Mee doesn’t want to give in. So, she comes up with a contract, which reminds Mee “Don’t give in, you were forced.”

I am not Muslim but from what I understand about Nikah, is that they sign a legal document.

That contract in Mee’s mind was somewhere above that legal document, it was protecting mee

Mee says “I’ll leave you the day, I’ll breach the contract.” And then says “Qubool hai.”

She meant it that time.

Mee leaving was like she broke a clause in the contract she designed for herself, she had to pay for it. She leaves. She had to follows the rule she made, she had to leave him, even if she doesn’t want to, because that contract mattered to Mee.

For Mu, contract wasn’t important, Mee was. For Mee it was hell important.

She called herself his wife, she wasn’t disgusted at all. She loves him.

She doesn’t regret giving in into him, but regrets breaking the promise she made to herself, she gave in, she disrespected herself in a way. If you disappoint yourself, it’s really bad disappointment. Mee did that. She disappointed herself. She is egoistic person, she cannot accept that gave in, had Mu broke the contract (not forcefully), it would have been easy her, she would have blamed him but now she can’t him, she is one to be blamed. She can not take it. No one likes losing and Mee hates it.

Originally posted by: badshah_begum

I want to see the deleted scenes from this episode

Same. I want to know what they actually thought for the story.

If MR wasn't even there (according to some fans) then they should have no problem releasing it

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

I know that’s it not really a topic explored in PTV, but physical intimacy with someone you love, whether in the heat of the moment or not, results in some connection. It’s not just hot sex with some hot guy you pick up at the club. In that situation, it’s just sex. With Meerab and Murtasim, they are a husband and wife that have such an emotional history already and they both do love each other. It should have brought up some tenderness within themselves, in reality… this cold behavior and overly angry reaction afterwards is not believable to me. And it’s not like they were drunk to the point that it wasn’t totally consensual. Angry enraged sex is not the same as intoxicated sex.
I dunno. I’m annoyed that the sex aspect of marriage was kind of just treated like it was a random party fling leaving them disgusted at themselves instead of looking at it as a physical union. If you don’t want to discuss it then don’t, but then why the need to create this type of a reaction.

Yes. Equally annoyed here too. Not sure if you're practice any religion and if you do, particularly Islam, sex is such a sacred concept. And if you study about it through lens of souls connecting and that deed bringing about a life into the world, it's even deeper. For these two characters, it wasn't just some shoddy concept.

The reason Meerub placed the condition and someone like Murtasim accepting the condition meant they both understood, valued and respected the concept of consent. And that sex between husband and wife, ideally the best kind, the kind where you establish and feel a connection on all levels, mind, body and soul isn't something that is to be done merely to satisfy one's physical desires and needs. Sex as a concept to feed one's body because that's one of the most basic human needs also is a different concept altogether and that is not what I'm discussing and tbh, that doesn't even fit into Murtasim and Meerub's dynamic.

Because if acceptance and complete acceptance through making place in each other's heart and thereby, giving up one's body to the other as a form of expressing that love wasn't important to either of them, didn't hold a lot of significance and value and if the whole jihad (read : struggle or battle) against one's own nafs wasn't to gain respect and acceptance then these two would have done it a long time ago. I'm sure there must have been pak shows where consummation came before love? I can't recall anyone right now but I'm guessing there must have been. And to do such a huge disservice to one's own product....nah, I don't get this Nooran woman as a writer. 🤪

Edit :

But obviously, the whole bathroom sequence and Meerub's devastating look doesn't make sense in this context because it was intended as an MR originally. The more I think, the more I'm sure about it lol. Thanks to the fandom, bach gaye baal baal.