Ak's obsession - Page 2

Their relationship turned real when she rejected AbM ‘s confession at the temple and decided to move on.

There relationship will turn true when she accepts him as her husband nd not fatherji...she tried in kasauli but they couldn't progress... relationship r about two people nd there should no scope for a third person...she rejecting abhi!=accepting Nav

She rejected abhi not because of nav but because of how he trampled all over her self respect when they were married. Even if nav is not there, she will not go back to abhi. It’s as simple as that.

That' exactly what I said her rejecting Abhi has nothing to do with her accepting Nav.

Rejecting Abhi=Not wanting him as her partner coz of whatever happened

Rejecting Abhi !=Accepting Nav... that's upon those two how they progress in their relationship....Abhi presence shouldn't be a factor

He is not insecure about losing Ak but he does fear that he will lose abhir. And that’s normal. Anumyone in his place with meagre means in a fight against a tycoon will fear the same. Ak giving him pep talks so that he doesn’t lose hope and doesn’t give up on dight is just what a normal couple do. You can’t just brush away concerns of Ak regarding her husband’s insecurities as her obsession.

Even if one deem it as obsession, then do tell me why do ppl get obsessed over someone?

I think it's pretty obvious why. It is because AK inserted Abhinav into her and abhir's life and feels responsible for abhinav's welfare after initiating and orchestrating things to a certain extent. She gave the rights of a 'father' to a man who would've probably been pretty content being an 'uncle' in abhir's life, married him to legitimize the claim knowing full well she'll never give him the rights to a real marriage, indirectly put him in the line of fire without ever disclosing how badly things can blow up in their faces. She knew to a certain extent what would happen if Abhir's truth comes out which is why the law tayyaari. Abhinav on the other hand had assumed Akshara and her child were both disowned by the child's father. To a certain extent, Abhinav literally thought the Birlas, especially Abhimanyu, were vile people who'd abandoned and traumatized her. Akshara on the other hand probably knew Abhimanyu would fight for his kid if he finds out. By the time Abhinav's misconception about abhimanyu the dad was cleared, he was already pretty enmeshed, pretty entrenched in all of this with abhir at stake. Akshara knows this and so she's protecting the one person who still has the most to lose in her opinion.

And then obviously there's the fact that he's been an incredible father to her child and an incredible partner and friend to her. Akshara's seen too much, been through too much, her ability to trust her ex in-laws, her own family, and her fate has pretty much been decimated. At this point, her only system of support is Abhinav and she does not want to lose him at any cost. So the slightest wrinkle causes her to react disproportionately.

Yes him being insecure that his financials will be dragged he might loose custody makes sense... wasn't today a little overboard though he is actually insecure of AbhiM having any bond with Abhir (it's human but also out of ckt for Nav... that' why u shouldn't give ckts god like status...coz when they act human it suddenly feels wrong)... why is not AK insecure too....she didn't need this sort of convincing... it's just Nav insecure nd Ak pacifying him... it's repetitive....one shouldn't need so much manaoing... he should know his place in abhir life...abhir does love his father...this constant validation especially how they played out today is just OTT

U've put it very nicely AK created her own world in Kasauli a bubble for her safe nd happy family but now that reality of UD has hit she's afraid that this bubble would burst nd her perfect world would collapse...this facade would end...so as soon as she sees a crack(those come in form of Nav's insecurity)...she gives her all to mend those cracks...to prevent her world from collapsing... it's just i feel her efforts r in vain nd she overdid

Yes it’s repetitive and a bit boring but can’t be termed as obsession.

I won't go into Wordplay nd read the essence of the argument...Ak seems to find any excuses to start her mera pati mahan hai jaap...if she can't find any Gorillas to validate her happy family... she's balming Nav insecurity with Abhir loves you nd u r his everything nd mahan...this is a show nd honestly anything that echoes so much gets boring...the point of any scene should be to convey some information nd dynamics to the audience...nd i think they've conveyed their thoughts already.... I'm mostly hating on the screenplay nd writing these days...a lot of stuff is repetitive ckts don't have growth they're going in loops... it's not gonna be interesting to watch the rinse a repeat of the same thing every week...u can actually read patterns in the show