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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: oye_nakhrewaali

virat ji ki kaku promised her a paithani?


Post V church confession, BK wanted to bring savi and sai to CN. SO to speak Savi alone she tricks UM by sending some random paithani saree sellers.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

It's grooming

She was merely an adult when a 30 year aadami married her

Virat spend the next 4 years of his life abusing manipulating gaslighting and grooming Sai to make her his perfect wife

Ashwini didn't help she used to constantly Calimesa that Virat abuse is his way of love that men show love like that

Sai is thr product of our gross patriarchal misogynistic society that conditions women to the extend that womens out here are really believing abusive relationships that they have with their sposes is love

It doesn't help that majority of men behave like this

It's soo normalized

The power imbalance is soo real

But here Sai not having her own family helped Virat to take zero accountability for his abuse

Because Sai had no where to go

She was dependent on Virat in alot of ways

And he used this against her to keep her chained to him


So well written.

This Ghum clearly depicts misogynist and patriarchal ways of our society. Not an entertainment show but more like a documentary to understand condition of women in society.

Regarding abusive relationship being normalized as love by our culture is so true...I met a married woman who in her initial days of her marriage used to say that her husband doesn't like her meeting male friends because he is possessive in love..😳He turned out to be very abusive man and used to never apologize for his actions.


It's also so sad to see in our society fatherless girls are pressured to get married young 21-22 . In our local news..a fatherless girl , who was 24year old , pregnant woman commited suicide last month as she couldn't bear the harrassment from her in laws and husband. They took advantage of her situation and the husband used to threaten her of divorce from first month of marriage .She was even forced by family to apologize when she complained that husband's brother in law was sexually harassing her.


In my opinion, girls really have to get married only after understanding patriarchy of our society and strong enough to take stand for herself and her self respect..

Edited by Renee001 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Even if I agree it's Virat driven story what's so much in to take pride in it? What's the point of that when you've no character sketch & is the most hated namesake so-called ML ever 🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Renee001


So well written.

This Ghum clearly depicts misogynist and patriarchal ways of our society. Not an entertainment show but more like a documentary to understand condition of women in society.

Regarding abusive relationship being normalized as love by our culture is so true...I met a married woman who in her initial days of her marriage used to say that her husband doesn't like her meeting male friends because he is possessive in love..😳He turned out to be very abusive man and used to never apologize for his actions.


It's also so sad to see in our society fatherless girls are pressured to get married young 21-22 . In our local news..a fatherless girl , who was 24year old , pregnant woman commited suicide last month as she couldn't bear the harrassment from her in laws and husband. They took advantage of her situation and the husband used to threaten her of divorce from first month of marriage .She was even forced by family to apologize when she complained that husband's brother in law was sexually harassing her.


In my opinion, girls really have to get married only after understanding patriarchy of our society and strong enough to take stand for herself and her self respect..

This is soo sad

I'm so sorry to hear about that garl

May her soul rest in peace

And you are right this show shows the reality of our society which 90% of women have to face

And in my opinion women should only marry if they are financially stable and women at all time should have solid garl group to share their troblem with

Sai lacks in that department too

Like she have no friends that can show her virat true face

Because alot of times women don't realize abuse its very very tricky

3rd pov always helps

Having soul sister for women in this day and age is very important

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Posted: 2 years ago

Aaj ki episode ki tippani:

Awww how much supportive and mature Satya is.He wasn't angry with Sai and explained his situation to her & also advised her nicely that she should think twice before going to CH for Vinu's birthday after how they behave with her.He don't have any problem if she goes to Vinu's birthday instead of making dawat for his hospital collegues Sai also told him she will attend both the occasions she will do both her wifely and motherly duties well.They are truly a mature couple.Chavans are the worst they didn't think once they should invite atleast Savi Vinu's sister in his birthday if not Sai.They wanted a mother-sister not to have any relationship with Vinu.They even wrote something against Sai eww they are the worst.It was mostly a SaiRat tashan centric episode.Vanku khel gaya lol.Kabhi woh SaiYa centric episode deta hai toh kabhi SaiRat centric episode in alternate days.Keeping both fandoms happy with lollipops.Mujhe pata tha didi itna jaldi nahi mar sakti.She will be back with a bang dekh lena sab😎

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Posted: 2 years ago

They'll most likely to drop a promo soon & change the montage!

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: msin

Iska koi jawab nahi hai kyu ki sai hai to sahi hai .. how come she never promised Savi when she was writing on trees about baba .. kyu nahi kiya promise .. vinu ne manga to diya promise and Savi ne manga toh bola zidd mat karo am I not enough for you .. And Chavans are rich people they can get a professional counselling.. Sai is not the only doctor in Nagpur .. she can give them a chance to do that and say she is busy ..vinu will learn to accept it .. how did Savi understand that her baba has another life by harsh truth .. isnt vinu older than Savi than give him a chance to understand this reality


U r back❤️


Sai is now shown as someone who writes her own right and wrong. As per her convenience things become fair and justified even if she has claimed V to be wrong. When she crosses boundaries that is correct.

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Posted: 2 years ago

The best thing that happened to this forum in a while…







SANNATAAAAA








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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: kashmayurfan

The best thing that happened to this forum in a while…







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Episode ko aane do phir dekna

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Even if I agree it's Virat driven story what's so much in to take pride in it? What's the point of that when you've no character sketch & is the most hated namesake so-called ML ever 🤣

This ever edit of toxic ML he is the first one to appear

I have seen thousands of it on sms🤣

VC and the birla guy😆 is always there

Edited by badgarlriri - 2 years ago

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