GHKPM WU & daily discussion thread #115 - Page 57

Sai virat story is over .. there’s no point in reviving dead things .. marriage is not a joke and should not be taken lightly .. Sai has married Satya she should walk the talk .. and virat has also let it go ..

aur audience kab tak episode 50-100 and. Episode 200-300 and 500-600 wale episodes ki baate leke baithe rahenge

What’s not meant to be is not meant to be . But introspect on your own mistakes .. both were wrong .. and stop portraying yourself as some mahan aatma .. if virat did wrong to sai .. Sai did wrong to both her kids .. she robbed them of a chance to stay together as a family .. let it be in her conscience

Originally posted by: msin

I have not seen Roop but if they make Virat a brutal police officer .., not dishonest .. it would be good .. I don’t want him pining for Sai .. Jo chali gayi chali gayi move on .. .. koi aur aa jayegi ..

and waise bhi he has 2 kids .. dono bacche virat ke hi hai .. Chavhan khandaan zyachi pakki zabaan

Dono bachhe yehi bolenge …

I agree it’s a virat driven story ..

Yes...n if he pulls it off like in the saiya build up episodes, what better than this.

See only problem is it's forced narrative. Anyway jinka business hai,woh sochei.....sanu kii😎😎

Originally posted by: Aminarose31

So they ask me to watch the same story with changing roles.

On the basis that the story was great in the first place until I re-watched it with other characters.🤪

Ok.

That's why it's called gaanja🤣🤣

Asar writers pe bhi hai 🤣

Originally posted by: Anilaanu

I think they will make virat a villain of ghum....

At first it was duty versus love....second it was virat fell for sai....will pakhi leave him....third virat questioning his choices....

First time duty and love became same....second time pakhi didn't left him....third time he is fed up of pakhi...wanted sai back....

The synopsis is for future episodes I think....montage will change....virat will promise to make saiya life hell when he see their closeness....as far as my pov....sai is amused at satya's support snd sathya is also drawn towards her... I think they will take short leap and move forward the story...

But Sai still has gooly eyes & softness for Virat. So satya loves Sai, Sai loves with Virat & Virat bothers Sai & Satya as Virat loves Sai? Virat wasn’t in love with P & fell for Sai or got attracted to Sai early on. Don’t see how that will happen to Sai if she is still deeply in love with Virat. Will satya be still patient or demand more.

Originally posted by: Renee001

I have started watching ghum only after she left Chavan house with Vinu.

Can someone tell me what made Sai fell in love with this abuser ? Didn't he show this controlling , abusing behaviour before she fell in love? Did she ever get a red flag ?

It's grooming

She was merely an adult when a 30 year aadami married her

Virat spend the next 4 years of his life abusing manipulating gaslighting and grooming Sai to make her his perfect wife

Ashwini didn't help she used to constantly Calimesa that Virat abuse is his way of love that men show love like that

Sai is thr product of our gross patriarchal misogynistic society that conditions women to the extend that womens out here are really believing abusive relationships that they have with their sposes is love

It doesn't help that majority of men behave like this

It's soo normalized

The power imbalance is soo real

But here Sai not having her own family helped Virat to take zero accountability for his abuse

Because Sai had no where to go

She was dependent on Virat in alot of ways

And he used this against her to keep her chained to him

My two words as someone who is not watching any show at this moment and have never contributed to any TRP. Strictly as someone who uses SM and watches stuff online.

There has to be a reason why SaiRat has dropped out of all popularity meters online. All the couples on TV are separated - Relationship, Auntyji, Tamarind, YHC, KKB, BL, KB etc etc. But they still have a massive fan following on social media. They all keep winning Jodi awards and still have a vast majority of fans who want them together. HC, GK, Krishna etc are still playing flawed MLs but top popularity meters on Twitter.

While I cannot speak of what TRP aunties want, as someone who grew up on ITV shows, I try to not judge the ML and FL of the shows on morality or character growth, because at the end of the day, shows are made for entertainment and rarely have a proper growth chart. Arnav forcefully marrying Khushi would have made him a monster in real life, but reel life and world is different.

However, maybe it’s the acting (less love, more aggression) or personal dynamics or flawed portrayals - SaiRat has lost its fanbase. A couple who used to win every couple poll on SM, now don’t even show up as an option.
I don’t know about TRP and most of us do not contribute to it, so it is futile talking about it, but the decline in SM popularity of both, the couple and NB individually is hard to ignore and I wonder what the reason behind it is.

https://twitter.com/nainaalex24/status/1656283610465423363?s=46 Satya is also in CN🥳😆

Originally posted by: Micheal_Farzi

https://twitter.com/nainaalex24/status/1656283610465423363?s=46 Satya is also in CN🥳😆

Satya has memory loss, no other explaination to be in that house🤣

Originally posted by: oye_nakhrewaali

Satya has memory loss, no other explaination to be in that house🤣

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

It's grooming

She was merely an adult when a 30 year aadami married her

Virat spend the next 4 years of his life abusing manipulating gaslighting and grooming Sai to make her his perfect wife

Ashwini didn't help she used to constantly Calimesa that Virat abuse is his way of love that men show love like that

Sai is thr product of our gross patriarchal misogynistic society that conditions women to the extend that womens out here are really believing abusive relationships that they have with their sposes is love

It doesn't help that majority of men behave like this

It's soo normalized

The power imbalance is soo real

But here Sai not having her own family helped Virat to take zero accountability for his abuse

Because Sai had no where to go

She was dependent on Virat in alot of ways

And he used this against her to keep her chained to him

I love this post so much!! I wish I could like it more than once. Maybe Virat did it inadvertently, but you are right that due to the power imbalance in the relationship, Virat and his family were able to get away with lots of things that are inherently abusive and degrading. Sai is a strong character and thus stood up to them. If I were in her position, the amount of gaslighting I receive may compel me to think I am in the wrong and question my sanity.