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Their choice. Surrogacy is entirely private matter.

They have many reasons for it.

Perhaps they froze eggs earlier and focused on career so that they have kids later. Perhaps they have fertility issues or other complications. Perhaps they want to focus on work and do not want to go through pregnancy and all changes it brings physically and mentally.

Whatever it is, is their own freedom and choice.

Some are not married and wanted kids so opted for surrogacy like Tusshar, Ekta, K Jo.

Some wanted to be parents but did not want marriage. So adopted kids like Sushmita and Sakshi Tanwar.

I do not see any issue with adoption or surrogacy or marriage or divorce or whether someone is working or housewife or hires babysitter or nanny to raise kids or sends kids to boarding school or sends kids abroad.

The only thing is kids should not be neglected or spoilt or not know difference between right or wrong, legal or illegal and I do take issue if parents defend wrong doing of kids or are shit role models or distant themselves.

I found it callous when Mithun once spoke how he met his newborn son only for 1 HOUR ONCE A YEAR. Like how negligent can one be? As a dad you should be around kids in formative years. Nothing to brag that you meet son only for 1 hour, once a year.

Or how Amitabh spoke how he never knew which class his kids studied in and he was too busy working that he never knew when kids grew up and that Jaya did all work of handling home and kids. Jaya once shared how all celeb parents laughed when they saw kids' report cards at school and got complaints from teachers for bad academic performance. Was it something to laugh off? Nothing to be proud of to share your kids were crap at school.

I would rather say celeb culture is shit and rich people are bad role models for whole society and usually neglect or spoil kids rotten and have audacity to speak about own shit parenting and laugh it off.

I have a relative in real life who is a rich guy. He has spoiled his son rotten and he has no proper routine, left school, did not complete graduation and still does no stable job or work and thinks he will inherit dad's business. Theae guys brag about staying up late and watching Netflix all day or partying outside or sleeping till noon.

Rich people have faltu lifestyle and have gall to brag about it.

This reminds me of a 2000 interview by Saif also bragging about partying all night, sleeping at 8AM and waking up at 2PM.

These guys are rotten influence on society.

Originally posted by: atominis

Aamir himself admits he was a shitty family man. The bar is so low that you drag Aamir?

He himself keeps crying and blames himself for not being there for his kids and blames himself for Ira's mental health issues and says it is too late for him now and he cannot bring back those years of his kids' lost childhood.

He has rotten relations with his own dad, brother and is divorced twice and dumped a kid out of wedlock in London and also never acknowledged Jiah Khan as his half sister nor spoke for her justice.

You really want to compare to Aamir of all people in terms of family? 🤣

Anyway Aamir's kids have not landed up at rave parties nor went to jail. So shut it.

Nargis was another one who never bothered to monitor Sanjay and spoilt her only son rotten and she knew he was into drugs and bad company but hid it from Sunil Dutt for a long time. Sunil came to know about it when it was too late.

So much for these housewives being seemingly better moms. I was responding to someone who commented about Jaya leaving work to focus on kids. A housewife does not always mean kids will be raised right. Reena does not work professionally if I am not mistaken. She was not able to handle Ira all by herself. Nargis was housewife but we all know how Sanju baba turned out. Gauri is housewife and one can see where her son landed up or what kind of company he keeps. Yogita was a housewife but her son Mimoh was into drugs, domestic violence and charged for sexual abuse. Neetu was a housewife yet her son was a philanderer and druggie, drunkard. Zarina Wahab was a housewife yet we all know what Sooraj Pancholi is.

My response was to the member who spoke of Jaya leaving work or working parents being too busy and their kids getting into clubbing or bad company or drugs etc. Not every housewife is like Jaya who is able to discipline and monitor kids and raise kids who are not druggie, alcoholic, philanderers or landing up at jail or rehabs or rave parties. It depends on WILL of parents to enforce discipline and impart good values and be good role models themselves and TEACH kids how to handle self, avoid bad company and wrong places and handle own independence with responsibility and accountability. I am glad Ash is protective of Aaradhya too. Pretty sure her daughter will not be caught in weirdo viral MMS with other star kids like Navya was. Her mom is there to teach her well.

Most richie rich types have shitty parenting and mangled family values. This is what some members were discussing here. Making it SRK vs Aamir is a joke. Aamir's son is not a a druggie yet nor jailed or seen in viral MMS with other star kids. His daughter Ira has anxiety but did not do anything wrong herself. So no comparison.

So now you're going to spread fake stories about a viral MMS?

Sorry, not going to talk about Aamir or his kids because they're irrelevant.

So it is for rich people only

Does Ajay Devgan not know about this?

Why does he keep quiet?

Why does he not intervene and warn Nysa against that older man who is using her?

Also, where was Dharmendra and what did he do to intervene in Esha's issues as a dad? Too drunk himself to know whereabouts of daughter?

Why do these posts focus on only moms and not dads?

If mom is negligent perhaps or unable to monitor or guide kids then why dads not step in and do the job?

You yourself mentioned Aamir's kids. I did not. I only replied back.

Aamir's wives have never been caught at Berlin airport with drugs either nor are known to be cokeheads.

Better to be irrelevant than gain relevance through drugs, jail, rave parties.

The MMS is real and Navya herself spoke about certain pics and videos of hers that were leaked and should not have been there online. Her own words in her podcast gave away what she was hinting at.

I can understand embarrassment and SHAME felt by fans having to call everything fake. All cases, all arrests, everything is fake. Yeah right.

What has Junaid done? Never heard of Junaid at rave parties or jailed or arrested or his MMS leaked with other starlets. He was topper of his college and school and a state level chess champion.

His mom raised him and kept him away from limelight and her ex husband.

Amused how desperate fans of other stars try to call other star kids bad for sake of face saving.

Ira has done nothing wrong either. Having anxiety is not a crime. She is happily married now. Never caught at rave parties or in MMS or any controversy.

Keep false equivalence to yourself. Ira and Junaid are lucky their mom kept them away from limelight and celebrity culture and was never caught at airports with drugs herself and she was also highly educated and a college topper in her own time.

Ira has anxiety due to her dad leaving her mom when she was too young to understand divorce. For that, Aamir has criticised himself and deserves to be criticised too. No one defends him. He himself admits he was not there for his kids as he should have been.

But his kids are not druggies or jailbirds either. Thanks to Reena keeping them away from Bollywood and media.

Originally posted by: atominis

You yourself mentioned Aamir's kids. I did not. I only replied back.

Aamir's wives have never been caught at Berlin airport with drugs either nor are known to be cokeheads.

Better to be irrelevant than gain relevance through drugs, jail, rave parties.

The MMS is real and Navya herself spoke about certain pics and videos of hers that were leaked and should not have been there online. Her own words in her podcast gave away what she was hinting at.

I can understand embarrassment and SHAME felt by fans having to call everything fake. All cases, all arrests, everything is fake. Yeah right.

Oh please. That MMS was fake . Go see properly. They weren't Aryan or Navya .You'll find plenty of such fake vids of Bollywood stars on YT .They are as real as the Aradhya autism rumor .

@atomnis

Nobody cares about Amir or his kids. Aryan is Hot and Popular 😂 That's why even fake rumors are talk of the town. Everything he does like opening a clothing line creates buzz . Keeps India Forums alive

I feel everyone is being highly unfair towards the duo. So what if they are selling 24k ka tshirt and 2 lakhs ki jacket?

Yeh sab kharidne ke baad 5k ka rumaal (handkerchief) bhi toh bech rahe honge, aansoo pochne ke liye. What a classy booger it would be that would be cleaned by this royalty of kerchiefs.