Loving the image vs loving the real - Page 5

I am kinda surprised with the serious and thought provoking answers this post has...

Although I have no hope for Navra... Even though I agree it one of the most progressive and beautiful relationship if executed properly. But yrrkkh3 have a weird fetish with soul love...

I now think that AK want to move on... That is the only thing that is confirmed...

Will she able to move on.. or will she regret moving on is for future

I find Harshada growling OTT. It’s just perception, and to each their own .

HC is a good actor plus abhiM is supposed to be angry young man kind and having different shades. We have seen abhiM personality over the period of time , while nav just recently and promoarily in the do good and laid back kind of guy, so if he is suddenly angry then it’s a stark change: I really liked his anger when abhi asked him Akshara back, and also the subtle sterness he brings about when abhiM was late for abhirs appointment:

I like both of them jay and HC. Same caliber but differ in looks maybe. But what I love actually is the chemistry between the two actors , I like watching their scenes and their friendship, sometimes more than navshu.

I agree that beyond a point opinions on acting are quite subjective .. there are a few scenes where I have thought HC was over the top .. like that part between finishing the heart on the tree at mask festival and him shouting Akshara I love you .. that in between falling and running etc was not something I connected with, similarly a scene whete Abhi is driving with Mahima for the Tilak , his expression seemed a little manic to me .. but 98-99% of the time I find Harshad Chopra to be an amazing and nuanced actor .. so the few instances where I felt otherwise I overlook .. I like HC , I think he is an amazing actor although I am not much of an Abhimanyu supporter in gen3 .. I like Jay Soni, but to me that hospital scene didn’t connect .. it is not because I wanted him to growl and break things .. but something in his eyes didn’t seem right to

Me in that scene .. seemed slightly manic or over the top .. to me .. the rest I loved reading the different interpretations of the two pairings here

Originally posted by: focus7

I find Harshada growling OTT. It’s just perception, and to each their own .

HC is a good actor plus abhiM is supposed to be angry young man kind and having different shades. We have seen abhiM personality over the period of time , while nav just recently and promoarily in the do good and laid back kind of guy, so if he is suddenly angry then it’s a stark change: I really liked his anger when abhi asked him Akshara back, and also the subtle sterness he brings about when abhiM was late for abhirs appointment:

I like both of them jay and HC. Same caliber but differ in looks maybe. But what I love actually is the chemistry between the two actors , I like watching their scenes and their friendship, sometimes more than navshu.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Loved reading everybody's thoughts...

Whatever kind of love existed between abhira , it's not there now ..so why even compare ? Akshu has moved on , she cherishes the past 6 yrs and wants to forget what happened before that ...but the fans are still stuck up in the past and expect all their actions to be for each other and with each other ...it's clear that the writers intent is totally different ..

Akshu didnt sing ..now she started singing.

Akshu didnt confess..now she proposed abhinav

Akshu was running away from the past..now she is facing it .

Akshu not Wearing sindoor ms ..now she does

Akshu not married to abhinav ..now she is...

Still some of us say that she is delusional in her haply world. Where is the delusion? It's real . She IS happy.

If she talks calmly to abhim , doesn't react to his stupidity some will say "oh ..wow..she still has feelings for abhim" ..some expect her to not do anything while abhim tramples upon her feelings and puts his fatherly affection above to do whatever he pleases...she has every reason to feel insecure , terrified and over cautious bec of abhimanyus actions..

Abhim wants to spend time with abhir. Sorry but no sorry, he can't spend every min with abhir , it was possible only if akshu was still his wife.

Yes ..she did love abhimanyu will all her heart but where did it lead to ? Why would she stupidly repeat that mistake again with abhinav?

I love the way Dkp demolishes all fan theories. 😆 People used to write essays that Akshara is not really married to Nav, she's faking it, no MS, no sindoor, she is not her real self, no singing blah blah blah. And makers made sure to negate all these arguments one by one. Sometimes I think makers really hate AbhiRa fans for some reason. 😆

When Akshara and Abhimanyu loved each other, it was madness. Abhimanyu loved the image he had of her and Akshara loved the man who made her feel secure after years. There was passion, there was fire. But it was not permanent. Because they never took time to understand their real selves and dived head long into this relationship. Result, it burned them and it burned everybody around them. Undoubtedly, AbhiRa were toxic for each other and for everyone around them. This is why I don't want them to come together again. Because if they do, it will again hurt them and their dear ones. There will be more MUs, more fights, more separation and more hatred. And this time, two innocent kids will also suffer unnecessarily.

With Abhinav, everything was real for Akshara. She knew the real Abhinav and he knew the real Akshara. They lived together as strangers, then as parents to a child and now as husband and wife. Throughout this journey they both learned about each, their likes and dislikes, their flaws and strengths and in short, they both know each other inside out. And after knowing each other, they got into this relationship. That is why it can stand the test of time. They stand by each other, understand each other even without communicating and always find their way to each other. In the hospital, they argued with each other like how husband and wife does. They got angry and said some words. But they understood immediately where each went wrong and apologized to each other. In Abhir's party, when he ran to Manyu, Akshara and Abhinav immediately held each other's hand. They knew the other was tensed without saying a word or sharing a glance and offered silent comfort. That is the sort of relations that last a lifetime and offer one peace and happiness.

Akshara has slowly moved away from everything related to Manyu. Today her singing Piya Tose song for Abhinav is the biggest sign of it. She has gotten over a broken relationship. If it wasn't for Abhir's illness, she would have wanted nothing to do with it ever again. She is over Abhimanyu Birla, over the love they once shared and has move ahead to a beautiful relationship. Right now, she's afraid Dr. Birla and the toxicity he brings with him. She is afraid it will ruin her family, her peaceful existence. I don't know where anyone finds love in this.. all I can see is fear of a toxic ex.

Hi Krinya! I love how you look at the story.. and think we share similar perspectives.

Would love to hear you on this:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/163194529

Thanks!

Originally posted by: lagjagale

It really depends on what kind of love you want. I do not agree with Abhi's love being like umar kaid, I really feel like that is something Ak said just to hurt Abhi. The thing is, everything from the first year is now being reevaluated and reimagined in a bad light. If you actually go and watch those episodes again with an open mind, maybe you can capture the feel of those moments again.

Love at first sight is beautiful but difficult and uncertain and requires a lot of faith. Of course, it also happens without fully knowing the other person. This does not mean that you are in love with an idea of the person. It's just that you love them despite knowing nothing much about them, and you want to learn. Abhi did do this and had a lot of faith in the concept of love itself. His whole idea was that he loves Ak, and that should be enough, he should be enough for her. Ak did not have faith in their love because, yes, it is all about faith. She gave a higher priority to her old relations, which is nothing wrong. At the end of the day, Abhira chose each other, imagined a life with each other, had dreams and wishes, and fought for their love whenever they could.

Their problems were like any young couple's problems, minus all the tragedies. The tragedies tested their love, and they failed because, honestly, they had no time to develop their relationship. Both were at fault during both the leaps/ divorce tracks. They both loved each other, but it's not enough to love someone, you also need to understand them. They never could understand each other because they never got a chance. Each time, there was a huge tragedy, and they were separated.

Ak-Nav, I am honestly baffled by. First, I have no issue with the slow-burning deep sort of love. But that usually happens when a friendship already exists and evolves into something more. That is not what happened here. As it is shown, Navshu co-existed for six years and managed the household and Abhir's upbringing together, but that is all. They weren't shown as being friends or even confidantes after six years. Does it take that long to be comfortable with someone and to allow them into your life? Even Nav was forced into the realization that he love Ak after six years by Neelamma for making the family permanent.

And you are saying that Nav fell in love with Ak after knowing her faults and everything, so it's a lot better. But how exactly does he know Ak? Ak kept everything about herself guarded from him. Never told him about her past or her anything, really. I am not just talking about Abhi, she never had any conversations with him about her family or about how she used to love music or anything. He only knows the version of Ak, who is angry at Abhi, and that anger defines her. In his view, he loves her not for who she is but for how she has made his life. If you listen to his monologues when he was in "love".

Abhira were in love with each other, despite being different people. Abhi liked a lot about Ak beyond just her music. Ak also liked a lot about Abhi beyond just his love for her. They were terrible together, and always hurt one another. But they liked each other despite that and still wanted to be together.

Nav likes Ak because she is what allowed him to have a family and the life he always wanted. Ak likes Nav because he allowed her to be free of the accusations and blames in Udaipur and gave her a safe haven without judgement. They like how they feel with each other, not each other.