Moving on...part 1

I am exploring AKs journey with AbhiN from the moment she asked him to be Abhir's papa.

1. In this relationship, AK is the one who is the decision maker and AbhiN is the reciprocator.

2. After experiencing the sincerity of AbhiN towards child, she decided to make him Abhir's papa. The decision was a result of complete absence of AbhiM when the child needed the most and a kind of loss of hope that AbhiM would take her back in his life.

3. She was very clear that AbhiN can be a coparent but not her lifepartner. Even though dejected she could not think of loving someone else. By saying, 'Aap mere jeevansathi nahi ho sakate..', she took the freedom, to have someone in the heart while fulfilling all other duties of marriage and parenthood. Thus flew 6 years.

4. AbhiM's visit to Kasaul challenged this status co. AbhiN is person who is shown to believe, ' Jo karna hai woh karana hai' how much ever pain that causes. He indirectly suggests her reconciling with AbhiM and they three are the real family not him. But, AK rejects this proposal vehemently. She loves her peaceful Kasauli home over roller coaster ride with Birlas and is angry with AbhiM for not even realizing what blunder he has done. You get to see AK's first snap from AbhiM. However, it is still only a start.AbhiN asks her if she is sure that they are the family. To which she says 'yes'. Even then she is with the idea of coparenting nothing more. AbhiN by now has started wanting more than being coparent. With AKs denial to go back to AbhiM has strengthened AbhiN's hopes, but he is fine with the status co too. He fears loosing familly more than loosing AK.

5. Then comes the Udaipur stay. AbhiN stand with her through all the accusations and blaming and cares for how she feels. May be he does what she expected AbhiM to do when they were together. That mellows her heart.Bade papa make her realize that such support can't come from someone who is coparenting but someone who loves and cares for her. This is ice breaker moment. For the first time, the idea of considering AbhiN as more than coparent entered her mind. It was still toooo feeble but it did. Eventhough she says it is not decision of heart, it is not without heart too.