Loving the image vs loving the real - Page 4

Originally posted by: DevilHere

This would be so dumb if he suddenly had some skeletons in his closet kinda situation....he had 6 years to show his true colors....for all means nd purposes he could be serial killer nd would've murdered ak by now if that was the case....maybe some information about him that even he didn't know

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I love how much extrapolation the Navshu fandom does. First, all of itv is based on soul love, so I am kind of confused. Abhinav didn't attract Ak in any way or form, I doubt he still does. If Abhira were a teenage love type, then Navshu is a rebound relationship type.

Firstly stop assuming that I belong to any fandom. Secondly , whatever is said about akshu and abhinav is based on their 6 yr relationship and not the day they met or some particular day when akshu decided to take it forward . Extrapolation is what is being done to abhiras relationship post leap when there is actually none. Rest I won't comment on as I don't want to repeat myself ..like I said , my views r based on what is shown and not how I want to see it.

Actual romance.. actual intimacy..bec you see love confined to just this...relationships without romance and intimacy also workout and they r just as loving as any other relationship...abhinav loved akshu all these years without any expectation to be loved back , he was selflessly loving her ..she gave her a family and bacha in return is utter nonsense , without them , he was still the same person..kind and compassionate ..abhira relationship had only romance and intimacy , that's why it was weak . Akshnav has everything excluding cliche romance (coz cvs have been dropping hints that akshu has accepted him , they're sleeping on the same bed so u never know..they never shows abhira consummation as well ) so it's still complete.

I so much agree with you Krinya. I love to interprete as I see it and not what I wish to see.👍🏼

I agree .. not with the usage of the word chomu .. I honestly am not a fan of calling him driver, chomu, baccha chor etc.. but I do think that Jay Soni is very limited in the range of emotions he can portray .. his anger, tashan etc all sort of fall flat .. and while I don’t have any hatred towards AA and I want him to remain AA or predominantly AA - I don’t mind shades or insecurity etc .. but there is no chemistry between Akshara and AA .. they seem friends at best nothing more than that.. I am not saying these characters cannot have a good relationship or lead a good life without chemistry .. there are many couples who do in real life .. but I liked Abhira for the magic they brought onscreen .. I am still hoping for a reunion that will be good and long .. although I am defly tram Akshara.. I don’t like there being no Akshara in the 6 years .. from Abhi fans it is like white day was an aberration and it is a crime to not remember the memories before that and anything good and cute is all Abhimanyu’s genes and nothing to do with her upbringing and now makers are turning everything into Abhinav did everything although they themselves have shown how Akshara was equally or more involved .. these things I do have issue with .. and right now she is being uncharacteristically tensed even for simple things like a parent swap in a game .. don’t know why they have to show such things .. I know this post went everywhere .. but..

Jay as an actor is not being explored. Abhinav as a character right now doesn’t have to show many shades like abhiM because his character is very straightforward. We are supposed to get a naive seedha Sasha aadmi vibes, I think that’s where they are going.

Chemistry tho depends on the viewers and their choices. Plus akshnav as a couple they haven’t gotten any romantic scenes, that were as wel directed and time invested as abhira. What I loved between them is their understanding and their nok jhoks and how he tries to make her laugh and put her to ease. I am glad abhinav is the way he is because already Akshara is so tense, imagine if she has to always be scared on how abhinav will interpret, she will probably combust soon. The Kausauli scenes were so peaceful to watch and it’s very rare in itv to have such family moments.

Abhira personally it’s just my PoV felt like a teenage phase and sorry for saying this a bit nibba nibbhi kind only cos they lacked the depth . it was beautifully shot, and directed that very lil effort from actors is needed to bring the spark or chemistry.


Like if abhira get together now they would show a much better a lot more mature version of abhira, with better understanding . And I feel makers are paving way for that.

anyways I will stop when Sharma family breaks. But makers do have a plan. It will be slow cos ofc they want to drag it as much as possible as long as they get TRPS

I felt the few scenes where he was showing anger etc were totally over the top and didn’t really have the desired impact on me.. I am sure there will be people who liked it .. but those scenes made me feel

Like his range is very limited .. and yes I am hoping for a mature and beautiful

Story for Abhira this time around .. and I am definitely.not saying I want Abhinav’s personality to change and be more angry etc ,. Just said I feel Jay Soni as an actor has limitations .. no complaints about Abhinav being accha.. I am glad he is .. but I would like some credit to Akshara in front of all the people who rejected and trashed her and treated her like dirt and put everyone else above her I am including all gorillas snd Abhi here .. I want them to see how much there is in that girl that they should have valued .. but Akshara as a character has always been short changed I feel .. so nothing new .. looking at how little anyone in her life values her there are times I have felt they should ist cliff her and Abhi can marry whom ever including Nav and take his son and have the kind of life he wanted without the person who is panauti to everyone .. but that is neither here nor there .. and then I feel

Like that would be more like the bad people winning etc and so don’t want to ask for that .. but really easiest solution for everyone’s problem is to kill Akshara..

Originally posted by: focus7

Jay as an actor is not being explored. Abhinav as a character right now doesn’t have to show many shades like abhiM because his character is very straightforward. We are supposed to get a naive seedha Sasha aadmi vibes, I think that’s where they are going.

Chemistry tho depends on the viewers and their choices. Plus akshnav as a couple they haven’t gotten any romantic scenes, that were as wel directed and time invested as abhira. What I loved between them is their understanding and their nok jhoks and how he tries to make her laugh and put her to ease. I am glad abhinav is the way he is because already Akshara is so tense, imagine if she has to always be scared on how abhinav will interpret, she will probably combust soon. The Kausauli scenes were so peaceful to watch and it’s very rare in itv to have such family moments.

Abhira personally it’s just my PoV felt like a teenage phase and sorry for saying this a bit nibba nibbhi kind only cos they lacked the depth . it was beautifully shot, and directed that very lil effort from actors is needed to bring the spark or chemistry.


Like if abhira get together now they would show a much better a lot more mature version of abhira, with better understanding . And I feel makers are paving way for that.

anyways I will stop when Sharma family breaks. But makers do have a plan. It will be slow cos ofc they want to drag it as much as possible as long as they get TRPS

I get what your saying in terms of akshara. But I never liked akshara pre leap, but post leap I love her and she has been getting impactful scenes and best dialoguesXNow the focus is on two dads, so they want to distinguish that . Akshara turn to shine will come during the court cases

I believe the love Akshara has for Abhinav and the love she had for Abhimanyu are also poles apart.

With Abhimanyu, it was passion and madness, the kind of love you fight the world for. They fought, they shouted, they struggled, but at the end, there was a fire between them which eventually burnt out or can say, burned everything around them. It started strong and ended as strongly.

With Abhinav, it's a more calm kind of love, the kind of love you fight your inner self for. They fight, but for each other. They struggle, but together. They rarely shout at each other. There is no fire between them, but a warmth that keeps each other comfortable and safe.

Both these kinds of love exist in real life, some people are in passionate relationships and some are in simple, sweet relationships. The love they feel for their partner is not defined by the passion or the sweetness, but rather by what is in their own heart, what they feel.

I also believe Akshara genuinely loved Abhimanyu, that's why she sacrificed so much for him. With Abhinav, she loves him as much but it's more of a silent sort of love. She is doing everything to safeguard her family, and I don't think she will sacrifice anything this time.

With Abhimanyu, it was first him then herself.

With Abhinav, it's first her family then everyone else.

Just my opinion!

Originally posted by: PenguinBaby

I believe the love Akshara has for Abhinav and the love she had for Abhimanyu are also poles apart.

With Abhimanyu, it was passion and madness, the kind of love you fight the world for. They fought, they shouted, they struggled, but at the end, there was a fire between them which eventually burnt out or can say, burned everything around them. It started strong and ended as strongly.

With Abhinav, it's a more calm kind of love, the kind of love you fight your inner self for. They fight, but for each other. They struggle, but together. They rarely shout at each other. There is no fire between them, but a warmth that keeps each other comfortable and safe.

Both these kinds of love exist in real life, some people are in passionate relationships and some are in simple, sweet relationships. The love they feel for their partner is not defined by the passion or the sweetness, but rather by what is in their own heart, what they feel.

I also believe Akshara genuinely loved Abhimanyu, that's why she sacrificed so much for him. With Abhinav, she loves him as much but it's more of a silent sort of love. She is doing everything to safeguard her family, and I don't think she will sacrifice anything this time.

With Abhimanyu, it was first him then herself.

With Abhinav, it's first her family then everyone else.

Just my opinion!

Bold: Just loved your description.

Loved reading everybody's thoughts...

Whatever kind of love existed between abhira , it's not there now ..so why even compare ? Akshu has moved on , she cherishes the past 6 yrs and wants to forget what happened before that ...but the fans are still stuck up in the past and expect all their actions to be for each other and with each other ...it's clear that the writers intent is totally different ..

Akshu didnt sing ..now she started singing.

Akshu didnt confess..now she proposed abhinav

Akshu was running away from the past..now she is facing it .

Akshu not Wearing sindoor ms ..now she does

Akshu not married to abhinav ..now she is...

Still some of us say that she is delusional in her haply world. Where is the delusion? It's real . She IS happy.

If she talks calmly to abhim , doesn't react to his stupidity some will say "oh ..wow..she still has feelings for abhim" ..some expect her to not do anything while abhim tramples upon her feelings and puts his fatherly affection above to do whatever he pleases...she has every reason to feel insecure , terrified and over cautious bec of abhimanyus actions..

Abhim wants to spend time with abhir. Sorry but no sorry, he can't spend every min with abhir , it was possible only if akshu was still his wife.

Yes ..she did love abhimanyu will all her heart but where did it lead to ? Why would she stupidly repeat that mistake again with abhinav?