Originally posted by: firewings_diya
but still he is alive and has a good career. Irrespective of what problem she had it was with harsh and she belongs to old gen where ppl tolerate abuse and carry on for their child that's what shefali did too but she never let her situation to impact abhi's studies as he is still a renowned surgeon. Once she settled abhi's life she was convinced enough to divorce him and she divorced him too now she is living as a queen and her son is also renowned doctor.
Ps: not saying akshu should have tolerated but akshu taking life threatening decision was not because she was abused by abhi. She was not hit by abhi. She herself pushed her kid into fire. So manjari sacrificed herself for her kids by tolerating abuse where as akshu sacrificed her kids to keep her guilt away so. Manju> akshu as whatever she did it's for her kids as a "Mother".
See now you're bringing akshu up, I didn't.
Anyways..I'll still stick to mummy for the time being.... A good and successful career can't take away the fact that he is a pathetic excuse of a human being . And the major factor contributing to it is his childhood trauma ..his conditioning is such that he is untrustworthy, aggressive and egoistic...all his childhood years and adulthood , he saw how his submissive mother was abused by his father ..he took upon his father's traits subconsciously ..
Thx for bringing up shefali. She was sensitive enuf to not let her child suffer her abusive marriage .
Same with akshu. If akshu stayed in marriage , went bk to abhimanyu with one baby , that would make her manjari part 2...bec abhimanyu the person/poopy/son/jeth is very different from abhimanyu the husband..abhimanyu the husband is remote controlled by his mummy.. ..instead , akshu successfully shielded her son from the toxic environment and raised him well..he will have a successful career also and good values also
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