TERE BIN - Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali DT# 65 "Ab Bure bhi Nahi Lagte" - Page 49

Originally posted by: Moonks

Oh, Go and celebrate Eid🤗

but I miss you😒

Sameeeeee.🤗🤗🤗.. that's why I took a break after 3 days of Eid 😆

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

JUST IMAGINE IF I DIDN'T FIND OUT TILL TOMORROW

That's impossible!! We would have pulled you into the same page as us 😉🤣

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Hmmmmm

Originally posted by: midniteangel

Agar script leak karna hain toh, I need paisa.. 😎

Pay me and I will give you the answers 🤪

Tere pe koi barossa nahin mujhe

Originally posted by: Moonks

I understand what you are trying to say but Meerub may be rude but she is not insensitive or insensible, she too reacted according the situation, yeah sometimes she took it too far especially with Murtasim but she was not totally wrong. Forgive me if I am coming as an insensitive person but financial sufferings are too different from what she suffers, Meerub was 25 years old when she came to know that her whole life and what she believed until now was a lie, I am of the same age as Meerub and if someday my parents is going to tell me that they are not my parents and I am with them only because I am an unwanted person for my real parents then I too would react like her. Meerub was brought up like a princess like you told but her problem is not related to that lifestyle and that’s totally wrong to judge her on the experience you faced, and about Murtasim he was brought up like a leader he was supposed to be so if he is being understanding then the credit probably goes to his upbringing. And I am not comparing anyone of your’s pain as it would be wrong to do that and neither I am undermining anyone’s sufferings but both the situations are different and would definitely result into different type of traumas and experience. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. And I am sorry in advance if it’s offensive in any way

No you haven't offend me kusum. I understand your point. I just didn't mention financial suffering, because I have suffered emotionally a lot too because that's life and everyone goes through it. Financial sufferings are actually pretty easy to endure in all honesty but the behavior of people around and their disrespect is sometimes frustrating and sometimes traumatizing. It's a test of life which either makes you succumb to feeling low of yourself or you either emerge stronger than before with new found confidence. It's a test which I have gone through not for once but for several times, so I can understand her trauma too and I don't have problem with it.

My problem is with Meerab's attitude with Murtasim, if she had the same attitude with everyone around than I would have understood her but she only disrespects him. Maryam, Haya, Rohail haven't even done the least Murtasim has done yet she treats them better. I mentioned it above that now she is exaggerating her problem because she should take a decision about her life now. She is playing with Murtasim according to her will, becomes kind when needed and disrespects him when she feels like it and I am done with her about it.

My only problem is her attitude not ideology. Either she changes her attitude or walks out of the relationship with grace, but make a decision. As I said that I'm very realistic and doesn't waste my time in what ifs of past. I want her to appreciate the good she has and strives to make her life even better but she disregards every good she has and that's wrong as it comes in the category of ungratefulness. If she would show even a minimum of respect to Murtasim, then I will appreciate that as well and look forward to her more efforts, but she became unreasonable now. What does she want? I can't understand and why isn't she trying to make her life better is also something I can't fathom.

Stucking in your past and becoming delusional is immaturity because it leads nowhere but destruction, that's what life has taught me. The faster you move on, the better because time stops for none and we must utilize our time for the best.

Kusum have you watched Yakeen ka safar? If not then you must. I admired the female lead in that serial. She was a very real character who seeked freedom and fell in the trap of a pervert. She lived her entire life in a cage, went through immense emotional suffering, lost her parents, was harassed again and then she was abandoned by her family in the middle of the night. Despite these sufferings she didn't become stuck in her past, instead she started to put efforts in making her life better and proving her worth. She appreciated even the minimum good she has, she didn't resort to putting blame of her miseries on those who weren't involved.

Words aren't enough to prove your worth, you must have some actions to make them believable and that's what Zubiya in YKS did whereas this is the same thing which Meerab lacks.

I hope you understood my point ❤️

Originally posted by: Moonks

bilkul maa par gayi hai🫣

😲😲😲

Maa is richer than you 😜😏😏

Originally posted by: Moonks

That’s like my daughter😎

☝️I hope this clears everyones confusion about my parentage 😎

Originally posted by: Moonks

you took it as that, if only you would have read what I wrote you would have understand and can we please finish this conversation, you can think whatever you want to think about this and me but I really can’t do this anymore❤️

U claimed it is meerab responsibility

When I mentioned she tolerated haya nonsense, MB taunts in the family who treats her as just someone's wife.

I too don't wanna converse further ✌️♥️

Originally posted by: Moonks

I was saying that for many of you it may be a bare minimum but for those girls who have grown up in an environment where they do every single thing for boys, it’s not something regular or a minimum things.

@Bold: I am writing about this only. The environment where the girls saw their elders doing that. And them learning that. That is the environment where the elders taught the girls with their actions that when a man does a bare minimum then the girls need to appreciate it.

Originally posted by: Slender-Rose123

No you haven't offend me kusum. I understand your point. I just didn't mention financial suffering, because I have suffered emotionally a lot too because that's life and everyone goes through it. Financial sufferings are actually pretty easy to endure in all honesty but the behavior of people around and their disrespect is sometimes frustrating and sometimes traumatizing. It's a test of life which either makes you succumb to feeling low of yourself or you either emerge stronger than before with new found confidence. It's a test which I have gone through not for once but for several times, so I can understand her trauma too and I don't have problem with it.

My problem is with Meerab's attitude with Murtasim, if she had the same attitude with everyone around than I would have understood her but she only disrespects him. Maryam, Haya, Rohail haven't even done the least Murtasim has done yet she treats them better. I mentioned it above that now she is exaggerating her problem because she should take a decision about her life now. She is playing with Murtasim according to her will, becomes kind when needed and disrespects him when she feels like it and I am done with her about it.

My only problem is her attitude not ideology. Either she changes her attitude or walks out of the relationship with grace, but make a decision. As I said that I'm very realistic and doesn't waste my time in what ifs of past. I want her to appreciate the good she has and strives to make her life even better but she disregards every good she has and that's wrong as it comes in the category of ungratefulness. If she would show even a minimum of respect to Murtasim, then I will appreciate that as well and look forward to her more efforts, but she became unreasonable now. What does want? I can't understand and why isn't she trying to make her life better is also something I can't fathom.

Stucking in your past and becoming delusional is immaturity because it leads nowhere but destruction, that's what life has taught me. The faster you move on, the better because time stops for none and we must utilize our time for the best.

Kusum have you watched Yakeen ka safar? If not then you must. I admired the female lead in that serial. She was a very real character who seeked freedom and fell in the trap of a pervert. She lived her entire life in a cage, went through immense emotional suffering, lost her parents, was harassed again and then she was abandoned by her family in the middle of the night. Despite these sufferings she didn't become stuck in her past, instead she started to put efforts in making her life better and proving her worth. She appreciated even the minimum good she has, she didn't resort to putting blame of her miseries on those who weren't involved.

Words aren't enough to prove your worth, you must have some actions to make them believable and that's what Zubiya in YKS did whereas this is the same thing which Meerab lacks.

I hope you understood my point ❤️

and I haven’t watched YKS but I will do whenever I get the time from TB😆