GHKKPM Daily Updates and Discussion Thread # 107 - Page 11

V is a DCP. His family has power. BK is MLA.

V had options to adopt Vinu even though he wasn't married if he really wanted to. He could have weilded his influence on orphanage staff. Especially because it was an institutional requirement, not legal one for V to be married in order to adopt.

V could have also been shown marrying P but not actually allowing her to be his wife like he did with Shruti. Vinu could have been told his mom died and V is his parent.

If V has the right to "move on" so does Sai.

If V thinks he is ok to "move on" with the very woman because of whom Sai left the House and ended up presumed dead along with Vinu then clearly he cares 2 hoots for Sais feelings. Her last words before she "died" were to not see P in CN. And he responded by calling her mahaan, bff etc.

Why didnt he ask mohit/K to adopt on paper but in realiyy he'd have been the parent.

If he only married P for compulsion why didn't he continue to live separately and just hide it from Vinu. If he's been pretending to have a normal relationship with P for Vinus sake why not go the full length. Pretend they share a room and bed but not for real .

If kids can deal with the confusion and unconventional aspect of VP being married when Sai is their biological mother, surely they can also deal with another man in Sais life. This will make them realize that men and women are equal. Both can remarry and move on.

Sai and Satya will not negate Vs haq on kids as their biological father but kids can definitely have another paternal figure in their life to look upto. Vinu likes Satya already. Savi will too. He's a nice guy. Importantly he's mature, well qualified and a good influence on kids. He's not looking to take Vs place. He will make his own place. He can be a friend, mentor.

if P has to be accepted as maternal figure, why not Satya as a father figure.

Why should Sai have stayed in a marriage or returned to a man who didn't even respect her reproductive rights, her choices, her wishes. She wasn't being unreasonable when she said she does not want a criminal and a surrogate to exert haq on HER child. Even after bail, P could have been asked to move out and make something of her life. But Sai was asked to compromise on her safety and self respect.

Despite everything Sai has endured she's mature enough to let bygones be bygones and focus on peaceful coexistence and co parenting. Thats the reality of their situation. But even that these people will not do. She is kind enough to acknowledge that even if as a cruel twist of fate Vinu ended up adopted, he found his way to his biological family and she is grateful to V and P for her caregiving even though she has negated all good done for Vinu by keeping her insecurities and personal grudges above her so called childs mental health. Despite her crass behavior which has threatened Sai's self respect and career, Sai is being civil ONLY because she acknowledges that Vinu is attached to her and any action against P will hurt Vinu a lot. If P falls in Vinus eyes he will not trust people , he will feel hurt, broken and it will really impact his life. So just for that reason she is accepting P as a maternal figure in his life but she also wants her own valid haq on HER son. She wants her place, not to take Ps place.

However P has still manipulated the situation. Instead of talking to Sai and figuring out a co-parenting strategy she has decided to now flip from making Sai rakshak instead of jadugarni. Sai is giving her a role in Vinus upbringing despite her being unworthy of such consideration but P wants to rob Sai of her valid haq on her child.

Sai is tolerating a lot only for her kids but she's constantly put on a chopping board to be viciously attacked.

If she accepts she has residual soft corner for V and reconciles, she will be called home wrecker, characterless and Vinu will hate her- this time for good.

If she chooses her self respect, decides to be with another man who can be her friend, companion then she is accused of being selfish, uncaring of kids.

If she chooses to live alone with kids, she is blamed for not letting kids bond with their biological family.

If she chooses to live alone , leaving kids behind then she will be foolish for sacrificing to unworthy people and letting kids grow up in a toxic place like CN.

So irrespective of what Sai does she's going to be insulted.

But V despite any bashing is justified in anything he does because he's a man. He can do whatever the F he pleases.

Ye lecture wale bhaisahab kahin to dekhe lag rahe hai

Kahin ye wahi Rat lover to nahi? Virat-Paapi k dukh peeda essay likhne wale?🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Sab07

Will he really get that?

Sai had no one by her side- here Virat is going to have PL to cry on always and even rub her in Sai’s face if needed.

Karma thing is Bull Shit- even now most affected person is Sai. She will have to watch Virat push her kids with PL.

Now he is worried about PL while divorcing her. He is going to crawl back to her like a sick puppy. In name of friendship or whatever.

He will never truly understand what he did to Sai and it will never be the same because he is not loosing anything - he has his family, his kids and his pyaari cheez to worry n care for him always.

Makers again will show Sai loose everything but somehow Virat will emerge victim.

Well, at least now, Sai will have Satya by her side. Unpopular opinion, but Pakhi and Virat deserve each other and they are the true OTP of the show. Virat does not deserve Sai and after all the PL did in terms of scheme and plotting for Virat, she deserves this. They deserve each other.

Because after the way Virat and Chavans treated Sai, especially BK, I would hate to see her go back to them. I was astounded by how Virat and BK thought after all this, they could just ditch PL and go back to Sai as if nothing happened. First time I felt bad for PL, BK ditched her the min she could not have her own bio kids.

Let them be stuck with PL and hopefully, she has a good marriage and relationship with Satya and someone who will stick by her. The only thing will probably be that she will have to share custody of the kids with Virat and PL.

Unfortunately they were already married by law because of all that drama happened there and it was just a pooja where he took shapath agni ko sakshi maanke aisa kuch that he will be following his duty as husband after that accident which he didn't in all these years and nothing else it wasn't like he was about to marry a lady officer when he had a daughter and a son with Sai when Sai was in a relationship with someone else in past because of certain situations came in her life that resulted this which is not even true bond just fake and only for Savi's adoption and how can she break that family when Virat suddenly came after these many years and he didn't informed about being alive and was having Vinayak a child of Sai with him but he never informed Sai. I just swapped their positions and yeah when you say that Sai was alive and Savi was their, his daughter so why did he do that for sai being alive and him marrying to a woman is not even a point because they were already married but Virat didn't give her anything as wife that was the point and nothing else and if you are saying this wrt honeymoon or something everyone knows that PL's medical condition was not to do all that it was just a trip in the name of honeymoon use ullu banaya aur wo ban gayi PL even everyone knows that Virat will never gonna do anything like this with PL and it can be understood with the view that he still not giving anything to PL and if you are talking about wronging Savi then Virat in that state could have done only co-parenting for her with Sai which Sai also restricted to only weekend he was unfortunately part of two families first with PL and his adopted child Vinu and the other one with Sai and his daughter which he got to know after this many years so he was performing his duty towards both the families so how he wronged with Savi when Sai herself didn't allowed Virat to let Savi know about the truth of him being her father previously it was due to fear of losing Savi and later Virat's marital status.....I am not saying that Sai will be wrong by moving on in her life but what Virat did was in a misconception that Sai is no more and no child of him were involved in all that but when Sai will be doing something here it will gonna affect both their kids and specially Savi. Virat started moving further when he got to know that Vinu is also their child so he is allowed to leave PL and be with his family poor PL wrt destiny or karma whatever you say because he was handling two sides generated unfortunately but will be generating her two ends on her own this is where everything stucks

Originally posted by: Nja91

V is a DCP. His family has power. BK is MLA.

V had options to adopt Vinu even though he wasn't married if he really wanted to. He could have weilded his influence on orphanage staff. Especially because it was an institutional requirement, not legal one for V to be married in order to adopt.

V could have also been shown marrying P but not actually allowing her to be his wife like he did with Shruti. Vinu could have been told his mom died and V is his parent.

If V has the right to "move on" so does Sai.

If V thinks he is ok to "move on" with the very woman because of whom Sai left the House and ended up presumed dead along with Vinu then clearly he cares 2 hoots for Sais feelings. Her last words before she "died" were to not see P in CN. And he responded by calling her mahaan, bff etc.

Why didnt he ask mohit/K to adopt on paper but in realiyy he'd have been the parent.

If he only married P for compulsion why didn't he continue to live separately and just hide it from Vinu. If he's been pretending to have a normal relationship with P for Vinus sake why not go the full length. Pretend they share a room and bed but not for real .

If kids can deal with the confusion and unconventional aspect of VP being married when Sai is their biological mother, surely they can also deal with another man in Sais life. This will make them realize that men and women are equal. Both can remarry and move on.

Sai and Satya will not negate Vs haq on kids as their biological father but kids can definitely have another paternal figure in their life to look upto. Vinu likes Satya already. Savi will too. He's a nice guy. Importantly he's mature, well qualified and a good influence on kids. He's not looking to take Vs place. He will make his own place. He can be a friend, mentor.

if P has to be accepted as maternal figure, why not Satya as a father figure.

Why should Sai have stayed in a marriage or returned to a man who didn't even respect her reproductive rights, her choices, her wishes. She wasn't being unreasonable when she said she does not want a criminal and a surrogate to exert haq on HER child. Even after bail, P could have been asked to move out and make something of her life. But Sai was asked to compromise on her safety and self respect.

Despite everything Sai has endured she's mature enough to let bygones be bygones and focus on peaceful coexistence and co parenting. Thats the reality of their situation. But even that these people will not do. She is kind enough to acknowledge that even if as a cruel twist of fate Vinu ended up adopted, he found his way to his biological family and she is grateful to V and P for her caregiving even though she has negated all good done for Vinu by keeping her insecurities and personal grudges above her so called childs mental health. Despite her crass behavior which has threatened Sai's self respect and career, Sai is being civil ONLY because she acknowledges that Vinu is attached to her and any action against P will hurt Vinu a lot. If P falls in Vinus eyes he will not trust people , he will feel hurt, broken and it will really impact his life. So just for that reason she is accepting P as a maternal figure in his life but she also wants her own valid haq on HER son. She wants her place, not to take Ps place.

However P has still manipulated the situation. Instead of talking to Sai and figuring out a co-parenting strategy she has decided to now flip from making Sai rakshak instead of jadugarni. Sai is giving her a role in Vinus upbringing despite her being unworthy of such consideration but P wants to rob Sai of her valid haq on her child.

Sai is tolerating a lot only for her kids but she's constantly put on a chopping board to be viciously attacked.

If she accepts she has residual soft corner for V and reconciles, she will be called home wrecker, characterless and Vinu will hate her- this time for good.

If she chooses her self respect, decides to be with another man who can be her friend, companion then she is accused of being selfish, uncaring of kids.

If she chooses to live alone with kids, she is blamed for not letting kids bond with their biological family.

If she chooses to live alone , leaving kids behind then she will be foolish for sacrificing to unworthy people and letting kids grow up in a toxic place like CN.

So irrespective of what Sai does she's going to be insulted.

But V despite any bashing is justified in anything he does because he's a man. He can do whatever the F he pleases.

I agree with what you have said. These people are hardly the first people to get divorced, remarried, and co-parent. If kids can understand PL and Virat being married, they can understand Sai and Satya. I think if Sai gets married and kills all hope of Sai and Virat reuniting, finally maybe PL will be (somewhat) normal and co-parent with Sai. Because I agree with BK that her problems stem from the fact that she is insecure about her position with Virat. If she knows Virat will remain with her. then I think she will have fewer issues and not be completely crazy.

Unlike what BK is saying, I think the best solution is Virat-PL to be together and Sai to remarry. Because kids are already used to this. Savi actually never asked for Sai and Virat to be together, so the best is to maintain the status quo. If Virat is unhappy, then he should have not married PL. Now he has to lie in the bed he made.

Originally posted by: Sab07

This is what Vankar wanted to convey- and he is doing it, the undertone in execution is this only- Sai is jad of all musibat in my Virat’s and kids life.

Vinayak the poor child was saved by Fate and landed in CN and in hands of good mother- but who will Save Savi from brash Sai? Look she has been tagging her along wherever she goes. Savi too deserves selfless PL n Virat as parents, who despite everything keep supporting each other for their kid- unlike Selfish Sai.

PS: Remember when I keep bringing back that promo with Virat blaming Sai’s zid for leaving preleap and separating Vinu from family - They want to blame Sai for everything, since then and subtle narrative has been like that only.

Yeah it is sad but the truth if they really want to blame Sai for everything then they are wrong.....

As expected- All drama and build up for Virakhi.

Log SaiYa n Sairat me ladte rahege and waha Virakhi banta rahega.

reminds me of Welcome movie ka dialogue- Ghodo ki race me ab gadhe daudenge bhi aur jeetenge bhi

https://twitter.com/startvuk/status/1643284587571822592?s=46&t=3WoiHtpTBfojdNi7r9Z9KQ

agree 100%

JEEZ. its so frustrating that they keep showing or referring to P as some sort of messiah or angel, "rescuer" who helps V and sorts things out. V makes bad choices, she is a selfish manipulative &%^$## and the person suffering due to their actions is Sai who gets demeaned and blamed for everything.

Originally posted by: Sab07

As expected- All drama and build up for Virakhi.

Log SaiYa n Sairat me ladte rahege and waha Virakhi banta rahega.

reminds me of Welcome movie ka dialogue- Ghodo ki race me ab gadhe daudenge bhi aur jeetenge bhi

https://twitter.com/startvuk/status/1643284587571822592?s=46&t=3WoiHtpTBfojdNi7r9Z9KQ

Ofcourse real couple wants that only.....

Originally posted by: Nja91

agree 100%

JEEZ. its so frustrating that they keep showing or referring to P as some sort of messiah or angel, "rescuer" who helps V and sorts things out. V makes bad choices, she is a selfish manipulative &%^$## and the person suffering due to their actions is Sai who gets demeaned and blamed for everything.

Why to blame pakhi dear? This man child always need her shoulder to cry...