Originally posted by: Neha_S
Why doesnāt she accept it then?
Meerab doesnāt accept it for a few reasons and let me try to articulated this to the best of my ability.
Forced/Coercion
This marriage wasnāt one she wanted. She fought against it. She fought so hard that she had to lose her identity and her parents before she accepted it. Accepting him means she accepts that what her parents did was right in the end. And sheās not to take that lightly.
Loss of freedom/ambition
For her being the Khanam isnāt something great. She doesnāt like the rigid shackles that this title places on her. Nor does she want to accept the feudal system or itās guidelines- that she canāt speak up against KMK even when heās doing something wrong- she is in a situation where her career aspirations and her dreams, her previous free life all are lost for this marriage.. and she canāt just let it go
Fear
For all her mujhe dar nahin lagta- sheās scared of Murtu and always has been. Sheās scared because he has all the power and she has none. He can literally toss her from the balcony and no one can do anything-
Anwar to meerab - if he leaves your side
Meerab- even you canāt do anything?
When she starts dancing at the walima and she sees him all angry- she backs down- because deep down sheās scared he will hit her- yes thatās how she sees him regressive and dominating- and violent.
When he makes her wear the chain and sheās being sassy one line from him shuts her up and she mellows down. When sheās harassing him about Haya touching him, ar one point sheās looks at him and backs down- did I cross a line?
Mere andar ka jaanwar tum sambhal nahin paogi
Mere qiyamat tum seh nahin paoogi
Etc etc
There are countless examples whereby itās evident that she fears him- she fears that there is suppressed violent side - that might materialize anytime.
Haya
Who wants a toxic cousin in love with your hubby? Who is doing all that she can and get away with him and your hubby in many ways encourages her?
I wouldnāt want this marriage if there was this third party issue too
Toxic In laws
MB only gives a shit when sheās preggers- at other times she slapped, humiliated. Kicked out etc etc
No relationship with sis in law
Hayaās issue is given no importance she regularly badmouths and insults meerab and gets away with him