What would u do at Anuj's place? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

Let’s see, I for one would give them the option of me or her. If he could not decide, I would do it for him. Your grown kids do not count as they need me excuse.🤦🏻‍♀️😂

Grown up children do need their parents too. Because not everyone has smooth life. Some may have setback in relationship or career or marriage etc. Some may have gotten cheated like Kinjal whose mother is always there for her.

Some children may be facing depression or health issues. Parents r always a source of strength.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Grown up children do need their parents too. Because not everyone has smooth life. Some may have setback in relationship or career or marriage etc. Some may have gotten cheated like Kinjal whose mother is always there for her.

Some children may be facing depression or health issues. Parents r always a source of strength.

How often is Rakhi there to support? Not every day you do not need your parents. I have three adults kids with jobs and life. I do not get involved in their issues nor do they come to me or their dad with their issues.

At some point you have to act grown up and deal with your own issues. My kids are educated with college degrees and can manage their lives so can the idiotic adult kids of Anupama and Vinrij.

Originally posted by: naaznin

I believe if I was at Anuj's place n I don't like my husband going to ex sasural n meeting ex wife i would confront right there n won't wait for things to fall apart. Also by no chance i would go to current husband's ex sasural to celebrate festivals everytime.

Also i would clearly give them choice to chose between me or ex sasural..I would give ultimatum rather than walking away.

Marriage is not a joke to run away to avoid fights. Its a legal binding.

Children can come n stay n meet their father but toxic ppl not allowed on clear cut terms.

Also i would be happy if my foster kid gets reunited with her biological mom n is happy.

Can't make a topic on "what would u do at anupama's place" because i can never imagine myself as anupama n listening to all curses n making khichdi for same person n celebrating festivals n calling them mother n waking up at 4am so everyone can take rest🤣

Too bad ...you are not mahaan......aapka mandir nahi banayenge hum log...😎

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

How often is Rakhi there to support? Not every day you do not need your parents. I have three adults kids with jobs and life. I do not get involved in their issues nor do they come to me or their dad with their issues.

At some point you have to act grown up and deal with your own issues. My kids are educated with college degrees and can manage their lives so can the idiotic adult kids of Anupama and Vinrij.

U have normal kids with normal life. But not everyone's life is smooth.

Like in dimpy's case they showed it was so easy to get justice but in reality it's too tough n case runs for years. For fighting cases the petitioner herself gets harassed. Kinjal case was also shown too easy. In normal cases she would have to fight case to punish her husband n get divorce.

My cousin had fought for dowry n domestic violence case n her father used to attend every date with her for years from police station to court he was there for her. If her parents would not have supported her she might not have gotten the strength.

Parents support is always needed in such cases.

This is a reason why u will see so many young ppl doing suicide. They have no one to share their issues. They r unable to handle the stress n when they feel they have no one for support they take dangerous way. We all need friends n family for support.

Originally posted by: naaznin

U have normal kids with normal life. But not everyone's life is smooth.

Like in dimpy's case they showed it was so easy to get justice but in reality it's too tough n case runs for years. For fighting cases the petitioner herself gets harassed. Kinjal case was also shown too easy. In normal cases she would have to fight case to punish her husband n get divorce.

My cousin had fought for dowry n domestic violence case n her father used to attend every date with her for years from police station to court he was there for her. If her parents would not have supported her she might not have gotten the strength.

Parents support is always needed in such cases.

This is a reason why u will see so many young ppl doing suicide. They have no one to share their issues. They r unable to handle the stress n when they feel they have no one for support they take dangerous way. We all need friends n family for support.

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

I agree on this. Very true. It is very hard to fight for justice in reality. I meant in the case of these three stupid spoiled kids of Shah do not need their mother for every issue. Being an adult means being responsible for your own life.

Originally posted by: inlieu

And when Rakhi wants to help with Pari, and give her all the attention, they refuse that help and insist on Anupama. Nonsense!

There are so many stupid thinking of theirs out there, I can’t keep up with including this stupid jewel🤦🏻‍♀️. Especially with Baa. It has to be Anupama who must save her family after all it is her family she is saving. Her family, her responsibility and Anupama agreed it was. Now here we are.🤬