For a change - Page 4

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

One thing I feel is it's just not serials/writers but how viewers see it also need to change. With so much SM presence Twitter, YouTube, insta and thankfully I don't follow any, there is so much fandom wars. People are obsessed with actors and only want to see them. Characters and actors are not separated. Even good characters not getting accepted because of screen space. It's with very every serial not just this. After bade acche took leap people fight why prachi is getting more than pihu or vive versa. There was little in Bollywood before with Khan wars but serial runs for several years and it is made up of all characters. They need to show that imperfect lead sometimes so people can connect. There are 1000's Abhimanyu in real life and kudos to Harshad how he is playing so well that we can connect such toxic relationships. If you ask me I love Harshads acting anytime more than Jay but loving Abhinav for a change as it's rare to see positive character but he is called boring.

Let's say even if they bring all this changes are people really going to accept it or fight for who is getting more ss

15 years before it was not like this. We used to watch TV chandrakantha, or yeh rishta season 1 , koi apna saa, kyunki and I don't even know if there was not any "Sidey" vs " lead" discussion. Varsha was loved by some. Akshara by some and Kirti by few. But now go to YouTube insta, twitters open any videos comments are filled with fan fights.

@bold underline : this is exactly me.

❤❤ You summed up everything what i wanted to say since long. These fandom wars are the reason, i try to avoid instagram fanpages and twitter.

Currently I don't wanna see them (Akshu-Nav) together. But I don't want to See AbhiRa together. 🤦🏻‍♀

I don't know with whom i will like them again after their all antics. 🤷🏻‍♀🤷🏻‍♀

Hey agree, ipkknd also had beautiful sibling bonding and less toxicity with a male centric story, but the ph there was scared by the fans so much that they couldn't utilise their creative liberties fully well and hence lesser progression of other characters and over reliance upon the leads only. Finally they had to shut the show owing to narrow scope for the story beyond the ml and fan pressure.

Also regarding sibling bonding, all the people in the world may not have exemplary bonds with their siblings. Still it doesn't mean they despise or scheme against each other burning within due to jealousy either. IMO life is all about balancing situations and relations when the relations aren't well. Eye for an eye makes the whole world blind and forgiveness, kindness are the traits which run the world. For that nobody should become mahaan it just needs a bit of empathy, humanity and sympathy. I like your idea want to see if they can bring in a solid male lead trauma centric story in future because men also do suffer and their stories also should be heard.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I want gen 4 to be concentrating on abhir than a girl child.

Enough of showing that girls are jealous of each other.

Sisters are sautan of each other.

Sisters are obsessed over one ml

Sisters leave her house to get tortured in toxic sasural.

I want something different where abhir is in trauma and girl comes to his house and gets him out of his trauma. Enough of making girls as if villains of each other.

How many sisters in real life goes gaga over a ml.

How many sisters in real life hate each other to the extent that they will snatch their happiness and even try to kill them.

Itv is putting all relations in badlight including.

Girls as sisters - shows like yrkkh, albela, chasni, naagin 6.

All these shows showed sibling turned negative out of jealousy and doing unimagined things to put other sister down.

Girls as friends - parineeti, swaragini, silsila showed friends turning sautan for a ml.

Most of shows show saas and bahu fighting for one ml to get his attention.

Can we stop showing womens going gaga over a male. Is it too much to ask from itv writers. Can we have career oriented women with no interest in marriage pursuing her career and helping other womens and supporting them in building their career. Than above crap.

Can we have shows where a girl came out from a bad marriage adopts a kid and raises it against all odds and tells it to society that a girl need not be married and can take care of herself and her kid.

Can we have shows where two girls help each other to come out of their abusive marriage and start a new life as buisness partners and invent something in life.

Can we have shows where sisters stand by each other and shows to the world that sisters are not jealous of each other.

Can we have shows where male characters struggles are show and peoples expectation from him. And his state of mind.

Can we have shows where a bonding between daughter and father is glorified.

Can we have show where mother and son bondings are glorified.

Can we have show where brothers standing by each other and helping in thick and thins against the manipulation of everyone including their wifes.

Why every relation has to butchered in the show. Can we have shows which are closer to reality.

Can we also show nuclear family how a girl manages her work between and her personal life which shows ml has to equally help fl in household work.

I do not mind limited series but have some content than just adding mu and divorce and seperation and kids.

Originally posted by: Hetvi_12

@bold underline : this is exactly me.

❤❤ You summed up everything what i wanted to say since long. These fandom wars are the reason, i try to avoid instagram fanpages and twitter.

Currently I don't wanna see them (Akshu-Nav) together. But I don't want to See AbhiRa together. 🤦🏻‍♀

I don't know with whom i will like them again after their all antics. 🤷🏻‍♀🤷🏻‍♀

Thanks dear ❤️ Honestly mujhe bhi kisi mein interest nahi Raha..Navra. Abhira who cares .TRP who is getting who cares....we are not getting money for supporting one and not other and neither the actors care honestly.... Even harshad said once in interview why people spend money to send us gifts I don't understand when they can spend on their loved ones.. They are crazy..Just whatever clicks watch it and stay away from obsessions. If this increases we can never enjoy any serial. slowly Forum is also becoming like other fan pages..I think it was my good decision to stay away for few months... Thought Abhinav is worth discussing character so came back but now no interest left.. Hope he dies soon and Abhira unites as bechare well written character Abhinav ko bhi god, cringy, toxic pata nahi Kya Kya bana rahe hai. If this is not enough, Jays acting skills are also made fun of.

Thode funny posts padlo from known people and enjoy than getting into anything.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I want gen 4 to be concentrating on abhir than a girl child.

Enough of showing that girls are jealous of each other.

Sisters are sautan of each other.

Sisters are obsessed over one ml

Sisters leave her house to get tortured in toxic sasural.

I want something different where abhir is in trauma and girl comes to his house and gets him out of his trauma. Enough of making girls as if villains of each other.

How many sisters in real life goes gaga over a ml.

How many sisters in real life hate each other to the extent that they will snatch their happiness and even try to kill them.

Itv is putting all relations in badlight including.

Girls as sisters - shows like yrkkh, albela, chasni, naagin 6.

All these shows showed sibling turned negative out of jealousy and doing unimagined things to put other sister down.

Girls as friends - parineeti, swaragini, silsila showed friends turning sautan for a ml.

Most of shows show saas and bahu fighting for one ml to get his attention.

Can we stop showing womens going gaga over a male. Is it too much to ask from itv writers. Can we have career oriented women with no interest in marriage pursuing her career and helping other womens and supporting them in building their career. Than above crap.

Can we have shows where a girl came out from a bad marriage adopts a kid and raises it against all odds and tells it to society that a girl need not be married and can take care of herself and her kid.

Can we have shows where two girls help each other to come out of their abusive marriage and start a new life as buisness partners and invent something in life.

Can we have shows where sisters stand by each other and shows to the world that sisters are not jealous of each other.

Can we have shows where male characters struggles are show and peoples expectation from him. And his state of mind.

Can we have shows where a bonding between daughter and father is glorified.

Can we have show where mother and son bondings are glorified.

Can we have show where brothers standing by each other and helping in thick and thins against the manipulation of everyone including their wifes.

Why every relation has to butchered in the show. Can we have shows which are closer to reality.

Can we also show nuclear family how a girl manages her work between and her personal life which shows ml has to equally help fl in household work.

I do not mind limited series but have some content than just adding mu and divorce and seperation and kids.

Makers and writers need to rewatch old shows like EHMMBH, IPKKND, Sapne Suhane Suhane Ladakpan Ke, Shastri Sisters to her an understanding of how sisters are.

Originally posted by: Sakshi-deewan

This is the same show which showed Female friendships like Akshara - varsha , Akshara and one bengoli lady , Gayatri- Rajshri , Jasmeet - muskan , Tina - lisa , Tina - pungi . Sisters due like Rashmi - nandini , naira- gayu .

They have set the bar so high and now they themselves showing such things.